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My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by McLeyyin: 7:09pm On May 06, 2016
Okay I saw this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/3090136/guys-8-ladies-should-avoid
and the third point made me remember this experience I had. Ionno why some girls do this sha. undecided I met this girl during NYSC at ikeja LG. Fellow corper then. She wasn't a hungry girl (or at least she didn't appear to be one) and she's cute. So it was quite easy for me to engage her.My friend even liked her but had to back out for me. I got her contact during cds so we often just chatted. I noticed that she liked me too because even though we chatted almost every day, she still complained I wasn't chatting to her frequently enough. She even deleted me from her list at some point but apologized at our next cds for me to add her back. She probably liked drama. After a while, she started disturbing me to take her out saying things like she wanted us to have a "one on one" over a meal. That wasn't even a problem. So some day, we decided to go to the trinity mall on Awolowo way after cds. I didn't like to wear my uniform about then, so I had to go home first to change into mufti. House was around. I even got there before her so I waited a bit.
To my surprise when she got in, she came with a friend. I was like WTH? To a date that you had been disturbing me for?(in my mind sha). But I kept cool. I asked her to make an order, and of course for her friend too. We talked like I was cool with the whole thing, her friend was obviously someone I would not like to be seen with. To my surprise, they didn't even eat up to a quarter of what was served. She said the food didn't taste good. And I had spent about 18k on the three of us on the meals and drinks. That was almost the equivalent of our FG allowance oh grin Thank God for my ppa though. I dunno if they were forming or whatever. But inside me, I was mad and boiling. I managed to drop them both at Alausa sha where they took a bus. Perfect gentle man abi grin
After that day, I planned to just make out with her once and forget her. And yea, we got down once and I wanted more sha. But we were rounding up and shortly after passing out, she traveled out for her masters degree angry
Now she is still on my list but we hardly talk.
Ionno why girls do certain things cuz obviously this one no be hungry girl. Or could she be okay and still have the spirit of hunger in her?

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Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by DesChyko: 7:17pm On May 06, 2016
This is fit for a Diary. Just a story not really worth discussing about.

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Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by donbenedict(m): 7:19pm On May 06, 2016
My brother stop bein selfish, u hav tasted her cookie, whatelse do u want from her.. infact, she made u pay wella.. thumbs up..

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Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by McLeyyin: 7:31pm On May 06, 2016
donbenedict:
My brother stop bein selfish, u hav tasted her cookie, whatelse do u want from her.. infact, she made u pay wella.. thumbs up..
lmao aint even about payment for any thing. It was more like I planned a revenge cuz she did that before we got down. Another person may not get a chance at that.
Point is why would a girl bring her friend to a planned date?
Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by Nobody: 7:36pm On May 06, 2016
and your point is? undecided SMH cunny man die, cunny man bury am. You both deserve each other tongue
Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by donbenedict(m): 7:36pm On May 06, 2016
McLeyyin:
lmao aint even about payment for any thing. It was more like I planned a revenge cuz she did that before we got down. Another person may not get a chance at that.
Point is why would a girl bring her friend to a planned date?
lwkmd.... guy u r pained she chopped ur money grin
Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by Aviero: 7:37pm On May 06, 2016
Hmm.. 18k on meals and drinks for olosho.. grin
How much be 1 bag of rice abeg?

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Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by alatbaba1(m): 8:24pm On May 06, 2016
Sorry bro.

I had a similar experience wit an hungry babe some years back. We met at a birthday party, I was invited by my friend. (female course mate, married) that evening there was a lot of girls and few guys. After the party we opted to go clubbing dat night, some of the girls decided to follow us. We got talking at the club and we exchange numbers. The following week she came visiting me in ma aos. Before I could ask wat do i offer her. She was already asking for what to eat. I show her d way to d kitchen, she refuse cooking she insisted I buy food because a fast food joint was opposite ma aos. I did cos of d punny. After eating we watched football together at my place, before the end of the match a friend called me to a bar down my street to discuss some issues. She followed me to d bar. Before i could say jack she don order for Fayruz, I ordered for harp too. Every time i call for another bottle she will too. She drank 5 Fayruz dat evening. I was so ember razed to my bone. The annoyance made me delete her no immediately at d spot, coupled to Hw she was drinking coke at the club d night we met made me conclude she is a dam hungry girl. Coke in dat club was 1k, babe drank 3 bottles of coke without any spirit in it.


I jst played a gentle man. Told her she is not the type of woman I tot she will be. That this thing can work between us.

She realized her mistake but it was too late because my mind was already made up.


Next time we met at another gathering, she was so composed and we'll mannered.

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Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by MRBrownJ: 8:29pm On May 06, 2016
@McLeyyin
let me not waste your time and be brutally honest with you, and excuse my French (in advance):
these women act in such a way because of donkeys like yourself who want to impress clueless ignorant and miserable women, who have nothing to offer you, and even treat you like garbage.

A) when she mentionned having a "one on one" over a meal, you should have put a stop to her nonsense, right THEN. did it had to be over a meal? shouldnt it be in a quiet place instead, where you could talk? sadly, you wasnt thinking straight and foolishly had coochie on your mind.

B) when she came with her gf, then you KNEW she was taking you for a ride (aka mugu), so why pretending to be cool to something that we already know was killing you? that was the moment you should have acted like a REAL man, and sadly, you failed miserably, and was subsequently duped by these broke and hungry animals.

C) the reason these criminals are still defrauding clueless men like yourself is because you guys keep on paying (with a smile) for this nonsense. these hungry broke aass women know that, even if they came with 20friends, you donkeys would still pay because the last thing you want is to be seen as broke (even if it is obvious you are). there is NOTHING wrong with being broke, these women are, and thats why they expect you to pay for their meals, duh! what you should have done is STAND YOUR GROUND and tell this gal the following:" I thought we were meeting to have one on one? as i see you brought your friend along then you guys can go ahead and have dinner while i go back home. i certainly wont entertain you girls for no damn reason. call me later when you are ready to talk... and have a great evening!"

whatever she would try to say, STAND YOUR GROUND and never accept to enter such place, as the reason you are there aint valid any longer.
beware: these animals are intelligent, and they may say that "only one of them will eat" or whatever BS under the sun, but the fact is, you have nothing to do there, and the only option is to leave.

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Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by McLeyyin: 9:06pm On May 06, 2016
MRBrownJ:
@McLeyyin
let me not waste your time and be brutally honest with you, and excuse my French (in advance):
these women act in such a way because of donkeys like yourself who want to impress clueless ignorant and miserable women, who have nothing to offer you, and even treat you like garbage.

A) when she mentionned having a "one on one" over a meal, you should have put a stop to her nonsense, right THEN. did it had to be over a meal? shouldnt it be in a quiet place instead, where you could talk? sadly, you wasnt thinking straight and foolishly had coochie on your mind.

B) when she came with her gf, then you KNEW she was taking you for a ride (aka mugu), so why pretending to be cool to something that we already know was killing you? that was the moment you should have acted like a REAL man there is NOTHING wrong with being broke, these women are, and thats why they expect you to pay for their meals, duh! what you should have done is STAND YOUR GROUND and tell this gal the following:" I thought we were meeting to have one on one? as i see you brought your friend along then you guys can go ahead and have dinner while i go back home. i certainly wont entertain you girls for no damn reason. call me later when you are ready to talk... and have a great evening!.
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You went so hard bro. I think I got your point but first :
Call me all the names but I'm sure NOT a broke person.
Secondly, you do think causing a scene at that kind of place was the best thing? I doubt sha.
Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by McLeyyin: 9:10pm On May 06, 2016
Suigeneris93:
and your point is? undecided SMH cunny man die, cunny man bury am. You both deserve each other tongue
But You don't look like your wicked comment. wink

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Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by MRBrownJ: 9:46pm On May 06, 2016
McLeyyin:
You went so hard bro. I think I got your point but first :
Call me all the names but I'm sure NOT a broke person.

the point is not whether you have money to pay or not, it is about falling for this cheap EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL. that would be as foolish as her telling you:"i know you cant pay for my school fees coz you broke", and to try to impress this animal, you actually pay her school fees (aka foolishly fall for her trick). paying for that lunch is exactly the same trick, and you fail miserably, head 1st, for it. so yes, you may not be broke but you sure do have a broke man's mentality, where you wanna prove to these unworthy irrelevant woman that you can pay for their meal.
here is a clue: if you really have money, then you dont give a fukc what these worthless women think of you, and instead laugh all the way to the bank... or better yet, invite any stranger near by for a meal, to show these clueless women that it aint about the money.

Secondly, you do think causing a scene at that kind of place was the best thing? I doubt sha.

EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL again! who gives a damn what this criminals do?! you dont have to make a scene when telling this lady that you aint paying for a meal, if "she" makes a scene then have some balls and STAND YOUR GROUND, instead of paying like a whimp. its YOUR money, YOUR choice what you do with it, and since she brought her friend then the date is OFF! make her learn to RESPECT you as a man, instead of accepting that she is using you as a mugu.

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Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by Nobody: 9:55pm On May 06, 2016
**Goes down on both knee**
God, save brothers like this from making failed investments again
Amen undecided

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Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by tosyne2much(m): 10:01pm On May 06, 2016
I'm coming back... Space booked cool
Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by zanebaddo(m): 10:42pm On May 06, 2016
La believe la bend grin
Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by Nobody: 11:25pm On May 06, 2016
Suigeneris93:
and your point is? undecided SMH cunny man die, cunny man bury am. You both deserve each other tongue
Cunny... It's CUNNING, cunny doesn't exist.
Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by Nobody: 2:41am On May 07, 2016
See you lamenting here. Why didnt u tell her all these? She came with her friend and even wasted d food you paid for? Yet you said nothing. Dey dere dey form cool guy, make dem ride u finish.
Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by coursednigerian(m): 7:10am On May 07, 2016
emitoz:

Cunny... It's CUNNING, cunny doesn't exist.
Na cunny cunny love you dey do me cunny love you dey do me" i think it exists in Nigeria
Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by Nobody: 7:21am On May 07, 2016
emitoz:

Cunny... It's CUNNING, cunny doesn't exist.


it sounded better that way, the proverb is in pidgin tongue
Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by Nobody: 7:48am On May 07, 2016
Suigeneris93:



it sounded better that way, the proverb is in pidgin tongue
Lol... True, Nigerian English
Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by peedeeasobie(m): 8:18am On May 07, 2016
McLeyyin:
You went so hard bro. I think I got your point but first :
Call me all the names but I'm sure NOT a broke person.
Secondly, you do think causing a scene at that kind of place was the best thing? I doubt sha.




You are broke sir! Having few thousands doesn't make you 'loaded'.
Does it mean there is absolutely nothing better, you would have done with that money that would have been beneficial to you?
Have you ever heard or seen Dangote complaining of 'hungry' girls that he spent money on?

You should listen to his advice.... You wanted to impress the ladies and you came back here complaining.

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Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by Ranchhoddas: 8:46am On May 07, 2016
emitoz:
Cunny... It's CUNNING, cunny doesn't exist.
It's pidgin.
Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by Debbywills(f): 8:58am On May 07, 2016
OK,You asked A girl Out on a Date and she came with her friend, That has Automatically change her to a ''Hungry Girl''? Plus, did she come crying, telling you that she's hungry? And I felt You Had Your Own Fair share. Some Stories ain't worth sharing angry
Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by Nobody: 10:19am On May 07, 2016
alatbaba1:
Sorry bro.

I had a similar experience wit an hungry babe some years back. We met at a birthday party, I was invited by my friend. (female course mate, married) that evening there was a lot of girls and few guys. After the party we opted to go clubbing dat night, some of the girls decided to follow us. We got talking at the club and we exchange numbers. The following week she came visiting me in ma aos. Before I could ask wat do i offer her. She was already asking for what to eat. I show her d way to d kitchen, she refuse cooking she insisted I buy food because a fast food joint was opposite ma aos. I did cos of d punny. After eating we watched football together at my place, before the end of the match a friend called me to a bar down my street to discuss some issues. She followed me to d bar. Before i could say jack she don order for Fayruz, I ordered for harp too. Every time i call for another bottle she will too. She drank 5 Fayruz dat evening. I was so ember razed to my bone. The annoyance made me delete her no immediately at d spot, coupled to Hw she was drinking coke at the club d night we met made me conclude she is a dam hungry girl. Coke in dat club was 1k, babe drank 3 bottles of coke without any spirit in it.


I jst played a gentle man. Told her she is not the type of woman I tot she will be. That this thing can work between us.

She realized her mistake but it was too late because my mind was already made up.


Next time we met at another gathering, she was so composed and we'll mannered.



She was feeling free with you.

And you are misbehaving because of the money involved.

Anyway you dont really like her. But at least a first date should have some form of pretence or composure..
Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by McLeyyin: 10:19am On May 07, 2016
peedeeasobie:





You are broke sir! Having few thousands doesn't make you 'loaded'.
Does it mean there is absolutely nothing better, you would have done with that money that would have been beneficial to you?

You should listen to his advice.... You wanted to impress the ladies and you came back here complaining.
You can't even force being broke on me brah. Sorry.
Debbywills:
OK,You asked A girl Out on a Date and she came with her friend, That has Automatically change her to a ''Hungry Girl''? Plus, did she come crying, telling you that she's hungry? And I felt You Had Your Own Fair share. Some Stories ain't worth sharing angry
You don't have to rewrite my experience just so you can play victim for her. And I never even at any point concluded she was hungry. undecided
MRBrownJ:


the point is not whether you have money to pay or not, it is about falling for this cheap EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL. that would be as foolish as her telling you:"i know you cant pay for my school fees coz you broke", and to try to impress this animal, you actually pay her school fees (aka foolishly fall for her trick). paying for that lunch is exactly the same trick, and you fail miserably, head 1st, for it
That's the issue. I don't try to impress nobody and definitely not these girls, even if that's what it probably turned out like. The fact that she brought her friend, I didn't see that coming. I simply did what next came to mind. So it's probably easier for you to say after reading even though what you say may the best thing to do.
Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by Nobody: 10:28am On May 07, 2016
MRBrownJ:
@McLeyyin
let me not waste your time and be brutally honest with you, and excuse my French (in advance):
these women act in such a way because of donkeys like yourself who want to impress clueless ignorant and miserable women, who have nothing to offer you, and even treat you like garbage.

A) when she mentionned having a "one on one" over a meal, you should have put a stop to her nonsense, right THEN. did it had to be over a meal? shouldnt it be in a quiet place instead, where you could talk? sadly, you wasnt thinking straight and foolishly had coochie on your mind.

B) when she came with her gf, then you KNEW she was taking you for a ride (aka mugu), so why pretending to be cool to something that we already know was killing you? that was the moment you should have acted like a REAL man, and sadly, you failed miserably, and was subsequently duped by these broke and hungry animals.

C) the reason these criminals are still defrauding clueless men like yourself is because you guys keep on paying (with a smile) for this nonsense. these hungry broke aass women know that, even if they came with 20friends, you donkeys would still pay because the last thing you want is to be seen as broke (even if it is obvious you are). there is NOTHING wrong with being broke, these women are, and thats why they expect you to pay for their meals, duh! what you should have done is STAND YOUR GROUND and tell this gal the following:" I thought we were meeting to have one on one? as i see you brought your friend along then you guys can go ahead and have dinner while i go back home. i certainly wont entertain you girls for no damn reason. call me later when you are ready to talk... and have a great evening!"

whatever she would try to say, STAND YOUR GROUND and never accept to enter such place, as the reason you are there aint valid any longer.
beware: these animals are intelligent, and they may say that "only one of them will eat" or whatever BS under the sun, but the fact is, you have nothing to do there, and the only option is to leave.

Brutally honest.

I wanted taking a girl out sometime, i got there, she brought her friend along. We ended up discussing inside my car. Didnt take them nowhere. They were seriously dissapointed.

Another incident, one smallie was always calling so we decided to see. She brought her friend so i drove them to my house and they drank to their fill.

Later the girl was like why did you take me to ur house on a first date ? I was like which date are you talking about when you brought ur roomate along ?. Abi, the yoghurt and wine i gave you guys, will you drink something better in a fast food ?

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Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by Nobody: 10:38am On May 07, 2016
tosyne2much:
I'm coming back... Space booked cool

One minute silence for those brothers.

N18k in a fast food.

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Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by tosyne2much(m): 10:49am On May 07, 2016
Naughtysite:

One minute silence for those brothers.
N18k in a fast food.
The money too much for a hustling dude

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Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by alatbaba1(m): 10:51am On May 07, 2016
Naughtysite:


She was feeling free with you.

And you are misbehaving because of the money involved.

Anyway you dont really like her. But at least a first date should have some form of pretence or composure..

I was nt misbehaving. If i want to misbehave i would have done something nasty to her. I kept my cool till we get back home. Who drinks 5 fayrus at a spot? If she had been drinking beer or other alcholic drink i would hv reason with her. Can she buy herself 5 fayruz and drink dem a spot? I'm nt saying she can't afford the drinks but it's jst unnessesary, useless and wasteful spending. No sane person will do that.
Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by hahn(m): 10:54am On May 07, 2016
[size=30pt]N18,000 for fast food![/size]

Money wey go cook soup and stew plus medemede for more than a week?

Op, you are nothing but a mugu. If na guy ask you for that money you go dey claim say you broke undecided

Warning: Next time a lady asks you to take her out to eat, take her to Oyingbo, buy foodstuffs, take her to your house, either you cook or she cooks. Finish

Do not be a mugu like the op undecided

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Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by tosyne2much(m): 10:54am On May 07, 2016
Naughtysite:


Brutally honest.

I wanted taking a girl out sometime, i got there, she brought her friend along. We ended up discussing inside my car. Didnt take them nowhere. They were seriously dissapointed.

Another incident, one smallie was always calling so we decided to see. She brought her friend so i drove them to my house and they drank to their fill.

Later the girl was like why did you take me to ur house on a first date ? I was like which date are you talking about when you brought ur roomate along ?. Abi, the yoghurt and wine i gave you guys, will you drink something better in a fast food ?
Bro, Nigerian ladies are becoming so annoying lately
Re: My Experience With A (hungry) Girl During Service. by IAmshandy(m): 11:28am On May 07, 2016
MRBrownJ:
@McLeyyin
let me not waste your time and be brutally honest with you, and excuse my French (in advance):
these women act in such a way because of donkeys like yourself who want to impress clueless ignorant and miserable women, who have nothing to offer you, and even treat you like garbage.

A) when she mentionned having a "one on one" over a meal, you should have put a stop to her nonsense, right THEN. did it had to be over a meal? shouldnt it be in a quiet place instead, where you could talk? sadly, you wasnt thinking straight and foolishly had coochie on your mind.

B) when she came with her gf, then you KNEW she was taking you for a ride (aka mugu), so why pretending to be cool to something that we already know was killing you? that was the moment you should have acted like a REAL man, and sadly, you failed miserably, and was subsequently duped by these broke and hungry animals.

C) the reason these criminals are still defrauding clueless men like yourself is because you guys keep on paying (with a smile) for this nonsense. these hungry broke aass women know that, even if they came with 20friends, you donkeys would still pay because the last thing you want is to be seen as broke (even if it is obvious you are). there is NOTHING wrong with being broke, these women are, and thats why they expect you to pay for their meals, duh! what you should have done is STAND YOUR GROUND and tell this gal the following:" I thought we were meeting to have one on one? as i see you brought your friend along then you guys can go ahead and have dinner while i go back home. i certainly wont entertain you girls for no damn reason. call me later when you are ready to talk... and have a great evening!"

whatever she would try to say, STAND YOUR GROUND and never accept to enter such place, as the reason you are there aint valid any longer.
beware: these animals are intelligent, and they may say that "only one of them will eat" or whatever BS under the sun, but the fact is, you have nothing to do there, and the only option is to leave.
your advice was well understood but you went too far by insulting the poster which ism't any form of respect, it will be wise not to comment if you have none than to insult someone..

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