mostyg:



I hope ur wife is not reading this ooo

TiffanyJ:

Couples living in seperate rooms can hide things from each other and I ask myself why they decided to get married. I broke my relationship two years back when he insisted we can never share a room when we are married and I must knock his door before entering. I cnt and will never settle for such marriage.how can I call myself a married woman and still lay in a cold bed at night or start sneaking to my husband's room in the middle of the night? Surely, he must be a stranger

johnson232:

the bold got me laughing.....

i think it has to do with perception...
u can still enjoy optimal sexual life even in seperate rooms
your ex saw it from the point of privacy, not as an opportunity for secret keeping...
we all at certain point need privacy, if both parties can establish good understanding as regard their sexual life, the idea isn't bad...

TiffanyJ:

Well, different strokes for different folks. By the way what's funny about the bold words

solesy:
Hi. Pls no up date 2day?

TiffanyJ:

I am too tired to type a long update. Had a very busy day. Will try and type tomorrow

TiffanyJ:

Well, different strokes for different folks. By the way what's funny about the bold words

johnson232:

sneaking into hubby's room... hubby in return will sneak into wife's room, in their own house...

Happywoman:
IMO nooooooo.
Wat if it starts raining at night?

christopher123:
Sometimes you need space ...I have my own room....it doubles as a study also

Iffffffy:
Sometimes You just need your peace. We have separate rooms but normally sleeps in my room.

TiffanyJ:
I'm here. Anything good for me?

malton:
it's a terrible idea!

In my experience, well, not exactly a personal experience, but from what I could gather from the lives of couples leading this life, it could create some communication gap which in turn might lead to stonewalling (refusal to communicate at all).

You'll find out too soon how much you can go without each other. And before you realise it, either of you might be out cheating just as soon.

When you're not there beside her when she needs someone to cuddle and tuck her in, she'll definite seek consolation from quarters you wouldn't be quite comfortable with. That's why the phone and social networks are there.

The most memorable moments in a couples lives are made in the bedroom, not only from sex, but the little acts that gives joy. It's there that she sees just how good a person you are...it's the holy ground to get bonded.


See me dishing all these advice when I'm still only just a corper. lol.

Goodluck though!