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10 Signs Your Spouse Is Cheating by Twinkie8: 11:59am On May 09, 2016
Writing about signs a spouse is cheating doesn't mean that you become suspicious in your relationship. What this post aims to do is put you on prayer alert, guide you to put on your whole armour knowing that the weapons of your warfare are not carnal but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds even of cheating and deception. If you see these signs in your marriage, what does it mean? Watch and pray. Know where to target your prayer bullets. Better to be aware, fix before it's too late. Enter your war room and charge the atmosphere.

1. When your spouse begins to frequently change their passwords on the phone, computer, social media and even Emails, that doesn't seem ok to me. Chances are, they are trying to hide something.

2. Unless s/he is planning a surprise birthday party for you, if not why move
to a different room to answer the phone? Why shut the door to answer the phone? Why go where the conversation won't be heard. Is there a sleeping baby they don't want to wake with the telephone conversation or what?

3. Updating Social media profiles to look single is a red flag. Why would a married man or woman try to tell the world that they are single? A married man should be married even on the Internet Oh. A Married woman should be married even on Facebook and Online forums.

4. Do not be quick to jump to conclusion on this one but it happens. Your spouse' new found desire to look more physically attractive, wearing clothes that I may say look younger than their age, giving special attention to appearance unlike how it used to be. Well, it may be that your oga or madam is trying to look more professional for work but people generally take extra care of appearance when seeking a new relationship especially men.

5. If your earnings have not dropped, your family expenditure has not increased but there is a sudden pressure on you to manage money more than you used to, i.e be more economical, hmmmm, like there is no money and you wondering where is the money going? You spouse is more tighter with finances, expects you do so much more with very little, okay oh.

6. One big sign your spouse is cheating is when you find that the computer or phone History is always cleared. Why clear history regularly? what are you trying to hide? It might be for security reasons, it might also be that they are trying to cover tracks. Do you clear your computer/phone browsing history regularly for reasons other than these? let's hear them.

7. When, let's say your husband begins to keep late nights and you notice that his answers are very short like trying to cut you from talking further. na wah. He comes home, you open the door and say "welcome" Isn't he supposed to stop and respond to greetings? When there is some GUILTY CONSCIENCE, he continues walking while responding and gives you short, conclusive answers as if he meant to say "madam leave me alone, I've had a tiring evening, I need some peace and quiet"

8. I would have added skipping dinner but that doesn't work for some smart cheats o, they'll do everything but won't eat out because madam or oga will ask where they ate dinner. Some stomach space is reserved for dinner at home, so I'll skip this point.

9. When your husband starts calling names of soups you can't cook and wants to eat those, soups that even your mother-In-law doesn't know, better visit wives connection recipes, Nigerian food recipes on wives connection blog and finger licking recipes by blog readers all cooking live on the blog fast fast before one Edible Catering will overwhelm him with good food while you complain he doesn't eat well. Don't worry I'll leave links to more delicious recipes below.

10. Is s/he blaming you for everything that shouldn't even be your fault? short tempered for no just reason? He might just be trying to make you feel lousy...
SOURCE: http://www.wivestownhallconnection.com/2016/05/5-signs-your-spouse-is-cheating.html
Re: 10 Signs Your Spouse Is Cheating by Adesiji77: 11:27pm On May 13, 2016
Just passing.... cheesy

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