Hello people

I need some advice from my fellow Nigerians. My family and i have always lived in the west, born and raised.
I have visited Nigeria many times due to relatives and my own personal interest and i will like to buy a vacation apartment somewhere in the city. This apartment will be a holiday home.
I love nature and water. I have researched both cities and have also visited both cities too but cannot decide as i love them both.
While in Lagos, i am restricted to the Island therefore not so familiar with the mainland.
Many people have told me Abuja is so dry and not so good for vacation, while some also say Lagos is too rough and also not good. I wouldn't be in the apartment for more than 3 months per visit, therefore safety is very important to me.

Which will you guys suggest between Abuja and Lagos?