Hi Guys!

I need advice. Should I end this relationship? Should I remove my belongings? Or should I just come and collect my things? Or must I just forget and move on?

Last year, I moved to another part of the country. It was for work. In the North, we were building Solar Projects. I was renting a place of my own. The project was concluded November 2015. But we have another Project scheduled for later this year.  My rent expired. And I decided not to renew since Im coming back home till we hear of the new developments. A very good female friend offered that i store my belongings at her place.

Shes married with one kid. My age. She have a very big house. With plenty of space. She even said i can crash there when i come back.

So i left all my belongings and stuff there. I trusted this woman. She was supporting me in all my hardships. Becoz i knew i must return. So theres no need for me to travel with all my stuff and then return with it again

She told me that someone stole my parfume. Mind u, its not just any parfume, I have Gucci, Tommy Girl, Dior, Guess etc. And i left it in my toiletry bag. She said someone stole my stuff but she will buy it back. I dont believe her. I think she is the one using my expensive parfume='(

Now, this is the part that led me to assume that she is the one who took my parfumes

Last week, i went on whatsapp. I checked her profile photo. Low and behold. She was wearing my clothes and my leather thigh high boots!!!! Yes, without my knowledge. Its the stuff I left at her place. She did not even ask me. Chai! See this girl oooh.

I was mad! I was so furious! My head was on fire. Chai!

I asked her what is happening here? Why are you wearing my things?

U see, i know my clothes very well. My taste in clothing is very different. I recognised my boots and clothes instantly when i saw that photo. She was with another girl.

Her whatsap status was : " thanks for the nice weekend my beloved cousin. Next time its all on me"

I asked her why are you wearing my things. She said no, she was only taking photos and posing for the camera!. How stupid does she think i am? Thunder fire her yansh!

That status and photo showed that they were having a night out. Just not posing. Damnnnn. The location of the photo is not even close to her home

Now I want to know, Am I being petty and childish? Am I overreacting and being dramatic?

I feel like to end this friendship. I feel that, all these while, maybe shes wearing my other things, maybe shes using my stuff.... I need advice :-(

I'm coming pls

What kind of advise exactly
Tell her to stop using your stuff if you r not cool with it or berra still find a way to move your stuffs away.
Hard?

parfume? **yawns**

Lols and you just had to ask on Nairaland...... Get a life sis. This is not worth anyone's time. Advice is what we ask when we already know what we wanna do. Do what is in your mind.

Girls and drama. Just go and pack your stuffs and dash her the ones she has worn

Tell her op

Na so women lyf b. Just bear am cus even if u talk tire she go stil do wetin she wan do. So d next tym u dey go der carry ur property follow body comot

No be women again na una na.. even pant sef dem go share am. Bra sef.

Na every matter na him we go put mouth

Parfume? That spelling no be here o

many people have lost their sense of decision making.....Nairalanders are now special advisers.

She's an olojukokoro and friends like that are dangerous. Why can't she just ask? She's a thief, she's envious and she's not to be trusted . You should feel very violated

JeffreyJamez:
many people have lost their sense of decision making.....Nairalanders are now special advisers.

Even a whole oracle said this

Just go and pack ur things, else she will misuse everything b4 u cm back

go get your stuffs from her crib.
its that simple

You're whatever you feel; useless, worthless, violated or childish.

skarlett:



Even a whole oracle said this

The gods are tired mehn...humans wahala too much

JeffreyJamez:


The gods are tired mehn...humans wahala too much

no be small

Natascha:
Hi Guys!

I need advice. Should I end this relationship? Should I remove my belongings? Or should I just come and collect my things? Or must I just forget and move on?

Last year, I moved to another part of the country. It was for work. In the North, we were building Solar Projects. I was renting a place of my own. The project was concluded November 2015. But we have another Project scheduled for later this year.  My rent expired. And I decided not to renew since Im coming back home till we hear of the new developments. A very good female friend offered that i store my belongings at her place.

Shes married with one kid. My age. She have a very big house. With plenty of space. She even said i can crash there when i come back.

So i left all my belongings and stuff there. I trusted this woman. She was supporting me in all my hardships. Becoz i knew i must return. So theres no need for me to travel with all my stuff and then return with it again

She told me that someone stole my parfume. Mind u, its not just any parfume, I have Gucci, Tommy Girl, Dior, Guess etc. And i left it in my toiletry bag. She said someone stole my stuff but she will buy it back. I dont believe her. I think she is the one using my expensive parfume='(

Now, this is the part that led me to assume that she is the one who took my parfumes

Last week, i went on whatsapp. I checked her profile photo. Low and behold. She was wearing my clothes and my leather thigh high boots!!!! Yes, without my knowledge. Its the stuff I left at her place. She did not even ask me. Chai! See this girl oooh.

I was mad! I was so furious! My head was on fire. Chai!

I asked her what is happening here? Why are you wearing my things?

U see, i know my clothes very well. My taste in clothing is very different. I recognised my boots and clothes instantly when i saw that photo. She was with another girl.

Her whatsap status was : " thanks for the nice weekend my beloved cousin. Next time its all on me"

I asked her why are you wearing my things. She said no, she was only taking photos and posing for the camera!. How stupid does she think i am? Thunder fire her yansh!

That status and photo showed that they were having a night out. Just not posing. Damnnnn. The location of the photo is not even close to her home

Now I want to know, Am I being petty and childish? Am I overreacting and being dramatic?

I feel like to end this friendship. I feel that, all these while, maybe shes wearing my other things, maybe shes using my stuff.... I need advice :-(

I wan been comment but I. Comment my reserve. .

skarlett:

Hello Miss, hmmm!

skarlett:



no be small

Just look at this one now, asking this kind of question when the answer is very very glaring.

JeffreyJamez:



Just look at this one now, asking this kind of question when the answer is very very glaring.

She wants us to go and collect her parfum for her

KINGinVALHALA3:

Hello Miss, hmmm!

Hello Mister

skarlett:



She wants us to go and collect her parfum for her

And her boots

JeffreyJamez:


And her boots

Finally, the gods are tired

skarlett:



Finally, the gods are tired

For now

skarlett:


Hello Mister

I'm sorry for replying late, I have been occupied.
How is your night going?

KINGinVALHALA3:

I'm sorry for replying late, I have been occupied.

How is your night going?

Fine, yours?

skarlett:



Fine, yours?

Nice,
mine? awesome.

I was delighted when I clicked on your profile after coming online and noticed that you re still online.

If its not gonna cause any harm to you, I will appreciate if you grant me an audience privately.

We both know there re lot of enemies eyes on Nairaland, lol

don't worry skarkett, my discuss with you is formal and nothing more.

KINGinVALHALA3:

Nice,
mine? awesome.

I was delighted when I clicked on your profile after coming online and noticed that you re still online.

If its not gonna cause any harm to you, I will appreciate if you grant me an audience privately.

We both know there re lot of enemies eyes on Nairaland, lol

don't worry skarkett, my discuss with you is formal and nothing more.

Ok, send me a pm