25 Simple Secrets Of Long-Lasting Relationships
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Are you tryna tell me that Tiwa, Tee Billz & co. isn't aware of all u just wrote but their relationship still failed?? Padi mi Makai teeyuu, a relationship that is bound to fail must fail, no Jupiter can stop it from failing. So, leave matter for Mathais.

Wen people dating, they only try to bring out the good side of dem, and forget to discuss abt their bad sides.. which isn't right.


Ladies should always try to find out how worse her man could get. They just get all carried away by the free gifts and the niceness, instead of looking out for the important characters. They should find out how he handles anger issues, does he say rash things? Does he resort to beating? They should ask his siblings that have been living with him how he reacts... all these things just doesn't have to be swept under the carpet. You say he is your boyfrnd, hav u met his siblings yet? His cousins etc. To be in a relationship just needs recognition, people have to know you are his woman, not him only.


You also hav to find out how he handles financial issues. Is he a spender? Does he indulge in gambling eg sports betting and the likes? Does he owe people a lot? Infact there are easy ways to get all these answers. Put him to the test. A lot of girls don't just know how to ask questions. It shouldn't stop at hey how was ur day, etc. Engage in really deep conversations. Talk about politics, financial issues, health, lifestyle, fashion. Etc. Den put these case scenarios in his shoes and ask him if he were the one, what would be his opinion on it, then u get ur answers. It really gets catastrophic when such communications are swept under the rug and not discussed about. There is more to him you really don't know..



There is something i"v noticed in ladies, when u put them tru these questions, they usually get pissed off..or agitated. They be like, pls let's talk abt something else. This is so not right, I see such people as not being open minded. One year ago I remember havn a conversation with a lady, I asked her what's her opinion on intimacy, romantic conversations etc, na so dis babe just flare up, begin vex.. seems she wasn't comfortable with it, as skilled as I am in getting answers, she got to open up she just doesn't like to have these conversations with men, dat it really annoys her. She also told me she hates kissing.. I was really dumbfounded. I said to myself, thank God I just didn't show interest in dating you. She just revealed to me she doesn't like to talk abt issues. Who just does that? In this Era when communication matters a lot, someone just hates it. Woow.


Please people, there is no crime in asking questions. Ask ask ask. Even if u wish to knw she/he is a virgin, please ask. It's your right to know. Infact I ought to create a concise thread about this when the ideas keep coming.

This advice applies to men also. In vice versa

"in Buharich voice" kontunu

juz peeping out ...nothing much to discuss about it...

Well here in my country no money no party God knows I so love Nigerian gals

KashyBaby:
juz peeping out ...nothing much to discuss about it...

Whyyyyyy!!!!!

Nice one OP

Nice

Awww dis is so sweet...... Mehn I gats to start to apply some of them asap....especially the start and leave with kiss....really nid to start working on dat 1

talk2alabama:
Wen people dating, they only try to bring out the good side of dem, and forget to discuss abt their bad sides.. which isn't right.


Ladies should always try to find out how worse her man could get. They just get all carried away by the free gifts and the niceness, instead of looking out for the important characters. They should find out how he handles anger issues, does he say rash things? Does he resort to beating? They should ask his siblings that have been living with him how he reacts... all these things just doesn't have to be swept under the carpet. You say he is your boyfrnd, hav u met his siblings yet? His cousins etc. To be in a relationship just needs recognition, people have to know you are his woman, not him only.


You also hav to find out how he handles financial issues. Is he a spender? Does he indulge in gambling eg sports betting and the likes? Does he owe people a lot? Infact there are easy ways to get all these answers. Put him to the test. A lot of girls don't just know how to ask questions. It shouldn't stop at hey how was ur day, etc. Engage in really deep conversations. Talk about politics, financial issues, health, lifestyle, fashion. Etc. Den put these case scenarios in his shoes and ask him if he were the one, what would be his opinion on it, then u get ur answers. It really gets catastrophic when such communications are swept under the rug and not discussed about. There is more to him you really don't know..



There is something i"v noticed in ladies, when u put them tru these questions, they usually get pissed off..or agitated. They be like, pls let's talk abt something else. This is so not right, I see such people as not being open minded. One year ago I remember havn a conversation with a lady, I asked her what's her opinion on intimacy, romantic conversations etc, na so dis babe just flare up, begin vex.. seems she wasn't comfortable with it, as skilled as I am in getting answers, she got to open up she just doesn't like to have these conversations with men, dat it really annoys her. She also told me she hates kissing.. I was really dumbfounded. I said to myself, thank God I just didn't show interest in dating you. She just revealed to me she doesn't like to talk abt issues. Who just does that? In this Era when communication matters a lot, someone just hates it. Woow.


Please people, there is no crime in asking questions. Ask ask ask. Even if u wish to knw she/he is a virgin, please ask. It's your right to know. Infact I ought to create a concise thread about this when the ideas keep coming.

This advice applies to men also. In vice versa

Correct!