plz can somebody tell me wht 2 do, I lov her so much and so i believe she do lov me but d problem is that she always lie 2 me,recently she told me she is traveling 2 benin only for me 2 find out through her friends she is somewhere else in lagos,i'm tired of her lies

There is no way you can ever have a good relationship because the basic element is missing: TRUST. Just forget about her and move on with your life. A girl like that deserves none of your tears. Cheer up. You'll definitely find your dream girl!

yeah that totally sucks for you, geez why did she decide to lie like that, when she starts lieing like that then there is no need believing she still love you bcoz she doesn't and you are wasting your time worrying about her, i think its time to let go dude.

kick her ass

Hmm, they are mostly like that bros
and what other lies has she told lately

What a pity bro.U better kick her ass now or it`s gonna be too late later.

Dude Gal.

@melvin02

I hope you're not the melvin that came to take Lynda from me. If it is you, then you must carry on O! You must continue to tolerate because some of una guys don't know what people are tolerating before you jump in.


Well, if it's not you, then jump the chick. I hate liars. I liar can perpetuate any other sin. Theft, fornication, murder and whatever else.

@ melvin02

plz can somebody tell me wht 2 do, I lov her so much and so i believe she do lov me but d problem is that she always lie 2 me,recently she told me she is traveling 2 benin only for me 2 find out through her friends she is somewhere else in lagos,i'm tired of her lies

what's this?
this is the number one cause of break ups.
gossip. If you saw her, its ok. but her friends told you. first of all her friends are bitches, they aren't friends.
secondly ask her if its true.
trust is paramount. you're in a relationship, two of you. not five not four not three.
Always listen to your boo not some random so called friends!

@ poster please stop listening to gossip.
her friend might be envious of your relationship
thereby trying to put an end to it. wake up.
BUT if she told you and you actually went there
and saw her, tell her how you feel about lies and
put and end to it, that is if you choose to.
I don't think its ideal to be with someone you can't
trust.
one more be careful of that friends of hers.

dude when the essential ingredient (trust)is lacking in a relationship that relationship ain't gonna work. so i suggest let go of her.

Bring the matter to her attention and yes drop her its possible she's a compulsive liar and needs to take care of it one way or the other.

Some people never stop their bad habits cos nobody ever tells them the real truth about who they are or how they present themselves.

Look melvin, Sit down and listen 2 me closely. I won't ask u 2 dump her, Neither wld I ask u 2 continue. What am about 2 ask u 2 do is unthinkable bt will pay off greatly on the long run.
Lesson 1, Recreate urself: melvin. U hv 2 rebrand urself. Its suicide 2 stay in a relationship without recreating urself 4rm tym 2 tym. Its nt about d money nd u dnt need money 2 do this. U jst gotta love-vendor ur identity, ur personality, ur human relations skills, ur conversation skills,
Lesson2, Play ignorant: if u wanna win in this situation ( whether getting her bak or making her pay is winning 2 u, Wtever u define winning 2 be) den u must avoid confronting her abt her lies. Pretend 2 believe her totally nd she'll get sloppy nd make mistakes, Leaving enuff room nd evidence 4 u 2 grab d upper hand/ advantage
Lesson3, dnt hesitate : wen d time cums 2 take an action / strike, do it. Hesitate nd I will hunt u out nd personally shoot u (LOL).
Lesson4, reduce ur spending nd sugar intake: over spending nd sugar r ur worst enemies wen females r concerned. Overspend nd she'll bolt wen u hv nothing cz uv made her see money as d reason 2 be wt u, Eat 2 much sugar nd u get an increased sex hunger but premature ejaculation, Frustrating isn't it. Wt I'm try'n 2 say is, U must nt look like u want her badly. U must act aloof, in control!
Lesson 6 need step by step guidance? Check my signature below

You got to stop listening to her friends and talk to her.

Even if you found DICK in her pussy, she will denied it and claimed it is CORN WEB