So Depressed. Please Enter! - Romance

Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,160,463 members, 7,843,417 topics. Date: Wednesday, 29 May 2024 at 03:42 AM

So Depressed. Please Enter! - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / So Depressed. Please Enter! (2271 Views)

I Am / Have You Ever Been Depressed ? Please Come In And Share Your Experience With Me. / Sex Is Killing Me. Help A Depressed Lil Brother (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (Reply) (Go Down)

So Depressed. Please Enter! by MissRomantic(f): 9:36pm On May 21, 2016

I don't enjoy sex! It has ruined my previous relationships I've had three relationships with active guys. I just keep hating it, dunno why. And hell-to-the-no! I'm no lesbian. Infact, I detest them asking me out. I only find guys attractive and the only girl I think is sexy is myself. I love romance but sex is the issue. It's very annoying when the guy you finally asks you out but you just can't say yes for your own reasons yet you keep being jealous. I've tried settling this thing in my head but I don't seem to be making any progress. I need help! I'm so depressed cos it's not just about looking good, I'm gradually becoming a loner. I brought this issue here cos I'm introverted and discussing my private life with people is difficult. Pls, your advice is welcome.

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by Fynestboi: 9:37pm On May 21, 2016

Ehya

AM here to read comments.

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by iceberylin(m): 9:38pm On May 21, 2016

you like romance but not sex

YOU NEED THERAPY NOT COMMENT... undecided

4 Likes

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by SweetieConstie(f): 9:39pm On May 21, 2016

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by czarr(m): 9:41pm On May 21, 2016

...

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by Cutehector(m): 9:44pm On May 21, 2016

Do u mean the sex is always painful? Please be specific

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by UrWorstNitemare: 9:44pm On May 21, 2016

***WOMEN. D most confused creatures*** kiss

1 Like

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by julisa2020(f): 9:45pm On May 21, 2016

Hmmm... Had this same problem before.. Truth is.. It's almost impossible to find a relationship without any form of intimacy... So just be patient and get your mind off guys or any emotional crap 4nw (it's hard tho.. But try) a guy that's worthwhile will find you....

(modified)
Re you a "V bag" but just shy to say it?? Cuz that's the only reasonable explanation to hate sex

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by Nobody: 9:45pm On May 21, 2016

Look at you

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by MissRomantic(f): 9:47pm On May 21, 2016

Cutehector:
Do u mean the sex is always painful? Please be specific

Yeahh..

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by olatunjithomas(m): 9:47pm On May 21, 2016

I'm sorry for not knocking before entering. op,this is your only solution

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by RoyalBlak007: 9:48pm On May 21, 2016

Two things....

Get a vacation or Get high

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by vicstar(m): 9:49pm On May 21, 2016

MissRomantic:
I don't enjoy sex! It has ruined my previous relationships I've had three relationships with active guys. I just keep hating it, dunno why. And hell-to-the-no! I'm no lesbian. .

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by Cutehector(m): 9:50pm On May 21, 2016

MissRomantic:
Yeahh..

u see... if u didn't voice out your problem, u would hav died in ur silence. There are a lot of medications out there specially made for a dry vagina...

U need to contact www.zeevirtualmedia.com or www.doclaitan..com I believ u will get their email or phone number and reach out to them. It's easy.

Mehn.. u really need help

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by alobright17(m): 9:51pm On May 21, 2016

So what exactly do want now?

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by nwaanambra1(m): 9:52pm On May 21, 2016

MissRomantic:
Yeahh..

YOU HAVE INFECTION AND BELIEVE ME ITS GETTING CHRONIC - GO VISIT A GYNECOLOGISTS AND GO FOR THOROUGH LAB TEST.

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by jaysix(m): 9:54pm On May 21, 2016

I think this is a psychological issue, would really recommend therapy. Also try and keep an open mind.

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by cutiedave(m): 9:54pm On May 21, 2016

Women...very confused set of human beings grin

....they never know what really want

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by nwaanambra1(m): 9:57pm On May 21, 2016

Cutehector:
u see... if u didn't voice out your problem, u would hav died in ur silence. [s]There are a lot of medications out there specially made for a dry vagina...

[/s]

[s]U need to contact www.zeevirtualmedia.com or www.doclaitan..com I believ u will get their email or phone number and reach out to them. It's easy.
[/s]

Mehn.. u really need help

BRO ITS NOT DRY VAGINA - THERE IS NOTHING LIKE DRY VAGINA. SHE HAS INFECTION - THAT'S WHY INTERCOURSE IS VERY PAINFUL AND A NIGHTMARE. SHE SHOULD GO SEE A DOCTOR - A GOOD ONE AT THAT. undecided

NOW THAT DOCTORS ARE RAPING GIRLS IN THEIR OFFICE (THAT IS IF SHE IS CUTE). - SHE SHOULD GO WITH HER SISTER OR HER BRO. lipsrsealed

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by rosieluv(f): 10:05pm On May 21, 2016

nwaanambra1:

BRO ITS NOT DRY VAGINA - THERE IS NOTHING LIKE DRY VAGINA. SHE HAS INFECTION - THAT'S WHY INTERCOURSE IS VERY PAINFUL AND A NIGHTMARE. SHE SHOULD GO SEE A DOCTOR - A GOOD ONE AT THAT.

NOW THAT DOCTORS ARE RAPING GIRLS IN THEIR OFFICE (THAT IS IF SHE IS CUTE). - SHE SHOULD GO WITH HER SISTER OR HER BRO.

criozli doctors naw rape? hian

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by Cutehector(m): 10:05pm On May 21, 2016

nwaanambra1:

BRO ITS [s]NOT DRY VAGINA - THERE IS NOTHING LIKE DRY VAGINA. SHE HAS INFECTION - THAT'S WHY INTERCOURSE IS VERY PAINFUL AND A NIGHTMARE. SHE SHOULD GO SEE A DOCTOR - A GOOD ONE AT THAT.

NOW THAT DOCTORS ARE RAPING GIRLS IN THEIR OFFICE (THAT IS IF SHE IS CUTE). - SHE SHOULD GO WITH HER SISTER OR HER BRO.[/s]

mr man make use of ur google before u spew trash in here

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by hungryboy(m): 10:06pm On May 21, 2016

MissRomantic:
Yeahh..

aunty am the answer to your problems,
Let me show you why.
1)am a virgin, i never sabi woman before,
2)my dicck dey very small like China man own
3)i do not like sex too,
But if you gree give me, i go collect
4)as long as you give me food, i mean good food, sex won't be on my mind.
5)i hope say my Cv is good enough for employment as your Boyfriend?

1 Like

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by feldido(m): 10:14pm On May 21, 2016

There are some foreplays that can be helpful to make u relaxed and make u more welcoming.

Though it take alot of time and patience to achieve it.

Also there some foods that are natural Afrodisiacs, like chocolates which can add as an enhancements to the foreplays.

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by nwaanambra1(m): 10:20pm On May 21, 2016

Cutehector:
mr man make use of ur google before u spew trash in here

ok sir! thank you Sir! oga google! cheesy

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by nwaanambra1(m): 10:21pm On May 21, 2016

rosieluv:

criozli doctors naw rape? hian

if u never hearam before even for nairaland - then no be for my mouth u hear amoo!! lipsrsealed

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by Cutehector(m): 10:22pm On May 21, 2016

nwaanambra1:

ok sir! thank you Sir! oga google!

lol yeye

u sef.. me wey wan giv d babe hope with english, u come murder am with infection. Na God go judge u grin

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by nwaanambra1(m): 10:24pm On May 21, 2016

Cutehector:
lol yeye u sef.. me wey wan giv d babe hope with english, u come murder am with infection. Na God go judge u

i know ur plan na!!

who know no u for Nairaland! cheesy

go read this storyooo!!!

https://www.nairaland.com/3119806/how-friend-butchered-hes-girlfriend#45846397

as you dey spoil all the small girls for nairaland make u know say them get fatheroo!!! cheesy

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by Cutehector(m): 10:27pm On May 21, 2016

nwaanambra1:

i know ur plan na!!

who know no u for Nairaland!

go read this storyooo!!!

https://www.nairaland.com/3119806/how-friend-butchered-hes-girlfriend#45846397

as you dey spoil all the small girls for nairaland make u know say them get fatheroo!!!

relax. The bible says seek ye first the kingdom of God and all them righteousness, and other things, other things cheesy

with emphasis on other things grin

shall be added onto me

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by Menzy86(m): 10:28pm On May 21, 2016

Important question: have u ever been abused(physicall/sexually) b4?

2 Likes

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by MUVA(m): 10:31pm On May 21, 2016

Could be psychological or medical. Perhaps you've had a nasty experience in the past which is registered in your sub-conscious and you keep getting reminded each time you wanna have sex.
Could also be as a result of anxiety or "guilty conscience" during the act. But if its none of these...

Then..

There are also other causes of painful sex, like allergies due to chemicals contained in either your soap or cream, or allergies as a result of a medication you're taking for a pro-longed illness. It could also be an infection... Most likely vaginal candidiasis. If you have an infection I'm sure you'd know so I'll spare you the details of its symptoms.

Whatever the case may be, please seek medical help before it worsens and ruins your love-life.

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by agrovick(m): 10:51pm On May 21, 2016

Op's post succeeded in raising a whole lot of questions but I believe her case is psychological or probably the ninjas she has been with didn't do enough pre-intimacy to lubricate the engine room

Re: So Depressed. Please Enter! by JohnQueen(m): 10:56pm On May 21, 2016

I have a friend with same issue. I think it's natural to feel this way cos not all females enjoy insertion. You should give it time, talk with boo and see how you go from there.

(1) (2) (Reply)

I'm Married, But... / How Nairaland Babes Are Running My Iphone6 Battery Down (pic) / She Can Make You Go Wet- Watch Here

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 35
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.