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What Will Make Someone Turn Against You Suddenly But Then Claim To Love You? by mamagee3(f): 3:32am On May 22, 2016
Hi all, I just got off from work this evening and I began reading abusive texts from my male friend. He called me all sorts of names ranging from ediot to low life b!tch and everything one can ever imagine without any provocation.

It puzzles me because we just hung out two days ago. We dined out at this good restaurant and I even slept over at his house.

We even spoke on the phone yesterday evening. I just got off from work and happen to read the text which states, "How is my crazy Ogbanje doing?". This began a series of back to back insults between the both of us which is quite simply unnecessary. And then simultaneously he claimed to love me. Is this normal?

And funny thing is, he just apologized to me.

So, what exactly could be the cause of this whole problem?

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Re: What Will Make Someone Turn Against You Suddenly But Then Claim To Love You? by kirchofff(m): 3:35am On May 22, 2016
Because of ur mental issue..........try visit a psyche home

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Re: What Will Make Someone Turn Against You Suddenly But Then Claim To Love You? by Delphi(m): 3:48am On May 22, 2016
He may love you but that can't stop him from telling you that you are an ogbanje (if he actually sees ogbanje attributes in you).
Re: What Will Make Someone Turn Against You Suddenly But Then Claim To Love You? by Delphi(m): 4:10am On May 22, 2016
You just need to ask him to explain to you the ogbanje attributes he saw in you.

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Re: What Will Make Someone Turn Against You Suddenly But Then Claim To Love You? by mamagee3(f): 4:14am On May 22, 2016
Delphi:
You just need to ask him to explain to you the ogbanje attributes he saw in you.
He said it's because I hate sex.
Re: What Will Make Someone Turn Against You Suddenly But Then Claim To Love You? by faites(f): 4:14am On May 22, 2016
Are u sure ur supposed boyfriend does not have mental issues. Check well cos this is how it starts. Next thing now na beating, and this guy way dey behave like this fit beat person to death for no just cause.
Re: What Will Make Someone Turn Against You Suddenly But Then Claim To Love You? by Nobody: 4:58am On May 22, 2016
The kind of person that can beat you up seriously then apologize. Watch out
Re: What Will Make Someone Turn Against You Suddenly But Then Claim To Love You? by madone: 6:04am On May 22, 2016
that only happens when a guy suddenly discovers he is losing out. he took u to a resturant, you slept in his place nothing happened. no sex,no cuddle.he is just the good jojo boy to u. so he may be thinking he is spending the money while another person is hitting u back to back. He may not be good at making advances at sex or pushing for it, so he expects that u try compliment his effort. but when the reverse is the case he ll lock up.he ll only attack u if he disckovers u are more friendly with other guys than him or if u play fun plays with other guys.h
Re: What Will Make Someone Turn Against You Suddenly But Then Claim To Love You? by Mjshexy(f): 6:21am On May 22, 2016
This is what happens when two babies, sorry embryos are in love, the attributes u display even here on nairaland is enough to qualify you with those words, pls the guy is only being truthful, it's not about any sex u deprived him of ok sad
Re: What Will Make Someone Turn Against You Suddenly But Then Claim To Love You? by finalboss(m): 6:41am On May 22, 2016
because you ar crazy
Re: What Will Make Someone Turn Against You Suddenly But Then Claim To Love You? by obiorathesubtle: 6:52am On May 22, 2016
anyone who believes what that nutcase wrote up there is an ever bigger nutcase..
Re: What Will Make Someone Turn Against You Suddenly But Then Claim To Love You? by Nobody: 7:58am On May 22, 2016
mamagee3:

He said it's because I hate sex.
Why do you hate sex if I may ask? What makes you hate it?
Re: What Will Make Someone Turn Against You Suddenly But Then Claim To Love You? by emmyw(m): 8:10am On May 22, 2016
faites:
Are u sure ur supposed boyfriend does not have mental issues. Check well cos this is how it starts. Next thing now na beating, and this guy way dey behave like this fit beat person to death for no just cause.
From The Lady's Post, I Guess The Guy's Friends Are Pushing Him, And He Couldn't Control His Anger While Typing. Premarital Sex Isn't Good But I Will Advice That His Girlfriend Shouldn't Sleep Over Again In His House So That He Won't Be Attracted Sexually To Her While She Won't Respond Leading To Anger. And Before Anyone Can Judge This, The Lady Is Suppose To Give More Details About The Relationship, Behaviour, How Long They Have Been Dating, There is A Reason For That, Though It's Not Normal.

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Re: What Will Make Someone Turn Against You Suddenly But Then Claim To Love You? by Nobody: 8:17am On May 22, 2016
Come on bea. We all know your lying grin. But anyway it seems you called male friend is inlove with you: maybe he just wanna know how you will act if he misbehaves
Re: What Will Make Someone Turn Against You Suddenly But Then Claim To Love You? by mamagee3(f): 3:38pm On May 23, 2016
emmyw:
From The Lady's Post, I Guess The Guy's Friends Are Pushing Him, And He Couldn't Control His Anger While Typing. Premarital Sex Isn't Good But I Will Advice That His Girlfriend Shouldn't Sleep Over Again In His House So That He Won't Be Attracted Sexually To Her While She Won't Respond Leading To Anger. And Before Anyone Can Judge This, The Lady Is Suppose To Give More Details About The Relationship, Behaviour, How Long They Have Been Dating, There is A Reason For That, Though It's Not Normal.
You are right on point.

But why are his friend's pushing him?

And what for?

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