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Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by nkemjacob2(m): 8:41pm On May 25, 2016
All through my life i have lived in the southern region. I have always heard that they dont shake muslim girls but that does not sink deep into me because i have no business with them. Recently I was posted to the central north where i meant all sundries, as friends we began exchanging greetings i began to shake all my friends including girls, so I got close to this muslim girls and i offered her my hands could you believe she wasted my hand shake. I was like hey! are we quarreling? She did not reply and she walk out. Where i was brought up we shake and hug girls nothing happens. It boils down for me to ask is there anything attach offering a muslim girls a hand shake.....
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by EZEIGBO1OFIMO: 8:47pm On May 25, 2016
it is a sin, or against the teachings of the prophet (PBUH) for a Muslims to have physical contact with a man who is neither her father nor husband.
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by nkemjacob2(m): 8:59pm On May 25, 2016
Is not a sin also for muslim man and alhaji to sleep wit girls and pregnant under age girls?
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by jopretty(f): 9:03pm On May 25, 2016
Just avoid them bfore they amputate your hand oo, smile only when they smile at you and don't try to be too nice.
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by udatso: 7:07am On May 26, 2016
nkemjacob2:
Is not a sin also for muslim man and alhaji to sleep wit girls and pregnant under age girls?
Ask your pastors that do same or worse

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Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by nkemjacob2(m): 9:51am On May 26, 2016
udatso:

Ask your pastors that do same or worse
let me clear ur mind, in my religion is a sin for a person more or less a pastor to sex anyone /underage dat is not his wife. If d pastor is found sleeping wit under age i buy d idea for d law to go against him. We dont shield sin. But dis kind of practise is mostly common wit d muslim and notin happens
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by ypeace: 10:21am On May 26, 2016
nkemjacob2:
All through my life i have lived in the southern region. I have always heard that they dont shake muslim girls but that does not sink deep into me because i have no business with them. Recently I was posted to the central north where i meant all sundries, as friends we began exchanging greetings i began to shake all my friends including girls, so I got close to this muslim girls and i offered her my hands could you believe she wasted my hand shake. I was like hey! are we quarreling? She did not reply and she walk out. Where i was brought up we shake and hug girls nothing happens. It boils down for me to ask is there anything attach offering a muslim girls a hand shake.....

It is a sin in Islam.
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by ypeace: 10:25am On May 26, 2016
nkemjacob2:
Is not a sin also for muslim man and alhaji to sleep wit girls and pregnant under age girls?

This is also a sin if they are not 'islamically joined together.
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by ypeace: 10:28am On May 26, 2016
nkemjacob2:
But dis kind of practise is mostly common wit d muslim and notin happens

Provide reference or a research work that proved this.

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Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by nkemjacob2(m): 12:37pm On May 26, 2016
ypeace:


Provide reference or a research work that proved this.
let me gv u just 2. U previously heard dat an under age girl was kidnaped in bayalsa and was forcefully coverted to islam in a married way. 2. In bauchi an under age girl also was kidnaped by her uncle friend who was islam and forcefully, dey marry and converted her. Let me pause for now.
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by Nobody: 1:08pm On May 26, 2016
nkemjacob2:
let me gv u just 2. U previously heard dat an under age girl was kidnaped in bayalsa and was forcefully coverted to islam in a married way. 2. In bauchi an under age girl also was kidnaped by her uncle friend who was islam and forcefully, dey marry and converted her. Let me pause for now.
What of the pastors we keep hearing inserting their holy semen into underage girls.Let me pause for now.
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by nkemjacob2(m): 1:58pm On May 26, 2016
crusadistic:

What of the pastors we keep hearing inserting their holy semen into underage girls.Let me pause for now.
out of devilish act. His members will rebuke and beat him i.e if he did not escape it. before sending him 2 police. We dont shield sin
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by Slikbae: 2:38pm On May 26, 2016
Mumu. That some pastors did it doesn't mean it is allowed in Christianity. However, it is a norm in Islam. even Mohammed married a 6 year old and slept with her at 9. It is practiced in most Islamic countries and it is legal. Child marriage is illegal in "every" Christian country.
udatso:

Ask your pastors that do same or worse
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by Slikbae: 2:41pm On May 26, 2016
What should there be an "if"?? why should a sane human insert his dick into a 9 year old?

Religion of pedophiles, by pedophiles and for pedophiles.
ypeace:


This is also a sin if they are not 'islamically joined together.
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by udatso: 3:19pm On May 26, 2016
nkemjacob2:
let me clear ur mind, in my religion is a sin for a person more or less a pastor to sex anyone /underage dat is not his wife.
Same with my religion too
If d pastor is found sleeping wit under age i buy d idea for d law to go against him.
Seconded
We dont shield sin. But dis kind of practise is mostly common wit d muslim and notin happens
And the practise of spiling holy milk on boys and underage girls is common among your priest these days.
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by udatso: 3:25pm On May 26, 2016
Slikbae:
Mumu. That some pastors did it doesn't mean it is allowed in Christianity. However, it is a norm in Islam. even Mohammed married a 6 year old and slept with her at 9. It is practiced in most Islamic countries and it is legal. Child marriage is illegal in "every" Christian country.
I never insinuated it is allowed in Christianity. Just letting you know that if your knowledgeable priest can be guilty of this crime, why should you be surprised if an average Muslim does same too?

As for the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) marriage, that issue has been treated many times. I will dig up the links give it to you inshaAllah
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by onetrack(m): 3:51pm On May 26, 2016
Just wanted to point out that there are many Muslimahs who shake men's hands. When greeting I generally wait until they offer their hand first.
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by Slikbae: 4:14pm On May 26, 2016
Listen to yourself. Child marriages are sanctioned in Islam, particularly by your prophet Mohammed. You cannot refute that. You cannot refute the fact that Mohammed married a 6year old and raped her (statutory rape) when she was 9. You cannot change the fact that Sharia law allows it.
You saw how your Muslim elders reacted in the case of ESE Oruru. They were all in support of it.

But in Christianity, it is a big NO!
udatso:

I never insinuated it is allowed in Christianity. Just letting you know that if your knowledgeable priest can be guilty of this crime, why should you be surprised if an average Muslim does same too?

As for the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) marriage, that issue has been treated many times. I will dig up the links give it to you inshaAllah
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by SUPERPACK: 6:11pm On May 26, 2016
Slikbae:
Listen to yourself. Child marriages are sanctioned in Islam, particularly by your prophet Mohammed. You cannot refute that. You cannot refute the fact that Mohammed married a 6year old and raped her (statutory rape) when she was 9. You cannot change the fact that Sharia law allows it.
You saw how your Muslim elders reacted in the case of ESE Oruru. They were all in support of it.

But in Christianity, it is a big NO!
during pre-islamic era the age of consent was judged by the age at which a girl attained puberty (7-14)years. this marital arrangement also took place in USA until it was amended in the 20th century, muhammed could be excused for marrying a young aisha as culture demands then for both muslims- christians, jews and pagans, The blame should be on muslims who have decided to continue a practice which is out-dated, and refuse to follow the current trend.
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Remember that during that period christians where also allowed to take child bride once the parents agrees that the child has reached puberty.
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imagine how christianity will be like if we decide to emulate the life of the early popes.
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I knw that one day this child marriage of a thing will stop.

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Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by Nobody: 6:35pm On May 26, 2016
nkemjacob2:
out of devilish act. His members will rebuke and beat him i.e if he did not escape it. before sending him 2 police. We dont shield sin
The same way for example the members rebuked and beat rev king.
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by ypeace: 7:29pm On May 26, 2016
nkemjacob2:
let me gv u just 2. U previously heard dat an under age girl was kidnaped in bayalsa and was forcefully coverted to islam in a married way. 2. In bauchi an under age girl also was kidnaped by her uncle friend who was islam and forcefully, dey marry and converted her. Let me pause for now.
I read this news, but, it doesn't prove your 'theory' which are-
1. It is common among muslims.
2. Nothing happens ( when they are caught i suppose).

So I am still waiting for your reference.
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by ypeace: 7:40pm On May 26, 2016
Slikbae:
What should there be an "if"?? why should a sane human insert his dick into a 9 year old?

Religion of pedophiles, by pedophiles and for pedophiles.

you can call us whatever you feel like, it doesn't prove we are what you call us.
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You asked a question and I think you don't care for a reply because you already gave yourself (a wrong) one in your last paragraph.
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Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by udatso: 7:16am On May 27, 2016
Slikbae:
Listen to yourself. Child marriages are sanctioned in Islam, particularly by your prophet Mohammed. You cannot refute that.
Child marriages are not allowed in Islam. However your definition of a child matters.
You cannot refute the fact that Mohammed married a 6year old and raped her (statutory rape) when she was 9.

I already said I would give you links that address that as soon as am less busy to dig.

You cannot change the fact that Sharia law allows it.

Proof of this statement or forever remain silent

You saw how your Muslim elders reacted in the case of ESE Oruru. They were all in support of it.
Assuming it was a forced marriage (ese oruru's case) this what the Quran has to say about it

“Ye who believe! Ye are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should ye treat them with harshness…” (Qur’an, 4:19)

What do you mean by our elders? Since when did elders become the mouth piece of Muslims ?
What I do know is that MURIC asked For the abductor to be prosecuted. I will provide the links. Be careful of your accusations.

http://www.tv360nigeria.com/muslim-group-muric-demands-arrest-of-abductor-of-child-bride-ese-oruru/

http://pulse.ng/local/ese-oruru-muslim-group-wants-teenager-s-abductor-prosecuted-id4750405.html

But in Christianity, it is a big NO!
Same in Islam too. If the girl has attained puberty, she can get married and the marriage consummated
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by udatso: 7:19am On May 27, 2016
SUPERPACK:
during pre-islamic era the age of consent was judged by the age at which a girl attained puberty (7-14)years. this marital arrangement also took place in USA until it was amended in the 20th century, muhammed could be excused for marrying a young aisha as culture demands then for both muslims- christians, jews and pagans, The blame should be on muslims who have decided to continue a practice which is out-dated, and refuse to follow the current trend.
.
Remember that during that period christians where also allowed to take child bride once the parents agrees that the child has reached puberty.
.
imagine how christianity will be like if we decide to emulate the life of the early popes.
.
I knw that one day this child marriage of a thing will stop.
Am impressed. Honest and sincere Christians like you are hard to find on Nairaland
Re: Is There Anything Wrong Offering A Muslim Girl A Hand Shake? by udatso: 9:06am On May 27, 2016
Slikbae:
Listen to yourself. Child marriages are sanctioned in Islam, particularly by your prophet Mohammed. You cannot refute that. You cannot refute the fact that Mohammed married a 6year old and raped her (statutory rape) when she was 9. You cannot change the fact that Sharia law allows it.
You saw how your Muslim elders reacted in the case of ESE Oruru. They were all in support of it.

But in Christianity, it is a big NO!
Here's the promise of the link
https://www.nairaland.com/2146000/prophets-marriage-young-aisha

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