I've noticed many of the brides in recent weddings I've attended are not quite al that beautiful. Just average -looking girls. Some are below average. A few are head-turners. It follows then that something other than "good looks" attracted the grooms.

CHARACTER!! CHARACTER!! CHARACTER!!


Little wonder the Igbos say "agwa nwanyi wu nma ya" ~~~ A woman's character is her beauty. We also say "nwanyi na ama nma alu alu" ~~~ There are marriageable beauties.


Truly, your pretty face means next to nothing after a few months. Law of diminishing returns sets in. The more we see it, the less appealing it is and hence less enchanting.


Below are some of the reasons guys are scared to give you that ring even though your beauty is legendary.

1) ABUSIVE: Be it verbal, physical or emotional. The pitfall is that you might not realise it when you're exhibiting your rabid dog traits. Any sensitive guy will definitely take note. It's unladylike to strike someone or ready yourself for a bout. Never hurl insults. You could be doing yourself great disservice. Nobody likes ms Aggrre


2) DRESSING / APPEARANCE : Sweetheart we know you think you're a good person deep inside.... but we don't walk around with hoes and shovels. People make judgements about your person based on the evidence available to them. Your dressing, ornaments, speech, carriage, poise et al are things you should pay a big attention to.

3) HOT-TEMPEREDNESS : No adult need be hot tempered. But it's worse off when it's a lady. Your man needs you to be the soothing balm that will calm down his raving nerves when tempers fly high. BIG DISASTER if your temper goes on and off like NEPA light. Be slow to anger, it's a virtue you need


4) BE FRIENDLY. Nothing much to say here.



You all can add more.


Dear sweeries, work on these traits if you're culpable in any.

Your looks are not enough. RAISE YOUR GAME.... RAISE YOURSELF.

Okay

exactly! they won't come and get knowledge now.

even if u like talk from now till eternity, some ladies will never listen. na their life o

ladies come and receive sense from this post. Its not by doing contour..