This story started 2008 when met my friend's younger sister in yenagoa, she was a nice person who I could spend my life with so I asked her our but she refused me. I even told her brother (my friend) who spoke with her but no way was the answer, this continued till 2013 when I went for my NYSC. I did my NYSC in kogi where I met my wife now and started a relationship with her, during this time my friend's sister was still not ready for a relation so I stopped asking her out.
my wife and I got married in June 2015 and are happily married, two weeks after my marriage, my friend's sister came to say she thought I was joking about my proposal of a relationship that my led to marriage and that she like me but I refused but she continued for almost a 8 month so I agreed to send her money although her school but will not have sexual relationship with her and I have been doing that foe some time now.
LAST WEEK SHE CALLED THAT SHE HAS ACCOUNT DETAILS OF ALL PAYMENT I HAVE DONE AND THAT IF I DON'T MAKE LOVE TO HER SHE WILL SHOW IT TO MY WIFE, brothers and sisters, I love my wife and will not want anything to brake her heart so please advice what should I do, a problem share is half solved

Simple na...
First, you should have hinted your wife at least once about the girls existence. If you hadn't, you should with style and scope tell your wife how you were asking the girl out before you married her et al. She'll definitely flare up if she learns that you've been sending her money secretly, but it's better she hears from you.

Secondly, are you sure you don't have any unscrupulous secret with the girl? Be it chat, pictures or secret meetings? I'm sure you do... Chai! That makes it complicated cos she'll use that as leverage over you. here's the juncture you involve the brother. Remind him of the happenings since his party to it from time...

Hand is paining me, I can't type again

Dont make love to her a girl like that will send ur wife u nd her sexx tape so dont try it

Let her show ur wife atleast pple knew she was ur frnd tell her broda the truth tell ur pastors d truth

A girl like dat will eida get pregnant or charm u or send ur wife ur sexx tape with her

Its obvious she wanna blackmail nd ruin ur marriage ny ow

Ur wife shd b able to trust u dat it was nothing bt a simple help especially if u a natural generous person nd ur wife as seen u give pple money with nothing attached

Talk to ur wife about it...

so u be graduate?? see English.... chaii

Ehen ehen...Xo do u wanna have sex with her? mehn that means the blackmailing is about to begin....Please avoid her as much as possible and reveal the truth to your wife cos its only the truth that can set u free in this kind of scenario

I HAVE NO PLAN OF SLEEPING WITH HER, MIND U, MY WIFE HAVE READ ALL OUR PASS CHART SO KNOWS WHAT WAS HAPPENING EXCEPT THE PART OF ME PAYING MONEY INTO HER ACCT. I JUST FEEL IF SHE FIND OUT THAT I HAVE BEEN PAYING MONEY TO THIS GIRL'S WITHOUT HER KNOWLEDGE THEN ALL THIS GIRL WILL SAY MAY BE TRUE

@ gbalikuma Just tell your wife everything. That way, the girl won't have anything to use against you.