Have you ever met a man you really liked, and started to feel emotionally attached to him BEFORE you even got to know him or went out with him, and you had crazy feelings of jealousy about him being with other women, even though he wasn’t with you?
Do you ever feel depressed and sad about where you are in life… and feel HOPELESS about being able to have what you want with a man?
Do you ever feel like you are in an endless cycle of being with all THE WRONG MEN… even though each time it happened you swore you had learned your lesson?
Have you ever felt like no man has ever really understood you? And that maybe no man ever will?
Have you ever met a great man and then found yourself thinking about him all the time and WONDERING if he might be with another woman? You find yourself so afraid that you will lose something you don’t even have yet, and you start emailing, calling him, and trying to secretly know what he is doing at all times.


to be honest am sure most women think this way, and Maybe you’ve been in a situation like this where you gave up your time with your friends, or with your hobby, and you put all your focus and energy into a man who you thought was special… only to end up getting little or nothing in return when it was all said and done.

for me when i meet suchguy, i have to wash well to know the kind of guy,i had crazy feelings for and if it getting too much i try to control myself because i don't want to fall in love with some one i will end up regret in life
when i feel bad or sad of seeing myself in endless cycle of being with all THE WRONG MEN what i need is encouragement, been myself and i never loss hope

What do we really know about love?

I know exactly what you re talking about, and we trust . . . .

Not because its the right thing to do but because its all we can really do (with of course a margin of error!)

There can be no meaningful r/ship without it.

Also, you should watch the kind of men you get involved with, if you cant trust him then dont get involved.

~ Worried Winnie ~ I wonder why people take 'these' things seriously. ~

Have you ever met a man you really liked, and started to feel emotionally attached  to him BEFORE you even got to know him or went out with him,  and you had crazy feelings of jealousy about him being with other women,  even though he wasn’t with you?

Nope. Im sorry dear but I have not had that experience before. My bf ever danced with other girls but it dont matter to me. I'll always give a chance to those ladies to strut their stuff cause after when the time is up, this chinko babe will take over the show. Im not a good dancer but I know Im a funny one so thats how I get all my attention. LOL!     


 

Do you ever feel depressed and sad about where you are in life… and feel HOPELESS about being able to have what you want with a man?

Well, I once felt like that but its not more than 30 mins cause then I will tell him my mind and how I feel and hopefully he can do something about it which he always does. Dearie, most people are born without 6th sense so its always good to tell the other person whats on your mind.

Do you ever feel like you are in an endless cycle of being with all THE WRONG MEN… even though each time it happened you swore you had learned your lesson?

Nope. I dont really think that much about a person and I dont really judge as well. I will be with a guy and if theres something I dont like about him, I just tell him and if he dont change, I will behave just like the way he treats me and see how he feels. In the end he would have to change cause he hisself do not like to be treated that way. So I dont dump the guy and move on. I correct him on the spot and also I hope that he would correct me as well. Thats how every human learn naaa. . .

   

Have you ever felt like no man has ever really understood you? And that maybe no man ever will?

No men / women will understand you if you dont explain to them properly naa. . . But lets say you both had an argument and both wanted to do your own ways, its always best to sit down take a paper and a pen and see the pros and cons in both of you guy's mentality. The one with the most prosshould be followed and completely eliminated the ones with the cons. Thats how you work things out.

 

Have you ever met a great man and then found yourself thinking about him all the time and WONDERING if he might be with another woman? You find yourself so afraid that you will lose something you don’t even have yet, and you start emailing, calling him, and trying to secretly know what he is doing at all times.

If you feel as such, it shows that you have a low self esteem and aalso you dont trust him. Its not point having a relationship with someone if you dont trust that someone. Like they always say, if you love something so badly, always be prepared to loose that something.

to be honest am sure most women think this way, and Maybe you’ve been in a situation like this where you gave up your time with your friends, or with your hobby, and you put all your focus and energy into a man who you thought was special… only to end up getting little or nothing in return when it was all said and done.

Well, this is what you call love. Love is about giving the most, not receiving the most without even noticing how much you have sacrificed. When you know that, than you can say tyat you are really sincerely in love. But if you are still counting on all these things, that means you are not fully charge in love yet.


Thats my own honest prsonal opinion

yeah i wonder everyday if i wud eva find dat ryt man dat wud understand me and feel d same way abt me

nope, i've neva asked myself such a question, nah