Nollywood actress And Gospel Singer Stella Damasus shared her story of abuse in a new blog post. She said she hoped her story will give other women caught in violent and abusive relationships the courage to seek help.

Read what she wrote below;

“A few days ago I was reminded that it was okay to be vulnerable and human. I seem to have forgotten how relaxing it can be to let it all out sometimes, not caring if I would be judged, laughed at or insulted. I had to remember that it was important to share some experiences that may actually save or help someone who is probably going through the same thing.

My story begins on a fun and exciting Saturday night in Lagos Nigeria, where I attended an after party. I met a tall dark and handsome man who was introduced to me through a mutual friend. We spoke for a few minutes, exchanged numbers and then parted ways. I didn’t see or hear from him again until about 6 months later when I got a call on my way to a friend’s private birthday party. He asked where I was and I told him where I was going, so he wanted to meet up at the venue and that was fine.

He came and we continued the conversation that we didn’t get to finish the first time we met. After that night we started seeing each other more often as he would call me and say all the right things, then ask to see me.
So there I was feeling special, thinking that this stud must really like me so much that he had to see me about four times a week. My head was in the clouds because he came to me in a very honest and humble manner, he didn’t have much but was not embarrassed at all because of who I was and what I had. In my head I was thinking “Wow what a confident man”.

Needless to say, I fell for him hopelessly even against advice from everyone around me.

The relationship started and instead of taking time to really study and know him, I decided to give, give and give without thinking twice. I gave time, I gave energy, I gave money, I gave respect, I gave submission, I gave love, I gave honor, and I gave everything a woman would, just to make her man feel important and loved.

I gave money and everything that comes with making a man stand proud and feel wealthy.

I did this so much that even when you ask me a question or want me to appear somewhere I would ask him first or look out for his expression to get approval.

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“A few days ago I was reminded that it was okay to be vulnerable and human. I seem to have forgotten how relaxing it can be to let it all out sometimes, not caring if I would be judged, laughed at or insulted.
Sure, that is why we are humans.

So after all that ?

Summarize please..

the husband that she was rumoured to have stolen?

And d moral of d story is?

gentledavid:
the husband that she was rumoured to have stolen?

lmfao it seems ds one was a boifrnd... lol from the story sef u can see how disperate she is to get a good man so stealing someones good husband wont be a new thing to the quest..