Chimaritoponcho:
give her BELLE
thank me later

Moda4ka

Rossikk:
OP I don't know what to tell you, but this problem highlights the GREAT FOOLISHNESS OF OUR PEOPLE. Look at this. Two AFRICANS, PERFECTLY IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER, cannot get married because both their parents follow two different FOREIGN, IMPORTED RELIGIONS.

IT IS A SHAME. LOOK AT HOW THE WHITE MAN HAS DIVIDED US!!!

If adopting their religions mean we no longer see the humanity in our own brothers, DITCH THEIR FUUKING RELIGIONS!

Ur comment is from pit of hell, light and darkness has nothing in common.

The white u r trying to condemn also brought u technology u r enjoying.

BUHARIISCURSED:
muslim and redeem are 5 & 6

Its true o

Brightgem:

I have already addressed ur fellows, go back and find out, nothing u just said here which hasnt been addressed properly, none of it is new to me. I offer no apologis on behalf of those who do wrong and say it is Islam or they are Muslims, whether y'all like it or not, true Islam is beautiful, and it is indeed truly only a religion of the wise. How many of u even really follow the teachings of the bible... #yawns I have a KJV bible nothing is new to me, If we begin an exchange we will not finish. Everything Christians say about Jesus contradicts what he taught in reality... make sure u "confirm all things and hold on to that which is true" as u bible advises. apologies to the insult on ur name.

so you say I should blame the Muslim not Islam,what makes them Muslims? Is it not because they practice Islam?,how then do you expect me to separate one from the other?they claim its a religion of peace but their body language oozes of intolerance to people of other faith,living in the north is like walking on egg shells,they can kill at any time even for a cartoon, how many time have you heard that a group of Christians or traditional worshippers attacked Muslims?,if it's a religion of peace,let them show us,we aren't blind,instead of always reminding us its a religion of peace whenever they commit their heinous crimes all in the name of Allah.A writter once said "if you repeat a lie too long enough subconsciously it becomes the truth,but I refuse to believe this lie until I see Muslims truly living in peace with people of other religion, have a nice day

[quote author=vicky6855 post=46510912]You are threading on broken bottles...this is a situation that calls for spiritual advise...

Better go to a pastor or elder in the church... Because even though I give you a great advise and it works out for you... That lady may one day hand you over to your enemies... (Just like Delilah did to Samson)...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise




read ur advise again why r u so full of hate
apparently u skipped the part whr the op said he wasnt lucky with christian ladies

tell me hw does religion define ur happiess ?
smh outta ur mnetion

Jimadey:
Just let her go

like serz?

kokoma marry the op then

korel9:
Straight to the point. I've not been lucky in relationships with Christian ladies but always found genuine and true love with muslim ladies. Now I'm in another relationship with this Muslim girl and I'm ready to marry her.
We both have no problem with our religion but the problem is her guardians (her dad is late and her mum, though a Christian married to a muslim man is out of reach). To top it all, she grew up with a Hausa woman who has a Kogi airforce man for a husband. As for my parents, it can be worked out.
There's always been this barrier of Christian men not being able to marry Muslim ladies but the other way round is possible.
Is it possible to break this barrier and make her my wife?

am always in shock when people come to online media to seek opinion on whether to marry someone or not, I believe certain issues have there place. if I tell you to go ahead and tomorrow you have issues, you will still be coming here to ask for my opinion, what if am not here to answer you or I misguide you? I just think you aren't ready, am sorry.

MakeWeTalk:
If you are a true Christian you will know that the bible say's do not be unequally yoked with the unbeliever

2 Corinthians 6:14
Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

So you cannot marry an unbeliever.

But I suspect that this is just to insult Christians so, I'll tell you why muslim women should leave islam and follow Jesus.

In Islam Men are COMMANDED to beat their wives

Qur'an (38:44) -
"And take in your hand a green branch
AND BEAT HER WITH IT,"

Qur'an (4:34) -
" Men are the maintainers of women because
Allah has made some of them to
....... BEAT THEM;


Christian men are commanded to LOVE THEIR WIVES NOT BEAT


Ephesians 5:25 (KJV)
Husbands, LOVE YOUR WIVES,
even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;


Colossians 3:19
Husbands, LOVE YOUR WIVES,
and
BE NOT BITTER AGAINST THEM.

---

Allah couldn't save mohammed and his followers the muslims

Sura 46:9
"I am not something original among the messengers, NOR DO I KNOW WHAT WILL BE DONE WITH ME OR WITH YOU(MUSLIMS)


Jesus on the other hand went to heaven in everybody's view

Acts 1
9 And when he had spoken these things, while they beheld, he was taken up; and a cloud received him out of their sight.

10 And while they looked stedfastly toward heaven as he went up, behold, two men stood by them in white apparel;

11 Which also said, Ye men of Galilee, why stand ye gazing up into heaven? this same Jesus, which is taken up from you into heaven, shall so come in like manner as ye have seen him go into heaven.


NOT ONLY THAT Jesus PROMISES SALVATION TO ALL WHO BELIEVE HIM

Mark
15 And he said unto them, Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature.

16[b] He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved[/b]; but he that believeth not shall be damned.

THE MOST IMPORTANT POINT IS THAT JESUS LIVES, MOHAMMED IS DEAD
FOR THE LIVING ONE THAT CAN SAVE

in as much as i want to ignore ds fallasy u put up there
,i think ur translation n understanding of the holy quran is so wrong n plz dnt miss lead others
tanku

Proffdada:
True love has no religion

u jst nailed it


religion/tribe doesn't define ur happiness smtn sm of them fail to understand

the mst important thin is pray u find ur own wmn regardsless of the tribe or religion

petux:
there is no prob with that .. you are not the first that is qonna do it and u ain't gonna be the last.....sum did it and it was successful why others did it and it ended up bad.....communication matters.

another being with a meaningful brain

xerxes456:
can you please define true love... True love is defined by religion... hence it doesn't exist in a circular non-religious setting... Love is is not just a word... for a Christian, God is Love... means quite a lot to a christian... for others I don't know and am incline to believe they don't even have Love in their doctrines...
so it will be so wrong to say true love has no religion... very wrong...

1 Corinthians 13:2
And if I have the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.

fowowe411:
Carry an Osun worshipper come owo and see wetin we go do you.

lols....now that matters!!! But Islam is acceptable ba

MakeWeTalk:
If you are a true Christian you will know that the bible say's do not be unequally yoked with the unbeliever

2 Corinthians 6:14
Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

So you cannot marry an unbeliever.

But I suspect that this is just to insult Christians so, I'll tell you why muslim women should leave islam and follow Jesus.

In Islam Men are COMMANDED to beat their wives

Qur'an (38:44) -
"And take in your hand a green branch
AND BEAT HER WITH IT,"

Qur'an (4:34) -
" Men are the maintainers of women because
Allah has made some of them to
....... BEAT THEM;


Christian men are commanded to LOVE THEIR WIVES NOT BEAT


Ephesians 5:25 (KJV)
Husbands, LOVE YOUR WIVES,
even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;


Colossians 3:19
Husbands, LOVE YOUR WIVES,
and
BE NOT BITTER AGAINST THEM.

---

Allah couldn't save mohammed and his followers the muslims

Sura 46:9
"I am not something original among the messengers, NOR DO I KNOW WHAT WILL BE DONE WITH ME OR WITH YOU(MUSLIMS)


Jesus on the other hand went to heaven in everybody's view

Acts 1
9 And when he had spoken these things, while they beheld, he was taken up; and a cloud received him out of their sight.

10 And while they looked stedfastly toward heaven as he went up, behold, two men stood by them in white apparel;

11 Which also said, Ye men of Galilee, why stand ye gazing up into heaven? this same Jesus, which is taken up from you into heaven, shall so come in like manner as ye have seen him go into heaven.


NOT ONLY THAT Jesus PROMISES SALVATION TO ALL WHO BELIEVE HIM

Mark
15 And he said unto them, Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature.

16[b] He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved[/b]; but he that believeth not shall be damned.

THE MOST IMPORTANT POINT IS THAT JESUS LIVES, MOHAMMED IS DEAD
FOR THE LIVING ONE THAT CAN SAVE

Seyi signs in concerned.............Why ownt you be objective in your argument. I think you should read the whole Bible, onorder to conclude ur stand is ultimate. I odnt think you really understand the context of your reference.'' D not be unequally yoked'' Some Bible versions omit that particular word ''unequally''. The aforementioned sentence deeply connotes different things, with or without the unequally. So the question is ''what does that word unequally mean. That is open for discussion. 2. This quotation does not explicitly talk about marriage. I t could include work too. Any interaction whatsoever. That being said 1 corinthians 7:13 says. The believing wife sanctifies the unbelieving husband and vice versal.Infact this depends on what you mean by the word believe. It is subjective.It is not as if, the muslims do not believe in Jesus christ, the context of believe just differs. In my opinion the unequally connotes mismatch. So there are still unions across board that can be deemed sacrosanct. But the issue is how can you envision in advance that such union will be perfect. There is no telling this. It requires divine wisdom. That is why you are adviced to marry someone of your faith. Even in the christian faith, some people wil still not get married to persons from denominations different from theirs. So what is the fuss about. To my brother,OP, i beseech thee, apply wisdom. Wisdom is the principal thing. Ask God to direct you on this. In fact in matters like this. If you are a christian true to your God, you do not need ask anyone to advice you on this. Tell God to show you the way forward. I do not advice you to ask God specifically for the specifics of the appropriacy. You only need clues. God does not explicitly choose wives for people since the fall of the first man. You will have to be involved in the final decision. Again apply wisdom..........................Seyi signs out relieved

dastroud:
how I wish I came from parents of same religion....tho love z blind u can't see the future in reality how it's gonna look like....I'll never repeat the mistake they made coz I don't want my children to pass thru what m passing thru ryt nw!

which of your both parent is the muslim or Christian?

MakeWeTalk:
If you are a true Christian you will know that the bible say's do not be unequally yoked with the unbeliever

2 Corinthians 6:14
Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

So you cannot marry an unbeliever.

But I suspect that this is just to insult Christians so, I'll tell you why muslim women should leave islam and follow Jesus.

In Islam Men are COMMANDED to beat their wives

Qur'an (38:44) -
"And take in your hand a green branch
AND BEAT HER WITH IT,"

Qur'an (4:34) -
" Men are the maintainers of women because
Allah has made some of them to
....... BEAT THEM;


Christian men are commanded to LOVE THEIR WIVES NOT BEAT


Ephesians 5:25 (KJV)
Husbands, LOVE YOUR WIVES,
even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;


Colossians 3:19
Husbands, LOVE YOUR WIVES,
and
BE NOT BITTER AGAINST THEM.

---

Allah couldn't save mohammed and his followers the muslims

Sura 46:9
"I am not something original among the messengers, NOR DO I KNOW WHAT WILL BE DONE WITH ME OR WITH YOU(MUSLIMS)


Jesus on the other hand went to heaven in everybody's view

Acts 1
9 And when he had spoken these things, while they beheld, he was taken up; and a cloud received him out of their sight.

10 And while they looked stedfastly toward heaven as he went up, behold, two men stood by them in white apparel;

11 Which also said, Ye men of Galilee, why stand ye gazing up into heaven? this same Jesus, which is taken up from you into heaven, shall so come in like manner as ye have seen him go into heaven.


NOT ONLY THAT Jesus PROMISES SALVATION TO ALL WHO BELIEVE HIM

Mark
15 And he said unto them, Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature.

16[b] He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved[/b]; but he that believeth not shall be damned.

THE MOST IMPORTANT POINT IS THAT JESUS LIVES, MOHAMMED IS DEAD
FOR THE LIVING ONE THAT CAN SAVE

Why do you enjoy spreading falsehood?

rhektor:

Moda4ka

u say?

O chidren of isreal! Remember my special favour which I bestowed upon you. And that I preffered to other nations for my message. Then guard yourselves against a day when no soul shall be of no use to another nor shall intervention be accepted, nor shall compensation be taken, nor shall anyone be helped. (Quran 2:47-48)

O children of Isreal! call to mind the favour which I bestowed upon you and fulfil your promise to Me as I fulfilled my promise to you. And fear non but Me. And believe in what I reveal, confirming the revelation which is with you, and do not sell my signs for a small price, But fear Me and Me alone. And do not cover truth with falsehood, and do not hide the truth when you know it. And be steadfast in prayer and practice regular charity; And bow down your heads with those who bow down in worship. Do you encore right conduct on the people and.forget to practice it yourselves, and yet you study the scripture? Will you not understand? (Quran 2:40-44)

O children of isreal! remeber when We appointed.fourty nights for Moses and in his absence you took the calf for worship and you made a terrible mistake (Quran 2:51)

Only one God and one nation

MakeWeTalk:
If you are a true Christian you will know that the bible say's do not be unequally yoked with the unbeliever

2 Corinthians 6:14
Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

So you cannot marry an unbeliever.

But I suspect that this is just to insult Christians so, I'll tell you why muslim women should leave islam and follow Jesus.

In Islam Men are COMMANDED to beat their wives

Qur'an (38:44) -
"And take in your hand a green branch
AND BEAT HER WITH IT,"

Qur'an (4:34) -
" Men are the maintainers of women because
Allah has made some of them to
....... BEAT THEM;


Christian men are commanded to LOVE THEIR WIVES NOT BEAT


Ephesians 5:25 (KJV)
Husbands, LOVE YOUR WIVES,
even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;


Colossians 3:19
Husbands, LOVE YOUR WIVES,
and
BE NOT BITTER AGAINST THEM.

---

Allah couldn't save mohammed and his followers the muslims

Sura 46:9
"I am not something original among the messengers, NOR DO I KNOW WHAT WILL BE DONE WITH ME OR WITH YOU(MUSLIMS)


Jesus on the other hand went to heaven in everybody's view

Acts 1
9 And when he had spoken these things, while they beheld, he was taken up; and a cloud received him out of their sight.

10 And while they looked stedfastly toward heaven as he went up, behold, two men stood by them in white apparel;

11 Which also said, Ye men of Galilee, why stand ye gazing up into heaven? this same Jesus, which is taken up from you into heaven, shall so come in like manner as ye have seen him go into heaven.


NOT ONLY THAT Jesus PROMISES SALVATION TO ALL WHO BELIEVE HIM

Mark
15 And he said unto them, Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature.

16[b] He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved[/b]; but he that believeth not shall be damned.

THE MOST IMPORTANT POINT IS THAT JESUS LIVES, MOHAMMED IS DEAD
FOR THE LIVING ONE THAT CAN SAVE

there is difference between religion and God and there is difference between you being religious and Godly....you just talk religiously but I bet it you are not Godly....shame on you

Well I am in the same shoes though...wit a Christian girl which I really love die...but right now things are really falling apart after six years and planning on marrying her...well that case aside....i think not think we Africans Nigerians if I may say from what I see have issues...we are sick people walking around...wow! If religion can determine who to fall in love with then no wonder you see many homes break even with same religion....yeah...homes with different religion break too and reason why is their focus shifted on what they don't even or sure of making heaven wit...either you are a Christian or a Muslim heaven no sure for you then why would you now be killing yourself over what you are not sure of ? At the end God will look into what's in your heart not what you followed....mehn am not talking religiously now I ma talking base on human thinking how we should be thinking....if there is war today....we would all live together forgeting the difference and thats what God want....love! We worship Him in different ways but the same goal...why do we think like this for crying out loud? Turning the word of God upside down....this world would have been a better place if not cause of all this things...the whites people that brought this even practice inert faith marriages and they live longer than us...why would my kids want to marry another religion Christian or muslim and I will stand in his or her own happiness to be with someone that she would give his or her to cause of the same faith? Only if we can re-think well....there is difference between religion and God and difference between being religious and being Godly....most of us are religious but not Godly at all and that's whats killing us...you guys should read on the former president of uruguay jose mujica...thats example of someone that's Godly even if he is an atheist he lives accordingly ....humanly accordinly....

HazzanTazzan:


Funny human being...
So ur man is supposed to convert to your religion and not you to his religion?

Smh... U go just lose the precious man and blame urself in future...

I'm about to get married to a Christian babe I met back in sch ...

She knows that the right thing is to join her man in his religion and Now she practices my religion with me even when we are yet to get married...

But can u allow ur sis to marry a christian guy she loves and is ready to marry her.

Welcomme:
But can u allow ur sis to marry a christian guy she loves and is ready to marry her.

What's my business with that? They both love each other, why will I stop her for religion sake?
The guy is the man and if she's going into his house, she has to practice his religion...

Let's not be blinded by nonsensical religious rubbish... We only practice it cos we were born into it

schumastic:

which of your both parent is the muslim or Christian?

my father Muslim n my mum Christian

TVTKOKO:
DATS WHY I LOVE THE YORUBAS
They av no dictionary for religion barriers

You're right bro, just last week my parent gave my younger sister hand in marriage to a Christian though her mum was also a Christian before she marry my dad.

arowz56:
aswear...this guy or girl that wrote this is a capital fool....why do you guys always put this religion of a thing like a world cup.....? Open it or ask your pastor if it's only Christians that are in heaven or in hell.....if you Christians keep thinking like this seriously humanly thinking you will all end up in hell cause not even your pastor can say only Christians are in heaven....and we are all humans .....i don't even know what to say again cause I am vexing....for your info...i am in the same shoes....i am dating a Christain girl for six years now planning on getting married to her but it's like your delusional thinking is entering her head too....you guys should grow....on the day of judgement God will not judge us cause we are this and that....am seeing religion as a congregation of people now....lemme say cult using Gods name to do so evil thing....you guys should think like human beings and not based on this or that...there is difference between religion and God and there is difference between you being religiously and Godly....you just talk religiously but I bet it you are not Godly....shame on you

U just spoke ma mind. Thumbs up.

santos2020:
SMALL BOY,what do know about LOVE,you think marrige is the same as dating/friendship,ASK why is your parents ard no longer sitting together at the church or waking on the street.

lol

My parents are together in heaven after spending 50 years together as married couples on earth.

Who knows, your Mom may be one of those babes I screwed and dumped back in the day. dolo

tintingz:
In Islam a Muslim man can marry the people of the book (Jews and Christians)

You forgot to quote this verse
..Do not retain them (i.e., your wives) to harm them...(The Noble Quran, 2:231)"

The verse quoted have steps before a man should hit his wife, ignore her, forsake her on bed but beating her does not mean brutalizing her, its like taping her.

More Quranic verses on how a man should treat his wife kindly.

“and live with them honourably. If you dislike them, it may be that you dislike a thing and Allaah brings through it a great deal of good” [Quran 4:19]


“And they (women) have rights (over their husbands as regards living expenses) similar (to those of their husbands) over them (as regards obedience and respect) to what is reasonable, but men have a degree (of responsibility) over them. And Allaah is All-Mighty, All-Wise” [al-Baqarah 2:228]




Hum you forgot the bible does not want women talking, they should be silent.

“Let the women learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.” (I Timothy 2:11-14)

The Quran said women have right over their husbands.

---

This verse came when he has not been called for prophethood.


But Jesus doesn't know the last hour.

"But of that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but the Father alone.(Mark 13:32)

Jesus(AS) you called your god does not know the last hour(judgment day)

uhm explain this verse.

21 “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. 22 On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ 23 And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’(Mathew 7:21-23)

It is only Christians that call Jesus "Lord" and use his name for miracles.

Remember Elijah, Enoch didn't die so they live.

Lmao! OK. Your point exactly.. Perhaps you just finished blabbing.. If you like don't see the light, continue seeing darkness.. Lemme add 'Thou Shall No other god except me.' You the serve allah the feel say na God.. Hell is your destination!!..thats if u don't change..

HazzanTazzan:


What's my business with that? They both love each other, why will I stop her for religion sake?
The guy is the man and if she's going into his house, she has to practice his religion...

Let's not be blinded by nonsensical religious rubbish... We only practice it cos we were born into it

you're riqht.. We practice it 'cause we were born into it.. But then, it grows in us.. It becomes part of us.. You think serving God is all about 'practicing' your intending wife has converted to the 'peaceful' religion and you'd give your sister out to a christian-and she'd start practising christianity, not so?
..its from the heart.. You talk like a lame monkey.. Practising practising practising.. Whatefer! Maybe you think serving God is some kind of game or trial and error shit..or perhaps a 'practising-conversion' game..

Encorecasmie:

Lmao! OK. Your point exactly.. Perhaps you just finished blabbing.. If you like don't see the light, continue seeing darkness.. Lemme add 'Thou Shall No other god except me.' You the serve allah the feel say na God.. Hell is your destination!!..thats if u don't change..

Lol hell is my destination? na you be hell judge abi.

One question, You quoted about serving a particular god abeg which of your three(trinity) gods?

tintingz:
Lol hell is my destination? na you be hell judge abi.

One question, You quoted about serving a particular god abeg which of your three(trinity) gods?

you wonna know?
Trinity-three in one! Believe it or not...
God of Elijah is a mystery. He's not human, i bet thats why you all reason the way you do.. Btw, no be by force na for it is written 'BEHOLD I STAND AT THE DOOR OF YOUR HEART AND KNOCK, WHOEVER HEARS ME AND OPENS HIS HEART, I WILL BE WITH HIM AND HE IN ME'
Also..
'I PUT BEFORE YOU LIFE AND DEATH, AS FOR ME AND MY HOUSE, WE WILL SERVE THE LORD'
Belive it or not. Accept it or not.. God is God.. Not that one you're serving. I rest my case. Quote me not!
@OP, i advice you to seek God before making any decision..

hervin:
My first comment on Nairaland, after so many years of following you guys
Sir, I believe the most important thing is love. Try discussing with her guardian(s) to know their view on the matter. But don't stop believing, cause love always wins
Acooriz! I have landed oo

Bro..do i know u

acooriz:


Bro..do i know u

Chaii