Relationship is an important aspect of a man’s life
and the fact that a young man is financially
handicapped does not mean he has no right to be
normal. This simple steps will really help…
We need not tell you that things are hard in the
society; the economy is not favorable at this time but
then life must continue.
We would not stop living because we do not have
enough money to throw around or stop doing the
basic things in life generally. Relationship is an
important aspect of a man’s life and the fact that a
young man is financially handicapped does not mean
he has no right to be normal.
As a matter of fact; without having enough money to
spend, one could divert one’s energy into doing other
things that would ease off the tension that might
have mounted as a result of being broke. It is quite
possible for a man to find happiness in a woman
even when he does not have enough money to throw
around.
We would be sharing cost effective tips on the things
a man could do to get a girlfriend. After all, a man
who does not have money to throw around on a
woman is expected to possess other qualities that
would make up for his inadequacy when it comes to
finances.
Find below some of the things a man could do to
get a woman without spending much:
1. Being light hearted
By being good natured, you are bound to meet more
people as you carry on with your daily routine. Learn
to smile once in a while and lend out support to
whoever needs it at that moment. Before you know it,
your reputation would precede you and speak for
you.
Your body language also would help you a lot as
people would always study you. You do not want to
be seen or known as the weird guy. Happiness is key
and it should reflect in everything you do.
2. Being straight
Your personality matters a great deal, you cannot
afford to be seen as broke and yet be chasing
everything in skirts. The interpretation the ladies
would have of you would be spelt as a potential
liability. While being a single, cultivate good habits that would
eventually become a point of strength when you are
in a relationship. These virtues cannot be bought by
money and it would make women choose you over
money at times.
Carefully select your friends
While you are trying to make the right decisions at
your own level, having certain friends around you
would not help. Since you do not have enough
money to throw round, you should not take out a lady
you want to ask out with your friend whose financial
status overshadows yours.
While you may call it a twin date or whatever name
you find for it, it would be the perfect time to make
the lady you like see your flaws.
She would be able to make open comparison
between you and your friend who spends more for
his woman and appears to be more loving.
4. Be witty
Everyone is tensed; the stress of having to go to work
daily and get through the basic routine of life could
be draining. If you want to get a girlfriend without
spending much, then you would have to apply the
charms you have and make her laugh.
While turning on the joker instinct in you, please
check her body language to be sure you are not
boring her out. This trait would no doubt make you
have enough friends from the opposite sex, this
would make whoever you ask out eventually to fall in
love with you in totality.
5. Be responsible
Every woman wants to be associated with
responsible men; you should know this and work it
into your personality. No one is asking you to
pretend, good manners can be cultivated. You do not
want to strike people around as a drunk and you
definitely want to be taken serious.
When you have the right attitude and you are
responsible, you would be confident of yourself and
would be able to assess situations well. Ladies
around you would see you as being purpose driven
and would be glad to walk into the future with you.
6. Do not be all about sexWe understand you want to get laid and feel yourselffrom time to time; the only issue here is you have to
sit down and ask yourself what you really want.
Being tagged as a player would not help you in this
quest of finding a girlfriend. Naturally, ladies are
always sensitive when it comes to sex and they want
to be sure you do not want them for sex alone.
Ladies would be confident around you when they see
you are not pushy when it comes to sex.

chaii this thing too short.. I read it twice

Yes I want to search for this type of man. But my question is since most men are talking about money here. Most nairalander men are rich I guess, so do they still possessed these qualities?

Be romantic and be very good in bed.