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Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by Nasiruddeen(m): 11:03pm On Jun 15, 2016
Young people are encouraged to marry young. Unfortunately, in the Muslim world today, the youth are told to finish their education first, complete their university studies, get their degree and so on, then get married. This causes many young people to go through the most difficult period of their lives unmarried. When they reach their late twenties or early thirties, then they get married. So what happened during those almost twenty years between 13 and 30? What happened to them? And whose fault is this? Primarily, it is fault of the parents. Of course, when they have reached the basis of adulthood in puberty they are held responsible of what they do, but the parents also carry a greater sin for not having helped them to get out of that situation.

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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by komododragons: 10:45am On Jun 17, 2016
MUSLIM NEVER encourage education

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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by ayotundeolubunm(m): 10:46am On Jun 17, 2016
Space Booked.......... Will share my views later in the day

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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by lifezone247(m): 10:49am On Jun 17, 2016
Something was wrong with this post before, I don't knw if I'm the only one that noticed it.

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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by MKO4ever(m): 10:51am On Jun 17, 2016
Min baadi Ilmin Wa tuqwo, Imrahatun Solihatun
Min baadi Ilmin Wa tuqwo, Imrahatun Solihatun
Meaning
Education first then marriage

Thank you

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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by ismaog4u(m): 10:53am On Jun 17, 2016
the delay in Muslim early marriage is that pple fear poverty more tha Allah swt..if pple go to marriage with good intentions at early stages I believe Allah us sufficient fir us

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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by ismaog4u(m): 10:54am On Jun 17, 2016
the delay in Muslim early marriage is that pple fear poverty more than Allah swt..if pple go to marriage with good intentions at early stages I believe Allah is sufficient for us

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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by Xbox222: 10:55am On Jun 17, 2016
@ OP, Will you encourage your Male child to get married when he can't take care of his bills?
Why are you encouraging poverty and penury at thesame time?
Marriage is not a do or die affair for crying out loud.

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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by Chuksemi(m): 10:56am On Jun 17, 2016
I am happy with this. Things like this make me adore Islam. I should be married now, with kids and maybe two wives. Oh Allah swt.



Allahu Akbar

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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by realGURU(m): 11:06am On Jun 17, 2016
Y are sme muslims r so spoilt like this, is marriage wajib, someone without ability to keep a family want to marry? In is knowledge b4 marriage.

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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by Olaide1295: 11:06am On Jun 17, 2016
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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by Olaide1295: 11:17am On Jun 17, 2016
Min baadi Ilmin Wa tuqwo, Imrahatun Solihatun
Min baadi Ilmin Wa tuqwo, Imrahatun Solihatun
Meaning
Education first then marriage
Thank you
Is this a hadith or something? I personally encourage early marriages because of obvious reasons( if spouses are mature and responsible)
Most people have associated early marriage with the wrong things(Teenage pregnancy,Financial difficulties e.t.c) but they are wrong, Marriage does not mean immediate child -bearing. It just eases of a lot of pressure(including mental and sexual) associated with the teenage-adult stages.
Early marriage does not stop your education, Infact,you may be married and your wife still lives with her parents if she is in school(YES!, Islam culture is different)

BENEFITS OF EARLY MARRIAGE

1)To preserve the chastity of our youths.
2)Married couples perform better at school or university and are more emotionally stable than singles
3)Excellent start to life
For better understanding, check this https://muhdlawal./2013/07/19/islam-and-early-marriage/

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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by Cuteamigo1(m): 11:24am On Jun 17, 2016
OP ARE U INSANE? MUST FINISH SCHOOL AND GET A JOB FIRST BEFORE I GET MARRIED AND SO ALSO MY SIBLINGS WHETHER MALE OR FEMALE INSHA'ALLAH. I DONT SEE WHAT THE FUSS IS IN GETTING MARRIED EARLY MOROVER MARRIAGE IS NOT BY FORCE ALTHOUGH IT IS HIGHLY ENCOURAGE. LASTLY ISLAM HOLDS EDUCATION OF ANY KIND WITH REGARDS AND GIVEN THE STRUCTURE OF THE SOCIETY AND WORLD WHICH WE LIVE IN THAT IS WHAT IS APPROPRIATE SO CARRY THIS YOUR POST AND GET OUY OF HEAR AND KEEP YOUR OPINION TO YOURAELF BEFORE YOU FURTHER TANISH THE NAME OF ISLAM.

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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by Cuteamigo1(m): 11:24am On Jun 17, 2016
OP ARE U INSANE? I MUST FINISH SCHOOL AND GET A JOB FIRST BEFORE I GET MARRIED AND SO ALSO MY SIBLINGS WHETHER MALE OR FEMALE INSHA'ALLAH. I DONT SEE WHAT THE FUSS IS IN GETTING MARRIED EARLY MOROVER MARRIAGE IS NOT BY FORCE ALTHOUGH IT IS HIGHLY ENCOURAGE. LASTLY ISLAM HOLDS EDUCATION OF ANY KIND WITH REGARDS AND GIVEN THE STRUCTURE OF THE SOCIETY AND WORLD WHICH WE LIVE IN THAT IS WHAT IS APPROPRIATE SO CARRY THIS YOUR POST AND GET OUY OF HEAR AND KEEP YOUR OPINION TO YOURAELF BEFORE YOU FURTHER TANISH THE NAME OF ISLAM.
Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by Zeinymira(f): 11:24am On Jun 17, 2016
In Islam marriage is compulsory for a man who: has d means to pay dowry, can support wife/children, is healthy and fears that if he does not marry he may be tempted ro commit fornication

And it is compulsory for women who: has no means of maintaining herself, fears that her sexual urge may push her into fornication

and it is forbidden for a man who has no means to maintain his wife and children and has a serious illness that can affect his wife and offspring

demmy66 its about time u get married o


And i support early marriage because its prevent fornication
buh when people hear early marriage they thought it is all about marrying a seven year old kid whereas every society has their own norms
Quran did not speculate the minimum age of marriage so those in doubts and living in misconception should check Quran4:6

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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by mukhcech(m): 11:38am On Jun 17, 2016
realGURU:
Y are sme muslims r so spoilt like this, is marriage wajib, someone without ability to keep a family want to marry? In is knowledge b4 marriage.

I assume you are a Spoilt Muslim too.
Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by mukhcech(m): 11:42am On Jun 17, 2016
Cuteamigo1:
[s]OP ARE U INSANE? I MUST FINISH SCHOOL AND GET A JOB FIRST BEFORE I GET MARRIED AND SO ALSO MY SIBLINGS WHETHER MALE OR FEMALE INSHA'ALLAH. I DONT SEE WHAT THE FUSS IS IN GETTING MARRIED EARLY MOROVER MARRIAGE IS NOT BY FORCE ALTHOUGH IT IS HIGHLY ENCOURAGE. LASTLY ISLAM HOLDS EDUCATION OF ANY KIND WITH REGARDS AND GIVEN THE STRUCTURE OF THE SOCIETY AND WORLD WHICH WE LIVE IN THAT IS WHAT IS APPROPRIATE SO CARRY THIS YOUR POST AND GET OUY OF HEAR AND KEEP YOUR OPINION TO YOURAELF BEFORE YOU FURTHER TANISH THE NAME OF ISLAM.
[/s]
Are you insane? You must be. Keep your opinion to yourself too.

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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by Cuteamigo1(m): 11:49am On Jun 17, 2016
mukhcech:
[/s] Are you insane? You must be. Keep your opinion to yourself too.
am not insane am only wise, a word am sure you have never heard of. imp
Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by realGURU(m): 11:50am On Jun 17, 2016
mukhcech:

I assume you are a Spoilt Muslim too.
y?
Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by lekkipropertyy: 12:47pm On Jun 17, 2016
Peace
Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by madridguy(m): 1:04pm On Jun 17, 2016
Wonderful.

Zeinymira:
In Islam marriage is compulsory for a man who: has d means to pay dowry, can support wife/children, is healthy and fears that if he does not marry he may be tempted ro commit fornication

And it is compulsory for women who: has no means of maintaining herself, fears that her sexual urge may push her into fornication

and it is forbidden for a man who has no means to maintain his wife and children and has a serious illness that can affect his wife and offspring

demmy66 its about time u get married o


And i support early marriage because its prevent fornication
buh when people hear early marriage they thought it is all about marrying a seven year old kid whereas every society has their own norms
Quran did not speculate the minimum age of marriage so those in doubts and living in misconception should check Quran4:6

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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by Nobody: 1:26pm On Jun 17, 2016
i personally love early marriages.but u shudnt put your point in this manner.. infact,people should be discouraged to get married early based on what u said.. so u tink bein married and goin to skool is good,or bein married and stil dependin on ur parent is cool.. i think NOT.
From my own POV,people should be encouraged to get married early only IF they are financially and mentally capable to do so..

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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by Nobody: 1:27pm On Jun 17, 2016
komododragons:
MUSLIM NEVER encourage education
Says who?

Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by Walexz02(m): 1:31pm On Jun 17, 2016
Op do you also know that it is advisable that you have something that you do which generate income for you before you marry.
To achieve that you have to finish your education or finished learning a trade.

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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by Walexz02(m): 1:40pm On Jun 17, 2016
Op do you also know that it is advisable that you have something that you do which generate income for you before you marry.
To achieve that you have to finish your education or finished learning a trade...
Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by Zahrabinnta(f): 1:43pm On Jun 17, 2016
In this present economic situation its advisable to finish school and get a job before getting married.There's no need to rush in.

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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by Nobody: 2:33pm On Jun 17, 2016
lifezone247:
Something was wrong with this post before, I don't knw if I'm the only one that noticed it.
"Was" u say?
Something is definitely wrong with this post..

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Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by Talkingboy: 6:12pm On Jun 17, 2016
Zahrabinnta:
In this present economic situation its advisable to finish school and get a job before getting married.There's no need to rush in.

Can u check and accept ur BBM request pls . Jazakumullahu khayran ya ukti
Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by Zahrabinnta(f): 8:26pm On Jun 17, 2016
Talkingboy:


Can u check and accept ur BBM request pls . Jazakumullahu khayran ya ukti
As Salam Alaikum,i think you're mistaking me with someone else,i don't have bbm.
Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by demmy66: 11:25pm On Jun 17, 2016
Zeinymira:
In Islam marriage is compulsory for a man who: has d means to pay dowry, can support wife/children, is healthy and fears that if he does not marry he may be tempted ro commit fornication

And it is compulsory for women who: has no means of maintaining herself, fears that her sexual urge may push her into fornication

and it is forbidden for a man who has no means to maintain his wife and children and has a serious illness that can affect his wife and offspring

demmy66 its about time u get married o


And i support early marriage because its prevent fornication
buh when people hear early marriage they thought it is all about marrying a seven year old kid whereas every society has their own norms
Quran did not speculate the minimum age of marriage so those in doubts and living in misconception should check Quran4:6
my dear sis..thabks for your concern abeg... we are still looking for the right choice... ypu can assist a brotherby recpmmending nah.. is it a crime?
Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by Zeinymira(f): 4:08am On Jun 18, 2016
demmy66:

my dear sis..thabks for your concern abeg... we are still looking for the right choice... ypu can assist a brotherby recpmmending nah.. is it a crime?

there is one thread u need to see, the MSMS in the Islam section
grin
Re: Importance Of Marriage At The Right Time by demmy66: 6:12am On Jun 18, 2016
Zeinymira:

there is one thread u need to see, the MSMS in the Islam section grin
i know the thread... seen it tipe tipe

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