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| He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by AniemaEniye(f): 10:56am On Jun 24, 2016 |
Hello Nairalanders, I hope this script find you all well. I'll try as much as I can to be brief. I met this guy around April 2015 and we attend the same Church here in PH. First we became friends and along the line, it became emotional. The guy is 8 years older than me. At first I thought he's one of those bandwagon of "eat and run" guys, but what keep me wandering till date is that this guy have not for once ask of sex from me (despite the fact that we are always together alone). He's just too nice to me as well, he always try to meet my needs (even when I don't ask). He seem to be concern most about the future and how we both can make a family together. I've asked severally why he's this nice to me, he said he can't really explain how I won his heart. I'm kind of worried and disturbed about this, don't you think he might be up to something fishy? I need your advise pls. Mod please help me move to FP |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by LordIsaac(m): 11:00am On Jun 24, 2016 |
I hope you aren't his fantasy figure...for if reality sets in when you change, as you're not perfect, you'll surely see the other side of him! |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by talk2alabama: 11:03am On Jun 24, 2016 |
She is www.confused.com |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by njiasi30(f): 11:04am On Jun 24, 2016 |
 chai!!! U can never satisfy human beings. D guy is nice u re Complaining, if he is hardhearted u will still complain. Pls which one do u prefer   9 Likes |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by AniemaEniye(f): 11:07am On Jun 24, 2016 |
LordIsaac:I seem not to get you |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by Olalan(m): 11:08am On Jun 24, 2016 |
You have what many ladies wish to have, please try your best to reciprocate the love, care and respect he has shown you. 10 Likes |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by tritt(m): 11:10am On Jun 24, 2016 |
Are you sure you know what you want ?? |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by AniemaEniye(f): 11:13am On Jun 24, 2016 |
Olalan:Thank you Bro |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by AniemaEniye(f): 11:14am On Jun 24, 2016 |
tritt:He seem to be all I need in a man |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by foolinlove(f): 11:15am On Jun 24, 2016 |
Olalan: This |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by teejaypee: 11:17am On Jun 24, 2016 |
Hmmm, as a guy, if you are nice, the ladies would complain! . . You're bad, they would say you're just like the rest or Nag. . Girls please what do you really want? |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by SpeedyConnect(m): 11:19am On Jun 24, 2016 |
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| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by metrosexual: 11:20am On Jun 24, 2016 |
How funny! This is reason why I tell guys never to overdo the Mr Nice guy thing, be coarse but grossly sensual. When I say don't be too nice I don't mean you should hit her or hurl insults at her though. When you overdo your Mr Nice guy moves things get too "tasteless" for her, you start to become more of a friendly companion rather than a passionate lover, over time you start to annoy her as women love a man who has some degree of a challenge in himself for them to conquer. When a women gets annoyed either physically or emotionally towards the tastelessness of your persona she looses respect and passion for you and that the start of a break-up. Ladies hate saints, but love repentant sinners. That should give you a picture of how to roll with a woman. Always keep a woman's heart at edge for you, treat her right but don't make things too nice and boring, its just like driving on a completely straight smooth road which spans over 20 km, such situation makes the driver fall asleep and crash, the brain is wired not to keep seeing just one steady image, you'd become dizzy, same thing for a relationship. Lastly, be a man in control, I repeat, be a man in control! Don't turn out to be a control buddy or a bully though. Being in control is making her see the manly, confident, intelligent and fatherly figure you are, I used the word "fatherly" because its rare to see a girl who doesn't love and respect her dad. Here is an example: Your lady is fuming with anger because you kept her waiting for a dinner outing and instead of whining and whining to her like a 3 year old for keeping her waiting and saying the usual "I'm sorry", tell her "Thank you for your patience", you just apologised to her but you did it in a more intriguing, interesting and confident way which reeks of intelligence and bravado. That doesn't still stop you from using "I'm sorry" in other dire situations though. Men should get a skill in understanding women please, its the only education you learn and enjoy the benefits without end all through life. I drop my pen now, work calls, before my boss catches me on this thread, then I'd have to explain if I was employed to give dating classes online 16 Likes |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by RZArecta(m): 11:26am On Jun 24, 2016 |
That is why relationships/courtship was invented so you can study a person's (potential spouse) character and see if it's something you can potentially live the rest of your life with. You've seen the good side and you're satisfied (?) what of the bad side ? Does he drink alcohol too much ? Does he smoke, womanize, beat ? Is he dirty ? If there are some "bad" things you can endure our see nothing wrong with then you're good to go. Ps everybody has a bad side, on my own I can't stand a girl who's dirty or lies or has no fashionable style but that's just me |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by AniemaEniye(f): 11:27am On Jun 24, 2016 |
teejaypee:hmmmmmm |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by Nobody: 11:32am On Jun 24, 2016 |
AniemaEniye:I guess u are reading my comment expecting a very good advice.... Read along Pls... You are a fool for letting the devil make u doubt such a guy, it's a girl like you that changed me into what I am today! No provoke me oooooo  4 Likes |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by Nobody: 11:34am On Jun 24, 2016 |
complaining unnecessarily! God save u say I no be mode, I for ban u 10 years for opening this thread...  so sad  |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by ErnieSmallzz(f): 11:37am On Jun 24, 2016 |
BlueEyeBalls:  |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by ErnieSmallzz(f): 11:38am On Jun 24, 2016 |
BlueEyeBalls: |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by Nobody: 11:38am On Jun 24, 2016 |
ErnieSmallzz:[b][/b] |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by AniemaEniye(f): 11:38am On Jun 24, 2016 |
 BlueEyeBalls: |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by Nobody: 11:39am On Jun 24, 2016 |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by Nobody: 11:40am On Jun 24, 2016 |
AniemaEniye:you don't know what u have till its gone... Ey there dey confuse urself 1 Like |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by 2dice01: 11:40am On Jun 24, 2016 |
even devil no vex reach the goon wey post above me |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by firstking01(m): 11:42am On Jun 24, 2016 |
AniemaEniye:Sweery, still givit time, with time his true colour will surfice...you knw some guys can go any length to get inbetween those your froshy laps;P...just be very careful and givit sometime, truth is, there's always an elasticity in every extention...weather his intentions are genuine or not, it must show with time. |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by ErnieSmallzz(f): 11:43am On Jun 24, 2016 |
he is too nice and too good 4 u? OK you know what Introduce me to him, and i promise you that you are gonna hear bou our Wedding bells very soon  1 Like |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by AniemaEniye(f): 11:44am On Jun 24, 2016 |
BlueEyeBalls:You know guys initially can be nice and later can change. I took him to be among those but he kept prooving me wrong. Is it bad to seek advise as regard that? |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by ndujekwu(m): 11:46am On Jun 24, 2016 |
Provoke him and see how he reacts. At that point, u can make ur judgement about love |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by AniemaEniye(f): 11:48am On Jun 24, 2016 |
RZArecta:thanks for your advise. He doesn't womanize but he tak alcohol. He has never for once lay hi hands on me. He seem neat too |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by AniemaEniye(f): 11:50am On Jun 24, 2016 |
ndujekwu:Hmmmmm. Like wat level o provocation? |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by AniemaEniye(f): 11:52am On Jun 24, 2016 |
ErnieSmallzz:  , no |
| Re: He's Just Too Nice, I Need Your Advise Please by Nobody: 11:53am On Jun 24, 2016 |
teejaypee:A gentle man who doesn't push over with my little finger's touch. |
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