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Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by Nobody: 8:24pm On Jun 25, 2016
Wat exactly do single ladies find so appealing in married men? Its so common now to see young beautiful ladies following man dat are married wit kids. I cnt understand it. Do u ladies tink these men will leave their wives and happy homes for u?
A married man dat flirts wit a single lady has only one tin at d back of his mind... one night stand. For Gods sake. He is married, with childrn. Most men tell their "concubiles" dt maybe dey have problems in dia marriage, or maybe the wife isn't makn him happy, etc. And d girls will always fall for this cheap excuses.
Who is to blame here? The lady, or d married man.

Cc lalasticlala
He may come "complaining" to u, but he'll go back to bed wit her sleeping right beside him. Every night. Daz how all Dez men behave. Be carefull. Just my small advise sha. (this is 2 my frnd MissM).
Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by Olalan(m): 8:34pm On Jun 25, 2016
The greed of the young ladies, cause the married men they chase after are rich guys. Or have you seen young ladies run after not so rich married men?

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Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by Nobody: 8:37pm On Jun 25, 2016
Olalan:
The greed of the young ladies, cause the married men they chase after are rich guys. Or have you seen young ladies run after not so rich married men?

Your so very right. Bt wat of dis married men dt lure the girls nko?
Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by Nobody: 8:38pm On Jun 25, 2016
MissMercedes shd be able to shade more lyt on dis topic. Pls let's hear 4rm u.
Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by Nobody: 9:42pm On Jun 25, 2016
MrValIk:
Wat exactly do single ladies find so appealing in married men? Its so common now to see young beautiful ladies following man dat are married wit kids. I cnt understand it. Do u ladies tink these men will leave their wives and happy homes for u?
A married man dat flirts wit a single lady has only one tin at d back of his mind... one night stand. For Gods sake. He is married, with childrn. Most men tell their "concubiles" dt maybe dey have problems in dia marriage, or maybe the wife isn't makn him happy, etc. And d girls will always fall for this cheap excuses.
Who is to blame here? The lady, or d married man.

Cc lalasticlala
He may come "complaining" to u, but he'll go back to bed wit her sleeping right beside him. Every night. Daz how all Dez men behave. Be carefull. Just my small advise sha. (this is 2 my frnd MissM).
A single lady that sleeps with a married man also have one thing in mind - money.

You even wrote that she is a single lady.
So a married man should be blamed for disrespecting the vow he made with his wife. What a stupid promiscuous prick!!!

Bullsh1t!

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Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by cococandy(f): 11:46am On Jun 26, 2016
Me. I'm to blame. Blame me.

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Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by Nobody: 11:51am On Jun 26, 2016
GEJ of course.

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Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by ednut1(m): 12:02pm On Jun 26, 2016
I blame GEJ. One wants money d other wants sex. Demand and supply at work. A married man will not gv dem all d wahala normal guys will gv dem. Society don decay u cant change it so just mind ur business
Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by jnrbayano(m): 12:38pm On Jun 26, 2016
I blame you (OP) for thinking I registered on nairaland to be blaming people who don't give a damn whether you blame them or not.

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Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by Project400: 1:25pm On Jun 26, 2016
The one who regrets his/her actions after the deed is to blame. smiley

A single lady who gets served with acid for sleeping with a married man is to blame.


A married man who contracts an STD upon sleeping with a single lady is to blame for his action.
Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by Adesiji77: 2:34pm On Jun 26, 2016
cococandy:
Me. I'm to blame. Blame me.

Seriously? cheesy
Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by onyekachee(f): 2:43pm On Jun 26, 2016
I think I will blame both
let me put it to you guys that some married men are in the habit of lying about their marital status just so they get what they want,and when the deed is done they zoom off like no man''s business
And as the single ladies,it is mere stupidity on their own part,these men have nothing to lose....money can never cover the price of their dignity they keep losing

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Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by Spydamannn(m): 2:45pm On Jun 26, 2016
Blame No One....5ex appeal is everywhere and almost on everything
Ok,Blame odogwu
Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by RiloKiley: 2:50pm On Jun 26, 2016
You should ask what each category seek to fulfil in each other. A married man leaves the confines of his matrimonial home because he wants to satisfy his sexual urge. If that is taken care of by his wife most times he will not seek to look outside.

I don't know why single ladies go after married men, but mostly has to do with maturity and money and the need to feel taken care of by someone (even if it's someone else's someone) which is the primal need of any woman.
Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by Project400: 3:03pm On Jun 26, 2016
onyekachee:
I think I will blame both
let me put it to you guys that some married men are in the habit of lying about their marital status just so they get what they want,and when the deed is done they zoom off like no man''s business
And as the single ladies,it is mere stupidity on their own part,these men have nothing to lose....money can never cover the price of their dignity they keep losing

Is it possible for men to lie about their marital status? Do ladies agree to date a 'grown man' whose house/home is unknown to them?

That's a difficult one.
Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by Nobody: 3:11pm On Jun 26, 2016
Some men can lie for africa saying they are not married.
About knowing their homes, they come up with one stvpid story, that his parents and siblings all live in his house, and the house is so rowdy for comfort, hes just bidding time to get his own apartment..while some will claim they live in a far away state.. ANd usually lodge in hotels when they r in town.

All these cheap lies should make a wise girl figure , hes married ..!

Sighs, Men..!
Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by onyekachee(f): 3:22pm On Jun 26, 2016
Project400:


Is it possible for men to lie about their marital status? Do ladies agree to date a 'grown man' whose house/home is unknown to them?

That's a difficult one.
yes it's very possible
I have had encounter with one who denied his wife when I saw her pics on his what'sapp claiming she was his sister and nothing more...
in fact I have seen countless number of them lying about being married,this is simply no news
Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by PresVA: 3:46pm On Jun 26, 2016
onyekachee:
I think I will blame both
let me put it to you guys that some married men are in the habit of lying about their marital status just so they get what they want,and when the deed is done they zoom off like no man''s business
And as the single ladies,it is mere stupidity on their own part,these men have nothing to lose....money can never cover the price of their dignity they keep losing
Really? ? The men have nothing to lose They have no dignity or respect to protect abi? Smh
Moreso, a married man who left his wife and kids at home.. smh again
Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by Nobody: 10:50am On Jun 27, 2016
thanks for all ur input. a word they say is enuf for d wise
Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by bukatyne(f): 12:12pm On Jun 27, 2016
MrValIk:
Wat exactly do single ladies find so appealing in married men? Its so common now to see young beautiful ladies following man dat are married wit kids. I cnt understand it. Do u ladies tink these men will leave their wives and happy homes for u?
A married man dat flirts wit a single lady has only one tin at d back of his mind... one night stand. For Gods sake. He is married, with childrn. Most men tell their "concubiles" dt maybe dey have problems in dia marriage, or maybe the wife isn't makn him happy, etc. And d girls will always fall for this cheap excuses.
Who is to blame here? The lady, or d married man.

Cc lalasticlala
He may come "complaining" to u, but he'll go back to bed wit her sleeping right beside him. Every night. Daz how all Dez men behave. Be carefull. Just my small advise sha. (this is 2 my frnd MissM).

Going to bed to sleep beside his wife after he has spent his energy and affection for his mistress is not a plus to the wife.

A lady who sleeps with a married man is only looking for money.
Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by Asable(f): 12:27pm On Jun 27, 2016
It takes two to tangle. Many girls knows d men are married and still agree to date them. They don't expect the men to marry them, to them it's strictly for fun and the cash no heart break and all those emotional Wahala. For the men I think they just like varieties

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Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by vague: 1:07pm On Jun 27, 2016
Olalan:
The greed of the young ladies, cause the married men they chase after are rich guys. Or have you seen young ladies run after not so rich married men?
who vowed to respect his matrimonial home, the married man or the single lady he chased?
Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by schumastic(m): 1:31pm On Jun 27, 2016
MrValIk:
Wat exactly do single ladies find so appealing in married men? Its so common now to see young beautiful ladies following man dat are married wit kids. I cnt understand it. Do u ladies tink these men will leave their wives and happy homes for u?
A married man dat flirts wit a single lady has only one tin at d back of his mind... one night stand. For Gods sake. He is married, with childrn. Most men tell their "concubiles" dt maybe dey have problems in dia marriage, or maybe the wife isn't makn him happy, etc. And d girls will always fall for this cheap excuses.
Who is to blame here? The lady, or d married man.

Cc lalasticlala
He may come "complaining" to u, but he'll go back to bed wit her sleeping right beside him. Every night. Daz how all Dez men behave. Be carefull. Just my small advise sha. (this is 2 my frnd MissM).

i blame both of them but the ladies the most and my reason is this.

the time a lady is using to hang out or chase a married man and destroying her fellow lady's home, she can use that time to get herself a man and build a home of her own..they won't sees things this way why, because they fall prey for men with serpent tongue who only want to satisfy his sexual urge and most ladies don't know what they want..an average lady is moved by three things( what they hear, what they see and what they can get)...as for the man i would call him a FOOL for choosing to destroy his home over a pvssy when he has one at home..

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Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by Nobody: 7:23pm On Jun 28, 2016
cococandy:
Me. I'm to blame. Blame me.

What a cute baby on ur profile? Is she yours?
Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by johnson232: 7:54pm On Jun 28, 2016
cococandy:
Me. I'm to blame. Blame me.

Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by johnson232: 7:56pm On Jun 28, 2016
FrancisTony:

A single lady that sleeps with a married man also have one thing in mind - money.

You even wrote that she is a single lady.
So a married man should be blamed for disrespecting the vow he made with his wife. What a stupid promiscuous prick!!!

Bullsh1t!
@bold

Re: Single Ladies & Married Men, Who Is To Blame? by johnson232: 8:01pm On Jun 28, 2016
Asable:
It takes two to tangle. Many girls knows d men are married and still agree to date them. They don't expect the men to marry them, to them it's strictly for fun and the cash no heart break and all those emotional Wahala. For the men I think they just like varieties

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