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Need Some Help!!!..romance Issues. by uyisteven(m): 1:35am On Jun 28, 2016
Hello...Before I state the motive behind this thread, let me say some few words 1st...

Disclaimer; Am not just creating this thread just because everyone is doing so...Neither is this to generate likes or make FP...

Initial plan was to open a new moniker and post this topic...Thereby avoiding a *mental torture* of some very active E- warriors with their sword-like hands/mouths..

But WTH, I said Fvck it...I can't start running away from people am 97.99% sure would never get to see me in this life...So here is me stating my challenge with my real moniker and profile pic on display..
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I once had a Girlfriend who fancied some weird ssex roleplays/positions...I mean like tying of her hands, pinning her to a wall, holding her hands tight, blindfolding, screaming and covering of the mouth, etc..I mean regular sexx just wasn't her thing...

I was never really cool with this but she had this amazing personality that I couldn't just let her go{there is only one other girl in the whole world I know off whose personality is far greater...But she has brother-zoned me already...so, no hope there}.

We finally broke up due to some irreconcilable differences(she became born again...Am happy for her tho)..This technically means No more weirdness..But am already addicted to it.

It was like fifty shades of Grey was meant for me...Except for the whipping part...That's just wickedness..

I have dated like 4-5 more ladies after her{I am not a womaniser...I just find enormous inspiration from falling in love...Am like the male version of Taylor Swift..Except that I don't sing)...

Almost Every single one of them has complained how they're not into it..

When they do this, I just loose all se.x appeal...

Now am just scared to be with anyone...

Right now am curious to know if anyone has been in this position and has even remotely tried fighting against it..

I know my E-crushers would be like "ehn ehn shocked..So uyisteven you are this weird"...Yes I am..

The one person am crushing on isn't even following me..so who am I trying to impress again...
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Just because you are part of the 97.99% that won't get to see me in this world doesn't mean you can't lend an advice...
Re: Need Some Help!!!..romance Issues. by Greene66: 1:39am On Jun 28, 2016
Your disclaimer alone makes your story fake. If truly you need advise I don't think you would be bothered about who believes it or not. You would only be interested in the reasonable comments. So trying so hard to prove you are legit makes it fake to me.

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Re: Need Some Help!!!..romance Issues. by Strahovski1(m): 1:39am On Jun 28, 2016
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Re: Need Some Help!!!..romance Issues. by prahcetomi(m): 2:05am On Jun 28, 2016
Re: Need Some Help!!!..romance Issues. by Nobody: 2:06am On Jun 28, 2016
Strahovski1:
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una no dey sleep for india ni

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Re: Need Some Help!!!..romance Issues. by foolinlove(f): 6:06am On Jun 28, 2016
Some women like it.

But if they've never done it before, you need to introduce it to them gently - one step at a time. Not a full beating and choking on the first fvck.
Re: Need Some Help!!!..romance Issues. by Houseofglam7(f): 6:30am On Jun 28, 2016
Someday maybe you'll find a girl that's got some cray cray in the bedroom.
That said, it'll be better if you let her initiate it....... If you do, she may think of you as some sort of a freak.
Re: Need Some Help!!!..romance Issues. by uyisteven(m): 7:09am On Jun 28, 2016
Greene66:
Your disclaimer alone makes your story fake. If truly you need advise I don't think you would be bothered about who believes it or not. You would only be interested in the reasonable comments. So trying so hard to prove you are legit makes it fake to me.

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I Quite understand your point...But the problem here on NL is that sensitive topics like this is always tagged fake from the onset...I kinda read one so close to this right before I typed mine...The OP was so bashed, I felt pity for him...And that's not even mine..
Just because it's an online forum doesn't necessarily mean words can't hurt you..

Did I over sell it...Maybe a little...I just wanted to reduce the pain.
Re: Need Some Help!!!..romance Issues. by uyisteven(m): 7:11am On Jun 28, 2016
foolinlove:
Some women like it.

But if they've never done it before, you need to introduce it to them gently - one step at a time. Not a full beating and choking on the first fvck.

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Yeah..Thanks...I figure that much...

But am planning of stopping it...Not trying to control it...
Re: Need Some Help!!!..romance Issues. by foolinlove(f): 7:13am On Jun 28, 2016
uyisteven:


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Yeah..Thanks...I figure that much...

But am planning of stopping it...Not trying to control it...

Why be ashamed? Do whay makes you feel good with other *consenting* parties.

However, if you want to stop may I suggest you half watching violent pornography to begin with.
Re: Need Some Help!!!..romance Issues. by Nobody: 7:17am On Jun 28, 2016
pls summarize it

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Re: Need Some Help!!!..romance Issues. by uyisteven(m): 7:18am On Jun 28, 2016
Houseofglam7:
Someday maybe you'll find a girl that's got some cray cray in the bedroom.
That said, it'll be better if you let her initiate it....... If you do, she may think of you as some sort of a freak.

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Lol...Yeah..The girls I have been favoured to be with just wants some regular old fashion ways of having se.x and that's sooo annoying and boring...
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Waiting for them to initiate such acts could be waiting indefinitely.
Re: Need Some Help!!!..romance Issues. by Houseofglam7(f): 7:20am On Jun 28, 2016
uyisteven:


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Lol...Yeah..The girls I have been favoured to be with just wants some regular old fashion ways of having se.x and that's sooo annoying and boring...
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Waiting for them to initiate such acts could be waiting indefinitely.


Hehehehe
Keep the hustle real ma man
Don't stop looking for Ms Cray Cray
I'm sure she's looking for you as well cool


No one deserves a boring sex life
Re: Need Some Help!!!..romance Issues. by uyisteven(m): 7:21am On Jun 28, 2016
foolinlove:


Why be ashamed? Do whay makes you feel good with other *consenting* parties.

However, if you want to stop may I suggest you half watching violent pornography to begin with.

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Hahaha..Violent Pornographyy?...Scary to belive but I don't...
Re: Need Some Help!!!..romance Issues. by uyisteven(m): 7:27am On Jun 28, 2016
Houseofglam7:



Hehehehe
Keep the hustle real ma man
Don't stop looking for Ms Cray Cray
I'm sure she's looking for you as well cool


No one deserves a boring sex life

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Lol...She better do..Because been committed to one lady at a time is quite refreshing but could be stressful most times...

Except if she has a kick-ass personality. Then, am her'z forever.

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