Okay so, I went out with this guy 2 years ago and everything was going fine till I found out that he has been cheating with this girl his age. I cant blame the girl because she didnt know that he had a girl. Because we did not want anybody to know we were dating, I couldnt say anything and act mad at him around people. He said that he was in a really tough position because he likes me and the girl. So, I told him i understood his problem, and its okay if he dates both of us until he can decide who he really wants. I wasnt really satisfied with the decision, but because i didnt want to loose him, I had to do that. But after I saw that it was starting to really piss me off, I broke up with him last year, one month till our one year anniversary. So 3 mnths after we broke up, he broke up with the girl. We stopped talking for a while altho we see each other everytyme. So this year, I finally said hi to him on facebook nd we starting talking again. So I asked him about his gf, he told me not to talk about her again. So 2 mnths ago, when i brought up the topic, he said that the reason he broke up with her was because of me. He said that he doesnt see her as much as he sees me, doesnt talk to her as much as he talks to me. And that even tho we're not together, he still likes me alot, and i styll like him too. A few days ago, I just found out that he started going out with the same girl. But I dont know what to do. Should I just forget about him? or should I find all the ways to get him back so that the girl will know how I feel to loose the one I really love . What he did really hurt me because in the process, I lost my mom's trust and did some things i didnt want to all because of him. So please naija ppl nd experienced ppl, pleaseee hellp mee ooo!!! Feel free to ask questions too!!

move on, life is too short to waste on confused losers

Move on, The guy is playing with u both, wen he doest get u, he goes bk to da gurl, hez an ass
move on and if possible, delete him from ur fbk cuz he will prevent u from seeking love elsewhere

tell the other girl you exist and move on. he is fucking around on both of you and you both should let him be. if he cant be faithful to you he doesnt love you so why bother yourself with him

agathamari:

tell the other girl you exist and move on. he is fucking around on both of you and you both should let him be. if he cant be faithful to you he doesnt love you so why bother yourself with him

agree,

hmm so this guy cost u ur pride, and ur mother's trust. nne alot of men arent worth that sacrifice.

obviously, you are older than the guy.

Why did you want the relationship to be private? And why would you have agreed that he should date both of you without preparing for the consequence?

I think you should stay away from the guy and watch him from afar to see how things work between him and the other girl. Dont pour your water in a leaking bucket.

Better to avoid disaster than to head right into one. Move on with ur life, my friend. He doesn't know what he want.

Thaannxx Guys!! You guys are helpin out alot!
@olaniijim, naww, hes older than me by 3 years,

it is still the same. Stay away from him at least for now. Experience has shown that when a man double date, a woman must be used and dumped. Dont be that woman because it may take you time to get over it. Prevention is better than cure.

kai this queen is 1 of the dullest girls ive ever encountered in my entire lyfe!

Gosh! Baby girl, ur really messed up!
Wht r u still doin there 4 christ sake? Cnt u see that this guy wants to eat his cake n still have it?
Dnt u eva fight over a guy cos if he really loves u, he woudnt hav behaved the way he did.
Cn u imagine! Keepn the relationship a secret, that means he is not even man enough even if he is older than u.
Im sure his doin all these things because u showed him so much love.
Move on cos he's not woth d trouble