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6 Things You Need To Do In Long Distance Relationships Or Marriages by rhyme12(m): 1:04am On Jul 01, 2016
While being in close physical proximity to someone you're dating is pretty ideal, you can still experience love and sexual satisfaction without being side by side every single day.
When it comes to sex, people in long distance relationships have to get a bit more creative. Here are 6 great ways.
1. Create sexy email account
Consider opening up a brand new email account using a super sexy alias that you only use for long distance pre-intimacy. Encourage your partner to do the same. It makes for a new, exciting way to communicate with each other. Besides, acting under an alias strangely gives you more confidence to say pretty much anything, since there are less inhibitions soaring through your mind. You might even feel safer to send naughty pictures to each other this way, knowing that you won't accidentally send it to someone in your address book.
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2. Send each other dirty gifts
You could turn up the heat by spontaneously sending a few seriously sexy gifts to one another. Do some online shopping and see if there are any intimacy gadgets, X-rated comic books, or DVDs your partner might enjoy on their own. Have it gift wrapped and sent to their house, with a little note attached that encourages them to think of you whenever they're playing around all alone.
3. Set the mood for phone/video sex
With the latest technological advances, there's no way you and your SO aren't engaging in some kind of phone or video sex while you're apart. Set the mood for yourself and your partner before you kick off phone intimacy. Decide on a time when you're both free from any distractions and then get ready for it. Dim the lights, light a few candles, and maybe even draw yourself a bath to ease into when the time comes. You'll feel much more comfortable dishing out the dirty talk than you would if you were wandering around your kitchen trying to finish your dinner. Finally, charge your electronics so you don't get cut off just before you arrive at orgasm central.
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phone intimacy can be really hot

4. Tell each other erotic stories
If you've never been into erotic narratives before, this is the best time to get your hands dirty, because a little sexy storytelling can go a long way when you're apart. Tap into your wildest imaginations to get the fire going, and keep in mind that there are all kinds of ways you can trade sexy stories. You can recite them to each other on the phone or a video call. You could even start by writing one chapter of a story, then pass it on to your partner to complete the next, until the whole story is complete.
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5. Get creative with sexting
The bedroom and bathroom are wonderful places to strip down and snap a few racy pics — just don't let those be the only places you get your nudies from. You and your partner love variety in the bedroom when you're together, so you could both benefit from mixing it up with your sexting game. Find new and improved ways to show off your body, whether it's in your own kitchen or outside when there's nobody around. Remember that being completely naked isn't always the most seductive move. Experiment with different ways to reveal yourself to your partner. Put on half your clothes and expose one small part of your body you know will get them excited. Be creative as you can and send your favorite shots.
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6. Send sexy playlist
Music can amp up the mood in the bedroom on pretty much any occasion, so you might as well employ this tactic when you're sexing it up from afar. Gather your favorite songs or albums that really put you in the mood and share them with your partner. Ask them to do the same, too. You can play them in the background when you're flying solo or when you're making home videos for one another. It's not a bad way to feel like they're right there in the room with you the next time you're getting off together on the phone.
Re: 6 Things You Need To Do In Long Distance Relationships Or Marriages by LordZero(m): 1:08am On Jul 01, 2016
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Re: 6 Things You Need To Do In Long Distance Relationships Or Marriages by Nobody: 5:22am On Jul 01, 2016
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