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What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by rose54321: 1:38am On Jul 03, 2016
Hello Guys, Fathers and Mothers in the house,

I was curious to know what the ideal age is for kids to start washing dishes, not necessarily dishes for the entire household but at least their own.

Now obviously this wouldn't apply to homes that use a dish washer, it's for people that do it my way, with ya hands... grin

Was of the opinion that 7years is ideal??
What do y'all think
Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by chocolateme(f): 1:39am On Jul 03, 2016
From 5 years old is ideal even if they have to stay for 1 hour playing around with water and detergent foam..
Op for me 7 its too old afterall, look at Daniella of Mak Angels at 6..

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Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by Jamean(f): 1:53am On Jul 03, 2016
The age they are tall enough to reach the sink with the aid of a stool (akpoti). That was how I started @ 6years.

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Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by Dclique(m): 2:09am On Jul 03, 2016
6-8 years seems appropriate.
Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by Strahovski1(m): 2:11am On Jul 03, 2016
Go get a dish washer or a maid your kids are not supposed to do anytin
Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by lynnfeb(f): 2:24am On Jul 03, 2016
Oh really? Keep spoiling them



Strahovski1:
Go get a dish washer or a maid your kids are not supposed to do anytin

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Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by taiwokyle(m): 4:32am On Jul 03, 2016
I think 5 is ok, they may not do it perfectly at start and kinda take it as play but they'll improve with time
Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by 0955eb027(m): 4:33am On Jul 03, 2016
Different strokes for different folks. I and my siblings did not do house chores till we came off age (secondary school), and it did not stop us from doing it well when we started. My mum did everything, whereas, unconsciously, we have learnt how to sweep, wash, cook etc. It all depends on the mother sha.

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Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by TheArchangel(f): 5:53am On Jul 03, 2016
Strahovski1:
Go get a dish washer or a maid your kids are not supposed to do anytin
We all gonna roast you alive because of this comment.
Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by Jay542(m): 5:59am On Jul 03, 2016
Strahovski1:
Go get a dish washer or a maid your kids are not supposed to do anytin
If they don't do anything, they'll be fat and lazy.
Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by HaneefahRN(f): 9:49am On Jul 03, 2016
0955eb027:
Different strokes for different folks. I and my siblings did not do house chores till we came off age (secondary school), and it did not stop us from doing it well when we started. My mum did everything, whereas, unconsciously, we have learnt how to sweep, wash, cook etc. It all depends on the mother sha.

So you all eat and leave your plates for your mum to wash?

6-7years. Eat and wash your plate. Then the pots and others can be left for the elder ones.

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Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by Nobody: 10:10am On Jul 03, 2016
My children will start when they finish secondary school. cool

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Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by byvan03: 10:23am On Jul 03, 2016
Mine will start from 7.
Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by Strahovski1(m): 12:41pm On Jul 03, 2016
TheArchangel:
We all gonna roast you alive because of this comment.

My kids don't do anything
Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by Noloss(f): 4:52pm On Jul 03, 2016
chocolateme:
From 5 years old is ideal even if they have to stay for 1 hour playing around with water and detergent foam..
Op for me 7 its too old afterall, look at Daniella of Mak Angels at 6..
my son started at 5.

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Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by 0955eb027(m): 5:11pm On Jul 03, 2016
HaneefahRN:


So you all eat and leave your plates for your mum to wash?

6-7years. Eat and wash your plate. Then the pots and others can be left for the elder ones.
Yes ma'am, just like that. Mind you, i was not born with a silver spoon. Ramadan Kareem
Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by sashishalom(f): 6:31pm On Jul 03, 2016
For me I think the'll be washing plates with me when she is three years old..i think her job then will be keeping the plates and rinsing...

When they are 5,they do that on their own and i won't be able to help them anymore...

Really want twins o..

Dejifalade
Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by sashishalom(f): 6:32pm On Jul 03, 2016
For me I think they'll be washing plates with me when they are three years old..i think her job then will be keeping the plates and rinsing...

When they are 5,they do that on their own and i won't be able to help them anymore...

Really want twins o..

Dejifalade
Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by HaneefahRN(f): 7:12pm On Jul 03, 2016
0955eb027:
Yes ma'am, just like that. Mind you, i was not born with a silver spoon. Ramadan Kareem


Alright.

Same to you smiley
Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by rukkyland(m): 7:56pm On Jul 03, 2016
catch them young enough....
Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by rose54321: 9:00pm On Jul 03, 2016
Timbuktou:
My children will start when they finish secondary school. cool

hmm, that's probably a joke... On average you graduate from high school at like 15years. So no washing plates till then, not even gonna work particularly if the kid goes to a federal boarding school like it did, s/he will do even more chores than that.

Strahovski1:
Go get a dish washer or a maid your kids are not supposed to do anytin
So kids aren't supposed to do anything?? Interesting, please where did you learn and or hear that from...
If you raise your kids without them doing any chore, even if its merely laying their beds, there's a high tendency they will grow up into lazy beings. I went to a boarding school and that helped me tons.
You never know what life throws at you, you need to learn to be independent and fend without help from anyone.

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Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by rose54321: 9:05pm On Jul 03, 2016
Jamean:
The age they are tall enough to reach the sink with the aid of a stool (akpoti). That was how I started @ 6years.

Hmm interesting, i like that though. Starting household chores at an early age will likely helps kid be more useful and responsible.
I honestly thought age 5 was way too young before reading some comments here...

Guess 6 might be more ideal, even if they can't yet wash, they should be engaged and present when you wash.

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Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by yomz1e(m): 9:27pm On Jul 03, 2016
Seriously at 5yrs, hope the poor boys palms are still soft when he turns six.

Noloss:
my son started at 5.
Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by Noloss(f): 9:44pm On Jul 03, 2016
yomz1e:
Seriously at 5yrs, hope the poor boys palms are still soft when he turns six.


he will be seven in few months time n besides he washed only in d evening (not everyday self)after ho$e work.
Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by Nobody: 10:59pm On Jul 03, 2016
7 is cool. I started washing plates since I was in primary1 till I gained admission into university. First born concern. My sister took after me after I left home for school. She was probably in jss2 then. This single act has shaped a part of me that I cannot even cope inside a dirty kitchen grin u can't blame me tho angry

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Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by gidjah(m): 4:12am On Jul 04, 2016
my daughter at 6, is already doing that, though you will need her mother or seniors to help with final rinsing1else na soap your husband go eat for food!.

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Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by rose54321: 1:42pm On Jul 05, 2016
gidjah:
my daughter at 6, is already doing that, though you will need her mother or seniors to help with final rinsing1else na soap your husband go eat for food!.

lol, i guess thats it, start them early with supervision.
Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by Nobody: 1:53pm On Jul 05, 2016
Timbuktou:
My children will start when they finish secondary school. cool

Secondary school? They would be 15/16 by then. You are trying to deadpan here, right?

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Re: What Age Is Ideal For Tor Kids To Start Doing The Dishes??? by Acidosis(m): 2:43pm On Jul 05, 2016
My daughter should be able to make me yam peppersoup at 4.
grin grin

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