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When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by marvelck: 2:03pm On Jul 15, 2016
Every girl knows that abstaining from illicit sex (pre-marital sex) is the only way to avoid getting pregnant, going through any abortion or having a child out of wedlock. which are all frown against and seen as a shameful thing by the society. So, why not do the right thing, and avoid going through such stress, pain or shame...
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by finalboss(m): 2:05pm On Jul 15, 2016
Alrighyt bro, thou I didn't read it..
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by olatunjithomas(m): 2:10pm On Jul 15, 2016
I have told them too
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by Nobody: 2:47pm On Jul 15, 2016
There are many sweet talkers in the society.

Most girls don't have the willpower to resist. wink
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by Nobody: 2:53pm On Jul 15, 2016
OK
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by sorextee(m): 3:52pm On Jul 15, 2016
The guilty ones would skip this thread. I detest abortion.
When I become the president, it's one of the things i would abolish. Any doctor found doing that rubbish will have his license revoked.

Girls, don't open ur legs any how to any man, just because he bought you cream, perfume, shawarma, Pizza, etc. Y'all are ladies of substance. Even if u feel tempted, use a condom. Children dat pple are searching for, u girls are busy aborting it. Till una abort una womb join. BE GRATEFUL THAT UR MOTHER DIDNT ABORT YOU.


Guys, don't deceive the naive girls. Get them pregnant nd run away. Man up to ur responsibilities. Pre marital sex is even a sin. Let's not forget we would have daughters too. We might be claiming SHARP MAN, after getting a girl pregnant (and she has aborted for u), and be boasting with ur friends. It won't be funny, when we are wiping the tears out of our daughters face, Over the same reason.
BE THANKFUL THAT UR FATHER DIDNT GIVE UR MOTHER MONEY TO GO AND ABORT YOU.

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Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by firstking01(m): 3:52pm On Jul 15, 2016
In this aspect of life, women have lil or no power et-all.
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by Nobody: 3:56pm On Jul 15, 2016
my brother, these girls still ignore this same fact despite all...i wouldn't term it as ignorance but negligence.....



may God help us all..
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by Nobody: 5:18pm On Jul 15, 2016
marvelck:
Every girl knows that abstaining from illicit sex (pre-marital sex) is the only way to avoid getting pregnant, going through any abortion or having a child out of wedlock. which are all frown against and seen as a shameful thing by the society. So, why not do the right thing, and avoid going through such stress, pain or shame...



Lovely truth
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by KdotThaTruth88: 12:18am On Jul 17, 2016
we are talking about girls in particular. . . .

for some reasons known to me, i stopped connecting with girls within my age bracket and continue life with older girls, they are more patient and quick to understand ya than the younger ones.
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by Nobody: 12:39am On Jul 17, 2016
sorextee:
The guilty ones would skip this thread. I detest abortion.
When I become the president, it's one of the things i would abolish. Any doctor found doing that rubbish will have his license revoked.

Girls, don't open ur legs any how to any man, just because he bought you cream, perfume, shawarma, Pizza, etc. Y'all are ladies of substance. Even if u feel tempted, use a condom. Children dat pple are searching for, u girls are busy aborting it. Till una abort una womb join. BE GRATEFUL THAT UR MOTHER DIDNT ABORT YOU.


Guys, don't deceive the naive girls. Get them pregnant nd run away. Man up to ur responsibilities. Pre marital sex is even a sin. Let's not forget we would have daughters too. We might be claiming SHARP MAN, after getting a girl pregnant (and she has aborted for u), and be boasting with ur friends. It won't be funny, when we are wiping the tears out of our daughters face, Over the same reason.
BE THANKFUL THAT UR FATHER DIDNT GIVE UR MOTHER MONEY TO GO AND ABORT YOU.
And CDS don't break?.
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by KdotThaTruth88: 4:03am On Jul 17, 2016
herbie27:
And CDS don't break?.


Get original ones, not cheap ones. grin grin
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by foolinlove(f): 6:10am On Jul 17, 2016
sorextee:
The guilty ones would skip this thread. I detest abortion.
When I become the president, it's one of the things i would abolish. Any doctor found doing that rubbish will have his license revoked.

Girls, don't open ur legs any how to any man, just because he bought you cream, perfume, shawarma, Pizza, etc. Y'all are ladies of substance. Even if u feel tempted, use a condom. Children dat pple are searching for, u girls are busy aborting it. Till una abort una womb join. BE GRATEFUL THAT UR MOTHER DIDNT ABORT YOU.


Guys, don't deceive the naive girls. Get them pregnant nd run away. Man up to ur responsibilities. Pre marital sex is even a sin. Let's not forget we would have daughters too. We might be claiming SHARP MAN, after getting a girl pregnant (and she has aborted for u), and be boasting with ur friends. It won't be funny, when we are wiping the tears out of our daughters face, Over the same reason.
BE THANKFUL THAT UR FATHER DIDNT GIVE UR MOTHER MONEY TO GO AND ABORT YOU.

If you don't like abortions, then don't have one.

Other people having an abortion doesn't affect you in the slightest.

Stop policing other's bodies. You are not a woman and it's none of your business.
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by foolinlove(f): 6:11am On Jul 17, 2016
marvelck:
Every girl knows that abstaining from illicit sex (pre-marital sex) is the only way to avoid getting pregnant, going through any abortion or having a child out of wedlock. which are all frown against and seen as a shameful thing by the society. So, why not do the right thing, and avoid going through such stress, pain or shame...

You know what? Men should do the same. Don't have sex unless you want a child.
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by sorextee(m): 6:32am On Jul 17, 2016
Why u sounding so pained? Are u guilty of something??


foolinlove:


If you don't like abortions, then don't have one.

Other people having an abortion doesn't affect you in the slightest.

Stop policing other's bodies. You are not a woman and it's none of your business.

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Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by foolinlove(f): 6:40am On Jul 17, 2016
sorextee:
Why u sounding so pained? Are u guilty of something??

I'm not pained, I'm angry.

Angry at men like you trying to make women feel guilty for taking charge of their own bodies.

Mind your own business.

If it is not your body, it is not your choice. You can dislike abortion all you want, but you don't get to have your opinion taken seriously.

You want to force women to give birth against their will. Grow up.

If you don't like abortion, don't get one.

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Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by sorextee(m): 7:33am On Jul 17, 2016
U only read the part where I was advising the girls shey?
But u skipped what I wrote concerning guys..
I understand..
What is bad is bad. Let's not let society change the facts for us.




foolinlove:


I'm not pained, I'm angry.

Angry at men like you trying to make women feel guilty for taking charge of their own bodies.

Mind your own business.

If it is not your body, it is not your choice. You can dislike abortion all you want, but you don't get to have your opinion taken seriously.

You want to force women to give birth against their will. Grow up.

If you don't like abortion, don't get one.
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by foolinlove(f): 7:43am On Jul 17, 2016
sorextee:
U only read the part where I was advising the girls shey?
But u skipped what I wrote concerning guys..
I understand..
What is bad is bad. Let's not let society change the facts for us.

What facts? These are facts:

1. Abortion doesn't affect you AT ALL.

2. Women's lives matter.

3. Abortion is none of your business because you're male.

4. You'd rather see people suffer than deal with your own moral discomfort.

5. You get no say in what a woman does with her own body.

Grow up and butt out. Abortion has nothing to do with men, and nothing to do with you.

If you're worried about lives, go do some human charity work instead of shaming women on the internet. Stop being such an awful and mean person.

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Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by Nobody: 7:47am On Jul 17, 2016
foolinlove:


I'm not pained, I'm angry.

Angry at men like you trying to make women feel guilty for taking charge of their own bodies.

Mind your own business.

If it is not your body, it is not your choice. You can dislike abortion all you want, but you don't get to have your opinion taken seriously.

You want to force women to give birth against their will. Grow up.

If you don't like abortion, don't get one.
I tire for some guys shaa. .especially op
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by foolinlove(f): 7:50am On Jul 17, 2016
sekxy:

I tire for some guys shaa. .especially op

Someone needs to talk sense to them. Unfortunately, most guys are so sexist that they'll only listen to other men's opinions on uniquely female issues.

I wonder how these men would react if women forced them to get their genitals cut off to stop them masturbating? Because sperms are potential lives!!!

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Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by sorextee(m): 8:40am On Jul 17, 2016
If women lives really matter, why would they engage in activities that would hurt them later?

Abortion means ending a life

The child doesn't have a choice..

If you didn't want a child in the beginning then you would have used protection. Nobody should be killed for no reason. Don't want a child, use protection! It's as simple as that.


Abortion should only be performed if it is for a serious reason, like a life or death situation, a rape from a stranger or family member, or for the baby's sake (you know it's going to die anyways) People should not get an abortion just because they don't want a baby..



Based on research, over 57 million unborn children have been killed, more than the entire population of Spain. That's 155 babies per hour. About 1 every 24 seconds.

By the time you finish reading this,4 or 5 more innocent lives will be lost. God’s plan for them will be ruined forever.

Can we remain indifferent to such immense human slaughter?

After una Don open leg, collect wetin una no go fit handle later, una go come here dey talk say woman lives matter.
Ps:
Im not mean towards girls.
I only condemn the act.
What message do u have to those who give birth and throw the baby in a canal or gutter?
Is that still part of woman lives matter? undecided



foolinlove:


What facts? These are facts:

1. Abortion doesn't affect you AT ALL.

2. Women's lives matter.

3. Abortion is none of your business because you're male.

4. You'd rather see people suffer than deal with your own moral discomfort.

5. You get no say in what a woman does with her own body.

Grow up and butt out. Abortion has nothing to do with men, and nothing to do with you.

If you're worried about lives, go do some human charity work instead of shaming women on the internet. Stop being such an awful and mean person.

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Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by FlawlesRebirth02(f): 8:44am On Jul 17, 2016
FlawesomE:
OK
.hmmmm
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by foolinlove(f): 8:59am On Jul 17, 2016
sorextee:
If women lives really matter, why would they engage in activities that would hurt them later?

Abortion means ending a life

The child doesn't have a choice..

If you didn't want a child in the beginning then you would have used protection. Nobody should be killed for no reason. Don't want a child, use protection! It's as simple as that.


Abortion should only be performed if it is for a serious reason, like a life or death situation, a rape from a stranger or family member, or for the baby's sake (you know it's going to die anyways) People should not get an abortion just because they don't want a baby..



Based on research, over 57 million unborn children have been killed, more than the entire population of Spain. That's 155 babies per hour. About 1 every 24 seconds.

By the time you finish reading this,4 or 5 more innocent lives will be lost. God’s plan for them will be ruined forever.

Can we remain indifferent to such immense human slaughter?

After una Don open leg, collect wetin una no go fit handle later, una go come here dey talk say woman lives matter.
Ps:
Im not mean towards girls.
I only condemn the act.
What message do u have to those who give birth and throw the baby in a canal or gutter?
Is that still part of woman lives matter? undecided




You act as if women are to blame for pregnancy. That men are just innocent bystanders.

If abortion were more readily available then babies wouldn't be thrown in the gutter or canal. Research also shows that the majority of abortions are performed on women who already have children.

Every time you masturbate and spill seed you are killing potential life. So why don't you worry about yourself before worrying about someone else's body?

I happen to care about existing women's lives more than a potential life. That woman has a life already: school, career, several children already. An established life that could be ruined by forcing her to birth a child that she doesn't want.

And if the population of Spain were birthed every year - how do you propose the earth would sustain those lives? How do you propose the mother and child live - in poverty and misery?

Look at China, population control is already underway and has been for years. Abortions are forced on women who don't want an abortion. I condemn that removal of autonomy too. It is a woman's choice and no one else's. It's not yours, that's for sure.

Go and read a book. Educate yourself before spouting stupidity.

A woman has the right to choose her own destiny, without seeking your opinion if you are ok with that. Whether that involves abortion or not is none of your business. SO BUTT OUT. GET OVER YOURSELF. GO DO SOME CHARITY WORK.

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Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by sorextee(m): 9:30am On Jul 17, 2016
From my initial post, I attacked/advised both gender. U skipped the male part nd focused on the female. undecided

Our opinions differ, when it comes to abortion. You stick to yours, I stick to mine. grin

Today is Sunday. I don't use foul words on Sundays. (which you used on me cry angry)

I remember you now. I didn't know it was you in the first place.
I know it's none of my business. But let go, all the hate you shoulder inside of you.




foolinlove:


You act as if women are to blame for pregnancy. That men are just innocent bystanders.

If abortion were more readily available then babies wouldn't be thrown in the gutter or canal. Research also shows that the majority of abortions are performed on women who already have children.

Every time you masturbate and spill seed you are killing potential life. So why don't you worry about yourself before worrying about someone else's body?

I happen to care about existing women's lives more than a potential life. That woman has a life already: school, career, several children already. An established life that could be ruined by forcing her to birth a child that she doesn't want.

And if the population of Spain were birthed every year - how do you propose the earth would sustain those lives? How do you propose the mother and child live - in poverty and misery?

Look at China, population control is already underway and has been for years. Abortions are forced on women who don't want an abortion. I condemn that removal of autonomy too. It is a woman's choice and no one else's. It's not yours, that's for sure.

Go and read a book. Educate yourself before spouting stupidity.

A woman has the right to choose her own destiny, without seeking your opinion if you are ok with that. Whether that involves abortion or not is none of your business. SO BUTT OUT. GET OVER YOURSELF. GO DO SOME CHARITY WORK.
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by SherDdon(m): 9:31am On Jul 17, 2016
foolinlove:


You act as if women are to blame for pregnancy. That men are just innocent bystanders.

If abortion were more readily available then babies wouldn't be thrown in the gutter or canal. Research also shows that the majority of abortions are performed on women who already have children.

Every time you masturbate and spill seed you are killing potential life. So why don't you worry about yourself before worrying about someone else's body?

I happen to care about existing women's lives more than a potential life. That woman has a life already: school, career, several children already. An established life that could be ruined by forcing her to birth a child that she doesn't want.

And if the population of Spain were birthed every year - how do you propose the earth would sustain those lives? How do you propose the mother and child live - in poverty and misery?

Look at China, population control is already underway and has been for years. Abortions are forced on women who don't want an abortion. I condemn that removal of autonomy too. It is a woman's choice and no one else's. It's not yours, that's for sure.

Go and read a book. Educate yourself before spouting stupidity.

A woman has the right to choose her own destiny, without seeking your opinion if you are ok with that. Whether that involves abortion or not is none of your business. SO BUTT OUT. GET OVER YOURSELF. GO DO SOME CHARITY WORK.



Wow just read your comments its a big shame though, funny enough most people who come here on nairaland just read thru
With wisdom and dont spill trash, op blames both d guys n gurls for dis act, ur just too reactive and sensitive,funny enuf
GUYS like you on ground cant even be heard....u are not learned at all...I wont reply you if u like write from now till tomorrow.

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Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by sorextee(m): 9:47am On Jul 17, 2016
I heard today is ur birthday.. Happy birthday....
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Wow just read your comments its a big shame though, funny enough most people who come here on nairaland just read thru
With wisdom and dont spill trash, op blames both d guys n gurls for dis act, ur just too reactive and sensitive,funny enuf
GUYS like you on ground cant even be heard....u are not learned at all...I wont reply you if u like write from now till tomorrow.
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by Nobody: 10:21am On Jul 17, 2016
KdotThaTruth88:



Get original ones, not cheap ones. grin grin
Really!, so the once that break are cheap. Never heard of that.
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by SherDdon(m): 11:57am On Jul 17, 2016
sorextee:
I heard today is ur birthday.. Happy birthday....


Yea bro thanks. Respect#
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by LuveU2(f): 11:18pm On Jul 18, 2016
Teempakguy:
There are many sweet talkers in the society.

Most girls don't have the willpower to resist. wink
You are one smart young dude, haven read some of ur posts. smiley



Btw dear, pls i need you to vote for my candidate right in my siggy, just like you voted last year, 2015
Voting commences next week and i will surely notify u with the appropriate link when it starts. Thank u!

Awaiting ur reply! smiley

following u already!
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by foolinlove(f): 10:27am On Jul 19, 2016
sorextee:
From my initial post, I attacked/advised both gender. U skipped the male part nd focused on the female. undecided

Our opinions differ, when it comes to abortion. You stick to yours, I stick to mine. grin

Today is Sunday. I don't use foul words on Sundays. (which you used on me cry angry)

I remember you now. I didn't know it was you in the first place.
I know it's none of my business. But let go, all the hate you shoulder inside of you.


If it's none of your business then keep your thoughts to yourself.

Women who go through abortion have enough to deal with, without you shaming them. You are entitles to an opinion but you're nit entitled to be taken seriously on this issue.

I didn't use foul words against you.

I suggested you do something useful with your time, like keeping your ill-educated opinions to yourself and doing some charity work.

I'm not shouldering hate, I'm supporting women. You are the one spreading hatred by shaming women who choose abortion.
Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by Nobody: 11:00am On Jul 19, 2016
LuveU2:
You are one smart young dude, haven read some of ur posts. smiley



Btw dear, pls i need you to vote for my candidate right in my siggy, just like you voted last year, 2015
Voting commences next week and i will surely notify u with the appropriate link when it starts. Thank u!

Awaiting ur reply! smiley

following u already!
I'm all for it. cool

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Re: When A Girl Is Made To Bear The Shame Alone by LuveU2(f): 11:56am On Jul 19, 2016
Teempakguy:
I'm all for it. cool
Awww i am blown cheesy Thank u!!! wink

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