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7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by Julietcutie(f): 6:51am On Jul 16, 2016
one of the greatest benefits of being in a deep, meaningful relationship with someone is gaining that level of comfort that only time and experience can provide. But with that comes some behaviors that should be off-limits, no matter how tried and true the relationship is. This isn’t about things like passing gas or waxing your upper lip. Love and respect runs much deeper than that and as wives, God calls us to a high standard, “A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.” Proverbs 31:10. We are emotionally wired creatures and revealing certain behaviors can often have a more damaging effect on our man’s view of us than we could have ever imagined. Here are some things we women should never do in front of men.
Self-deprecating :Let’s face it, we all love to
be at the receiving end of a compliment. But
sometimes, when we aren’t getting the
affirmation we need, we tend to fish for them.
One way of doing that is by being self-
deprecating. When we consistently say terrible
and negative things about ourselves, sooner or
later, it brings these notions into fruition and our
man will inevitably begin to believe them…and
even worse, so might you. A confident woman is
far more attractive than one who doesn’t respect
herself—so keep your commentary about yourself
positive and optimistic.
“For the Lord will be your confidence and will
keep your foot from being caught.” Proverbs 3:26
2) Drive Poorly :
How many times have you heard a man joke
about a “female driver”? As harsh as it is for
women to be at the bud of that jab, even despite
the fact that we are statistically less prone to
accidents and risky driving behaviors, it’s a
stereotype that we can perpetuate by exhibiting
poor driving behaviors in front of our men. So put
aside anything that distracts you: your phone,
makeup, the radio, food, etc. Keep your eyes on
the road and be acutely aware of your
surroundings.
3)Doubt Yourself
Women are often (unfairly) criticized for being
indecisive. While it’s totally okay to be unsure of
things, it becomes less okay when we drastically
change our minds (or conversely can’t make up
our minds) on life’s more pressing issues. Avoid
making rash decisions and take the time you need
to sort through the decision, but make sure you
are thorough and thoughtful in your logic so you
aren’t tempted to change your mind. And don’t
be afraid to stand behind your decision, even
when the odds are stacked up against you. A
decisive, self-assured woman is always
appreciated by our men.
4)Lose Your Temper
There is absolutely a time and place to get angry.
It’s not an emotion that should be stifled or
hidden, but it should be reserved for only the
most warranted of situations. Recognize the
difference between being angry and losing your
temper. Anger is reached after thoughtful
consideration and examination of all
circumstances. Losing your temper happens
spontaneously, prematurely and often before
understanding all aspects of the issue. Next time
you find yourself on the brink of losing it, refrain
from taking action on it and give yourself a few
moments to collect your thoughts (or even sleep
on it) before making any rash conclusions.
5)Get Overly Jealous
It’s okay to get a little jealous of your man from
time to time—after all, God is jealous for us, too
(Deuteronomy 4:23-24). But we need to be
careful and not let our jealousy over asinine
things spiral out of control, as over time, it can
be a cancer in a relationship. The more you
express your jealousy, the more your husband is
going to take measures to avoid unwarranted
confrontation from you and that’s not the kind of
marriage you want to be in. Trust is the
cornerstone of a healthy marriage and by trusting
our husbands we are showing them our love and
support in the best possible way.
6)Criticize His Manhood
So your man may not be the handiest around the
house or perhaps he’s not quite athletically
inclined. That doesn’t mean you need to remind
him of these facts. In fact, seemingly harmless
jokes or comments of that nature can severely
emasculate a man. Our words carry so much
power and kind ones can have a wonderfully
lasting effect on a marriage.
7)Draw Comparisons
Drawing comparisons to other people and other
relationships is unhealthy, unproductive and can
lead to unrealistic expectations. When we point
out our differences, in particular in regards to our
husbands, it can ruin their confidence and confuse
them. God brought the two of you together in the
most unique way, no two stories are alike.
Cc : lalasticlala
Cc : RoyalRoy

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Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by Julietcutie(f): 6:53am On Jul 16, 2016
1) Self-deprecating :Let’s face it, we all love to be at the receiving end of a compliment. But sometimes, when we aren’t getting the affirmation we need, we tend to fish for them. One way of doing that is by being self-deprecating. When we consistently say terrible and negative things about ourselves, sooner or later, it brings these notions into fruition and our man will inevitably begin to believe them…and even worse, so might you. A confident woman is far more attractive than one who doesn’t respect herself—so keep your commentary about yourself positive and optimistic.
“For the Lord will be your confidence and will keep your foot from being caught.” Proverbs 3:26
Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by iamsparrow(m): 6:54am On Jul 16, 2016
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Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by UndisputedBosom(m): 6:54am On Jul 16, 2016
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Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by Wizzyblack3(m): 6:54am On Jul 16, 2016
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Good morning to you all.
Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by Julietcutie(f): 6:55am On Jul 16, 2016
2) Drive Poorly :
How many times have you heard a man joke about a “female driver”? As harsh as it is for women to be at the bud of that jab, even despite the fact that we are statistically less prone to accidents and risky driving behaviors, it’s a stereotype that we can perpetuate by exhibiting poor driving behaviors in front of our men. So put aside anything that distracts you: your phone, makeup, the radio, food, etc. Keep your eyes on the road and be acutely aware of your surroundings.
Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by edbor(m): 6:55am On Jul 16, 2016
go on
Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by Julietcutie(f): 6:56am On Jul 16, 2016
3)Doubt Yourself
Women are often (unfairly) criticized for being indecisive. While it’s totally okay to be unsure of things, it becomes less okay when we drastically change our minds (or conversely can’t make up our minds) on life’s more pressing issues. Avoid making rash decisions and take the time you need to sort through the decision, but make sure you are thorough and thoughtful in your logic so you aren’t tempted to change your mind. And don’t be afraid to stand behind your decision, even when the odds are stacked up against you. A decisive, self-assured woman is always appreciated by our men.
Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by Julietcutie(f): 6:58am On Jul 16, 2016
4)Lose Your Temper
There is absolutely a time and place to get angry. It’s not an emotion that should be stifled or hidden, but it should be reserved for only the most warranted of situations. Recognize the difference between being angry and losing your temper. Anger is reached after thoughtful consideration and examination of all circumstances. Losing your temper happens spontaneously, prematurely and often before understanding all aspects of the issue. Next time you find yourself on the brink of losing it, refrain from taking action on it and give yourself a few moments to collect your thoughts (or even sleep on it) before making any rash conclusions.
Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by Nobody: 6:59am On Jul 16, 2016
Point dat doesnt make sense
Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by Julietcutie(f): 7:01am On Jul 16, 2016
5)Get Overly Jealous
It’s okay to get a little jealous of your man from time to time—after all, God is jealous for us, too (Deuteronomy 4:23-24). But we need to be careful and not let our jealousy over asinine things spiral out of control, as over time, it can be a cancer in a relationship. The more you express your jealousy, the more your husband is going to take measures to avoid unwarranted confrontation from you and that’s not the kind of marriage you want to be in. Trust is the cornerstone of a healthy marriage and by trusting our husbands we are showing them our love and support in the best possible way..
Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by Julietcutie(f): 7:02am On Jul 16, 2016
6)Criticize His Manhood
So your man may not be the handiest around the house or perhaps he’s not quite athletically inclined. That doesn’t mean you need to remind him of these facts. In fact, seemingly harmless jokes or comments of that nature can severely emasculate a man. Our words carry so much power and kind ones can have a wonderfully lasting effect on a marriage.
Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by Julietcutie(f): 7:04am On Jul 16, 2016
7)Draw Comparisons
Drawing comparisons to other people and other relationships is unhealthy, unproductive and can lead to unrealistic expectations. When we point out our differences, in particular in regards to our husbands, it can ruin their confidence and confuse them. God brought the two of you together in the most unique way, no two stories are alike.
Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by feldido(m): 7:07am On Jul 16, 2016
Following
Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by Eeser: 7:15am On Jul 16, 2016
Well said...
Good that It's coming from a lady.
SHE'S GOOD, VERY GOOD...
Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by Julietcutie(f): 7:24am On Jul 16, 2016
Eeser:
OK... OP, it will have made better sense If you arranged it like this: 1) Self-deprecating :Let’s face it, we all love to be at the receiving end of a compliment. But sometimes, when we aren’t getting the affirmation we need, we tend to fish for them. One way of doing that is by being self- deprecating. When we consistently say terrible and negative things about ourselves, sooner or later, it brings these notions into fruition and our man will inevitably begin to believe them…and even worse, so might you. A confident woman is far more attractive than one who doesn’t respect herself—so keep your commentary about yourself positive and optimistic. “For the Lord will be your confidence and will keep your foot from being caught.” Proverbs 3:26 2) Drive Poorly : How many times have you heard a man joke about a “female driver”? As harsh as it is for women to be at the bud of that jab, even despite the fact that we are statistically less prone to accidents and risky driving behaviors, it’s a stereotype that we can perpetuate by exhibiting poor driving behaviors in front of our men. So put aside anything that distracts you: your phone, makeup, the radio, food, etc. Keep your eyes on the road and be acutely aware of your surroundings. 3)Doubt Yourself Women are often (unfairly) criticized for being indecisive. While it’s totally okay to be unsure of things, it becomes less okay when we drastically change our minds (or conversely can’t make up our minds) on life’s more pressing issues. Avoid making rash decisions and take the time you need to sort through the decision, but make sure you are thorough and thoughtful in your logic so you aren’t tempted to change your mind. And don’t be afraid to stand behind your decision, even when the odds are stacked up against you. A decisive, self-assured woman is always appreciated by our men. 4)Lose Your Temper There is absolutely a time and place to get angry. It’s not an emotion that should be stifled or hidden, but it should be reserved for only the most warranted of situations. Recognize the difference between being angry and losing your temper. Anger is reached after thoughtful consideration and examination of all circumstances. Losing your temper happens spontaneously, prematurely and often before understanding all aspects of the issue. Next time you find yourself on the brink of losing it, refrain from taking action on it and give yourself a few moments to collect your thoughts (or even sleep on it) before making any rash conclusions. 5)Get Overly Jealous It’s okay to get a little jealous of your man from time to time—after all, God is jealous for us, too (Deuteronomy 4:23-24). But we need to be careful and not let our jealousy over asinine things spiral out of control, as over time, it can be a cancer in a relationship. The more you express your jealousy, the more your husband is going to take measures to avoid unwarranted confrontation from you and that’s not the kind of marriage you want to be in. Trust is the cornerstone of a healthy marriage and by trusting our husbands we are showing them our love and support in the best possible way. 6)Criticize His Manhood So your man may not be the handiest around the house or perhaps he’s not quite athletically inclined. That doesn’t mean you need to remind him of these facts. In fact, seemingly harmless jokes or comments of that nature can severely emasculate a man. Our words carry so much power and kind ones can have a wonderfully lasting effect on a marriage. 7)Draw Comparisons Drawing comparisons to other people and other relationships is unhealthy, unproductive and can lead to unrealistic expectations. When we point out our differences, in particular in regards to our husbands, it can ruin their confidence and confuse them. God brought the two of you together in the most unique way, no two stories are alike.
Tnks
Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by theEYe21(f): 7:25am On Jul 16, 2016
Who's this? undecided Op women are human too not robots, they are allowed to make mistakes. All the man has to do is to accept her flaws. All this one na storystory. If women can accept man flaws why can't they accept women's? Rubbish!

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Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by Julietcutie(f): 7:27am On Jul 16, 2016
Eeser:
OK... OP, it will have made better sense If you arranged it like this: 1) Self-deprecating :Let’s face it, we all love to be at the receiving end of a compliment. But sometimes, when we aren’t getting the affirmation we need, we tend to fish for them. One way of doing that is by being self- deprecating. When we consistently say terrible and negative things about ourselves, sooner or later, it brings these notions into fruition and our man will inevitably begin to believe them…and even worse, so might you. A confident woman is far more attractive than one who doesn’t respect herself—so keep your commentary about yourself positive and optimistic. “For the Lord will be your confidence and will keep your foot from being caught.” Proverbs 3:26 2) Drive Poorly : How many times have you heard a man joke about a “female driver”? As harsh as it is for women to be at the bud of that jab, even despite the fact that we are statistically less prone to accidents and risky driving behaviors, it’s a stereotype that we can perpetuate by exhibiting poor driving behaviors in front of our men. So put aside anything that distracts you: your phone, makeup, the radio, food, etc. Keep your eyes on the road and be acutely aware of your surroundings. 3)Doubt Yourself Women are often (unfairly) criticized for being indecisive. While it’s totally okay to be unsure of things, it becomes less okay when we drastically change our minds (or conversely can’t make up our minds) on life’s more pressing issues. Avoid making rash decisions and take the time you need to sort through the decision, but make sure you are thorough and thoughtful in your logic so you aren’t tempted to change your mind. And don’t be afraid to stand behind your decision, even when the odds are stacked up against you. A decisive, self-assured woman is always appreciated by our men. 4)Lose Your Temper There is absolutely a time and place to get angry. It’s not an emotion that should be stifled or hidden, but it should be reserved for only the most warranted of situations. Recognize the difference between being angry and losing your temper. Anger is reached after thoughtful consideration and examination of all circumstances. Losing your temper happens spontaneously, prematurely and often before understanding all aspects of the issue. Next time you find yourself on the brink of losing it, refrain from taking action on it and give yourself a few moments to collect your thoughts (or even sleep on it) before making any rash conclusions. 5)Get Overly Jealous It’s okay to get a little jealous of your man from time to time—after all, God is jealous for us, too (Deuteronomy 4:23-24). But we need to be careful and not let our jealousy over asinine things spiral out of control, as over time, it can be a cancer in a relationship. The more you express your jealousy, the more your husband is going to take measures to avoid unwarranted confrontation from you and that’s not the kind of marriage you want to be in. Trust is the cornerstone of a healthy marriage and by trusting our husbands we are showing them our love and support in the best possible way. 6)Criticize His Manhood So your man may not be the handiest around the house or perhaps he’s not quite athletically inclined. That doesn’t mean you need to remind him of these facts. In fact, seemingly harmless jokes or comments of that nature can severely emasculate a man. Our words carry so much power and kind ones can have a wonderfully lasting effect on a marriage. 7)Draw Comparisons Drawing comparisons to other people and other relationships is unhealthy, unproductive and can lead to unrealistic expectations. When we point out our differences, in particular in regards to our husbands, it can ruin their confidence and confuse them. God brought the two of you together in the most unique way, no two stories are alike.
OK done modify ur post
Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by Julietcutie(f): 7:29am On Jul 16, 2016
theEYe21:
Who's this? undecided Op women are human too not robots, they are allowed to make mistakes. All the man has to do is to accept her flaws. All this one na storystory. If women can accept man flaws why can't they accept women's? Rubbish!
read the post well am a lady can't call my fellow women robots this are just some things a woman shouldn't do to her man and also in his presence...
Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by theEYe21(f): 7:37am On Jul 16, 2016
I guess you are the robot then since you don't make mistakes and you're very perfect
Julietcutie:

read the post well am a lady can't call my fellow women robots this are just some things a woman shouldn't do to her man and also in his presence...
Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by theEYe21(f): 8:08am On Jul 16, 2016
Julietcutie:
one of the greatest benefits of being in a deep, meaningful relationship with someone is gaining that level of comfort that only time and experience can provide. But with that comes some behaviors that should be off-limits, no matter how tried and true the relationship is. This isn’t about things like passing gas or waxing your upper lip. Love and respect runs much deeper than that and as wives, God calls us to a high standard, “A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.” Proverbs 31:10. We are emotionally wired creatures and revealing certain behaviors can often have a more damaging effect on our man’s view of us than we could have ever imagined. Here are some things we women should never do in front of men.
Self-deprecating :Let’s face it, we all love to
be at the receiving end of a compliment. But
sometimes, when we aren’t getting the
affirmation we need, we tend to fish for them.
One way of doing that is by being self-
deprecating. When we consistently say terrible
and negative things about ourselves, sooner or
later, it brings these notions into fruition and our
man will inevitably begin to believe them…and
even worse, so might you. A confident woman is
far more attractive than one who doesn’t respect
herself—so keep your commentary about yourself
positive and optimistic.
“For the Lord will be your confidence and will
keep your foot from being caught.” Proverbs 3:26
2) Drive Poorly :
How many times have you heard a man joke
about a “female driver”? As harsh as it is for
women to be at the bud of that jab, even despite
the fact that we are statistically less prone to
accidents and risky driving behaviors, it’s a
stereotype that we can perpetuate by exhibiting
poor driving behaviors in front of our men. So put
aside anything that distracts you: your phone,
makeup, the radio, food, etc. Keep your eyes on
the road and be acutely aware of your
surroundings.
3)Doubt Yourself
Women are often (unfairly) criticized for being
indecisive. While it’s totally okay to be unsure of
things, it becomes less okay when we drastically
change our minds (or conversely can’t make up
our minds) on life’s more pressing issues. Avoid
making rash decisions and take the time you need
to sort through the decision, but make sure you
are thorough and thoughtful in your logic so you
aren’t tempted to change your mind. And don’t
be afraid to stand behind your decision, even
when the odds are stacked up against you. A
decisive, self-assured woman is always
appreciated by our men.
4)Lose Your Temper
There is absolutely a time and place to get angry.
It’s not an emotion that should be stifled or
hidden, but it should be reserved for only the
most warranted of situations. Recognize the
difference between being angry and losing your
temper. Anger is reached after thoughtful
consideration and examination of all
circumstances. Losing your temper happens
spontaneously, prematurely and often before
understanding all aspects of the issue. Next time
you find yourself on the brink of losing it, refrain
from taking action on it and give yourself a few
moments to collect your thoughts (or even sleep
on it) before making any rash conclusions.
5)Get Overly Jealous
It’s okay to get a little jealous of your man from
time to time—after all, God is jealous for us, too
(Deuteronomy 4:23-24). But we need to be
careful and not let our jealousy over asinine
things spiral out of control, as over time, it can
be a cancer in a relationship. The more you
express your jealousy, the more your husband is
going to take measures to avoid unwarranted
confrontation from you and that’s not the kind of
marriage you want to be in. Trust is the
cornerstone of a healthy marriage and by trusting
our husbands we are showing them our love and
support in the best possible way.
6)Criticize His Manhood
So your man may not be the handiest around the
house or perhaps he’s not quite athletically
inclined. That doesn’t mean you need to remind
him of these facts. In fact, seemingly harmless
jokes or comments of that nature can severely
emasculate a man. Our words carry so much
power and kind ones can have a wonderfully
lasting effect on a marriage.
7)Draw Comparisons
Drawing comparisons to other people and other
relationships is unhealthy, unproductive and can
lead to unrealistic expectations. When we point
out our differences, in particular in regards to our
husbands, it can ruin their confidence and confuse
them. God brought the two of you together in the
most unique way, no two stories are alike.
Cc : lalasticlala
Cc : RoyalRoy
Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by theEYe21(f): 8:10am On Jul 16, 2016
@Julietcutie nice post smiley sorry for the misunderstanding earlier
Re: 7 Things Women Shouldn't Do In Front Of Men by Julietcutie(f): 8:17am On Jul 16, 2016
theEYe21:
@Julietcutie nice post smiley sorry for the misunderstanding earlier
OK

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