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Sex Mate Or Best Friend: Who Should I Marry? by Rayloverscrib: 10:00am On Jul 20, 2016
It is nothing new that in our world today, we record union, that is, people getting married everyday. Great right? But sadly enough, people get divorced everyday too.

Now, that's the stake in our world today and it's getting to an alarming rate. Did know that the world is getting worse because many family bonds have been misplaced.


In today's post, we'll look at how we should approach marriage so that we don't fall as many others have failed.

One of the secrets of a successful marriage is that people should get married to their best friend.
During your courtship, establish a strong friendship between you and your partner. Do not marry your sex mate; marry your best friend. The mistake some people make is that they marry their sex mate, i.e the person they are sexually attracted to.


If husband and wife are best friends, quarrels will not be much, a man will not beat his wife, a man will not see himself as a boss but as a partner and friend of his wife, a woman will not fear her husband but she will respect him, husband and wife will not like to leave each other, therefore there will be no divorce; when husband and wife are best friends, they wont like to hurt each other, therefore they wont cheat on each other. They will play and laugh together.

Therefore, do not marry a person because of sex. The marriage will not be successful. Do not marry a person because of money; the marriage will not be successful.
You should marry a person because he/she is your best friend that you love so much and you are fond of each other.

Therefore during dating/courtship, develop a strong friendship with your partner through constant communication, spending plenty of time together with your partner and be very much fond of each other.


I hope this will help you in your choice of who to marry. And who's that? Your best friend of course, not your sex mate.

In one of our articles, we have addressed failing marriages. You should read that if your relationship or marriage is crumbling.

Here you go for more: http://www.loverscrib.com/2016/07/sex-mate-or-best-friend-who-should-i.html?m=0

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Re: Sex Mate Or Best Friend: Who Should I Marry? by EmperorLee(m): 10:18am On Jul 20, 2016
Correct.

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Re: Sex Mate Or Best Friend: Who Should I Marry? by kiddkash(m): 10:22am On Jul 20, 2016
sex mate. sometimes love isn't enough you need heat In your marriage and by heat I mean hot sex with passion

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Re: Sex Mate Or Best Friend: Who Should I Marry? by halfricanadian(f): 10:28am On Jul 20, 2016
kiddkash:
sex mate. sometimes love isn't enough you need heat I'm you marriage and by heat I mean hot sex

Oga u can av a great sex with ny one

But hot sex comes with passion nd passion is initiated by love u saying same with op tongue

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Re: Sex Mate Or Best Friend: Who Should I Marry? by Richiy(f): 10:28am On Jul 20, 2016
All I know is that sex is very important too. Strive to have a best friend that you are sexually attracted to grin, then marry. grin grin

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Re: Sex Mate Or Best Friend: Who Should I Marry? by Rayloverscrib: 10:29am On Jul 20, 2016
kiddkash:
sex mate. sometimes love isn't enough you need heat I'm you marriage and by heat I mean hot sex

For how long can u have sex, out of 24hrs, how many?
Sex doesn't last forever, but love does cos true doesn't fade. grin
Re: Sex Mate Or Best Friend: Who Should I Marry? by halfricanadian(f): 10:30am On Jul 20, 2016
Richiy:
All I know is that sex is very important too. Strive to have a best friend that you are sexually attracted to grin, then marry. grin grin

Abi o like my bestfrnds nd my "invisible guys"
Re: Sex Mate Or Best Friend: Who Should I Marry? by theEYe21(f): 10:34am On Jul 20, 2016
Marry a person that's both your sex mate and your bestfriend. Why can't you have both?

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Re: Sex Mate Or Best Friend: Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 10:54am On Jul 20, 2016

lol. sex mate Abeg! grin




Love ain't gonna give me blind blowing, knee weakening orgasms. lipsrsealed Sex is...tongue


Who knows? I might just have one life changing Orgasm like that and fall in love....embarassed abracadabra!

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Re: Sex Mate Or Best Friend: Who Should I Marry? by Rayloverscrib: 10:58am On Jul 20, 2016
theEYe21:
Marry a person that's both your sex mate and your bestfriend. Why can't you have both?

Well, this too is a good point. Especially wen u have em both in a woman. But can u find one? Difficult. A good wife, who can find?

I've been single and searching for the one that has the both. Ahbeg u gon help me search. grin grin
Re: Sex Mate Or Best Friend: Who Should I Marry? by Rayloverscrib: 11:05am On Jul 20, 2016
Estharfabian:

lol. sex mate Abeg! grin




Love ain't gonna give me blind blowing, knee weakening orgasms. lipsrsealed Sex is...tongue


Who knows? I might just have one life changing Orgasm like that and fall in love....embarassed abracadabra!

Well, me go like ur type ooo grin grin love and sex.
Re: Sex Mate Or Best Friend: Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 11:11am On Jul 20, 2016
Rayloverscrib:

Well, me go like ur type ooo grin grin love and sex.
grin see your head! be Oliver-twisting upandown!


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