I hav bn a fwend wit diz lady for two yrs now.i have asked her out on two occasions but d answer was NO. When I asked y she said we could only be fwends. She has visited me on four occasions and I paid her similar visits. I am afraid to ask her out again. She calls me once. Each time I stop calling her for months she will start calling me. I tried to remove her from my mind but when ever she calls I get carried away. I like her but I am nt convinced if she likes me. I need signs to know whether she likes me or not. I am confused. She pretends to like me at times but am nt convinced. She doesn't demand money or stuffs from me except I decide to buy stuffs for her. We r nt in the same schl tho!
Ladies pls let me know so that I will move on on time. I would have moved on but I am confused : I am still green in relationship and dating stuffs. I need to know the basic green lights. if they r ways i can test for those signs thru my own actions, pls I would like to know.


It is cool to be in a relationship especially when one is now getting older but because of the hitch associated with relationship and dating, I shy away from it most tyms. I have bn in d "vaseline crew" for some time now. "Konji" dey hold me wella. thanks!

Ladies playing hard to get since 1818 B.C

I don't mind ladies doing a little shakara b4 they agree, but sometimes they overdo it

This lady in question really want you but don't want to appear cheap.... I know ladies, after the first advance, if she is not feeling you ..... Her attitude will change "drastically" infact you would be scared to say hi to her in public to avoid embarrassing you

Well, my suggestion is.... If you really see the future with her..... Ask her out again and be very plain and direct .. Sometimes ladies want to see that you are really serious with them . So go all in this time but do not, I repeat " do not " appear desperate or weak... Let your words be strong but not harsh... Show her that you really mean business and let her know that you plan to move on and find another person since time waits for no man...

Then listen to her and give her time to digest your scoop "if needed" and hopefully she comes home to daddy otherwise forward march my guy... At a time no time...

Check my signature...

Cheers

I don't think she like you for sexual thing, she told she just want a sister-brother friendship. Maybe she enjoys your company, abi you get small change? that one too.
Meanwhile you need to do something about your konji before you hurt yourself. Fear not, get woman, court, marry her and do am freely any time any where, you are not getting younger, na you talk am ooo

continue to ask her out she will agree one day pls dont forget to check my signature...

Cheers

She has friendzoned u, all becos u didn't make d first move on tym. I will not advice u to ask her out again. Just keep being friends with her n look for another girl.
One thing u must know is dat, Rejection is Better than Regret. U have to move fast with women. When you find yourself hesitant, always yield to Action. If you see her, do not wait, gawk or wait for a ‘perfect moment’. Action, action, action!” Even though u will failed, u will felt much better that u tried.
Goodluck.

Badgers14:
Ladies playing hard to get since 1818 B.C

I don't mind ladies doing a little shakara b4 they agree, but sometimes they overdo it

This lady in question really want you but don't want to appear cheap.... I know ladies, after the first advance, if she is not feeling you ..... Her attitude will change "drastically" infact you would be scared to say hi to her in public to avoid embarrassing you

Well, my suggestion is.... If you really see the future with her..... Ask her out again and be very plain and direct .. Sometimes ladies want to see that you are really serious with them . So go all in this time but do not, I repeat " do not " appear desperate or weak... Let your words be strong but not harsh... Show her that you really mean business and let her know that you plan to move on and find another person since time waits for no man...

Then listen to her and give her time to digest your scoop "if needed" and hopefully she comes home to daddy otherwise forward march my guy... At a time no time...

Check my signature...

Cheers

for ds ur post,Jennifer must gv u lap dance. All d bills on me

Lagban:
I hav bn a fwend wit diz lady for two yrs now.i have asked her out on two occasions but d answer was NO. When I asked y she said we could only be fwends. She has visited me on four occasions and I paid her similar visits. I am afraid to ask her out again. She calls me once. Each time I stop calling her for months she will start calling me. I tried to remove her from my mind but when ever she calls I get carried away. I like her but I am nt convinced if she likes me. I need signs to know whether she likes me or not. I am confused. She pretends to like me at times but am nt convinced. She doesn't demand money or stuffs from me except I decide to buy stuffs for her. We r nt in the same schl tho!
Ladies pls let me know so that I will move on on time. I would have moved on but I am confused : I am still green in relationship and dating stuffs. I need to know the basic green lights. if they r ways i can test for those signs thru my own actions, pls I would like to know.
It is cool to be in a relationship especially when one is now getting older but because of the hitch associated with relationship and dating, I shy away from it most tyms. I have bn in d "vaseline crew" for some time now. "Konji" dey hold me wella. thanks!

My suggestion is that she might be playing games with you or might be serious about wht she is telling you of which you don't like..What you want from her is that you want her to be yours jst try all the best u could & STOP calling her with time if she is really into you she will definitely come back then u're now the one in control & make a sexual move on her if She starts talking dt rubbish again jst tell her exactly the kind of relationship u want from her that if she is not ready to comply to ur demand that she should forget about the two of u being together for jst friends...NEVER ASK A GIRL TO BE UR GIRL DIRECTLY AGAIN COS U'LL ALWAYS BE GETTING A NO ANSWER OR I WILL THINK ABOUT IT...

U are very correct. I have been friend zoned! Fnx for the advice earlier on. Tho av spent a lot thruout d process, I av learnt my mistakes. In the nearest future, I will b more careful and a bit rigid . I av learnt the very hard way.

youngprof2n:
My suggestion is that she might be playing games with you or might be serious about wht she is telling you of which you don't like..What you want from her is that you want her to be yours jst try all the best u could & STOP calling her with time if she is really into you she will definitely come back then u're now the one in control & make a sexual move on her if She starts talking dt rubbish again jst tell her exactly the kind of relationship u want from her that if she is not ready to comply to ur demand that she should forget about the two of u being together for jst friends...NEVER ASK A GIRL TO BE UR GIRL DIRECTLY AGAIN COS U'LL ALWAYS BE GETTING A NO ANSWER OR I WILL THINK ABOUT IT...