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| Office Romance by mikesleek(m): 10:15am On Sep 19, 2009 |
Hi people, there is this babe in my office that told me she is in love with me. Already she doesn't hesitate to send me love messages and all but i've got no feelings for her except to shag the babe and free her. But the downside she is an orphan (make her people no go dey pursue me for dream). Wetin i go do o! |
| Re: Office Romance by omodoagba(m): 11:32am On Sep 19, 2009 |
do wht ur mind ask u to do. period!! |
| Re: Office Romance by 190: 11:50am On Sep 19, 2009 |
posta tell me are u a banker cos i know its bankers that do such tins |
| Re: Office Romance by Ben13: 11:53am On Sep 19, 2009 |
but bankers are not this dumb |
| Re: Office Romance by mikesleek(m): 1:38pm On Sep 19, 2009 |
Ben10 haba, i'm sure you should know better than throwing insults around. My people, just wanted to know your opinions, i have actually just finished, |
| Re: Office Romance by iice(f): 1:45pm On Sep 19, 2009 |
Like we needed to know that. . . The downside to dating someone in your office is she's an orphan?  Lost marbles and all  |
| Re: Office Romance by debosky(m): 1:49pm On Sep 19, 2009 |
iice: You missed the message - the downside is that unlike non-orphans whose parents can only insult you and the like IF they find out, an orphan's parents can see the rubbish he is trying to do to their daughter (since they are spirits) and inflict serious spiritual attacks on his life.  Shag her and free her - just be ready to face the consequences of the dream chasing. If you're scared visit your nearest Dibia or Babalawo for some good otumorkpo. |
| Re: Office Romance by iice(f): 1:55pm On Sep 19, 2009 |
debosky: What about all her 'love' messages? What if she becomes fixated on him when he shags and frees her? In the same office, with same co-workers and bosses. . . I wouldn't drink the coffee on the table But then again, he's more concerned with spiritual influences than realistic ones. |
| Re: Office Romance by debosky(m): 2:00pm On Sep 19, 2009 |
iice: To each his own - I assume he feels he can handle the physical part, but spiritual attacks can be more devastating. The thing is, being in Nigeria (if that is where he is) he will always be the right person and will be able to claim 'she was chasing me but I'm no longer interested'. |
| Re: Office Romance by iice(f): 2:05pm On Sep 19, 2009 |
debosky: Rofl right. . . BTW Welcome back |
| Re: Office Romance by mikesleek(m): 3:27pm On Sep 19, 2009 |
I know it sounds stupid. Let me clarify something, about the spirits part, i was only pulling a joke viat obviously didn't go thru. Apart from the office romance issue, which in my office is a big bad idea plus the every 5mins call to my ext, her being an orphan makes me feel she deserved a better, I guess i'm saying trash. Thanks for your opinions all. @ iice you've made a very good analysis, and really that's why i'm worried about her crush or love as the care may be. |
| Re: Office Romance by CrazyMan(m): 4:01pm On Sep 19, 2009 |
mikesleek:If you don’t love her, then remain just friends with her; breaking the heart of someone is very bad and believe me, it can ruin your future. |
| Re: Office Romance by mikesleek(m): 4:18pm On Sep 19, 2009 |
What? Where exactly is the future story coming from? Please, that ain't part of this. |
| Re: Office Romance by CrazyMan(m): 4:30pm On Sep 19, 2009 |
mikesleek:She could place a curse on you; I've heard so many stories like that; and the man in question would begin to suffer not knowing that - that little fling he had in the past is the cause of his problems. |
| Re: Office Romance by mikesleek(m): 5:45pm On Sep 19, 2009 |
But the babe is actually just pushing too hard all the phone calls, messages, it's crazy, really crazy. I think i'm in trouble. |
| Re: Office Romance by chikeorji123(m): 11:13pm On Sep 19, 2009 |
trouble ke? just suround yourself with immediate odeshi,incase if they tamper you through spiritual link. shikina. |
| Re: Office Romance by mikesleek(m): 5:27am On Sep 20, 2009 |
Spiritual link. This ain't Nigerian movie bro. |
| Re: Office Romance by CrazyMan(m): 6:43am On Sep 20, 2009 |
Just remain friends with her until you can decide whether or not you want to date her. Its very bad to take advantage of someone simply because he or she loves you. So if she keeps calling you and sending you lovely text messages like you said, sit her down and tell her to stop rushing things; that you prefer to take it step by step; and finally try and tell it to her in a manner you wouldn't hurt her. |
| Re: Office Romance by mikesleek(m): 6:51am On Sep 20, 2009 |
Absolutely right. Thanks |
| Re: Office Romance by na2day2(m): 7:56am On Sep 20, 2009 |
mikesleek: idiot! na ppl like u dey make God regret say hin create man  mikesleek: finally u have said 2 things that actually makes sense:- 1) it sure as hell sounds stupid 2) she sure as hell deserves better seeing that u are a useless and senseless homosapien who happens to be wrongfully employed. kindly hand the job to another person who knows how to use his head and not his d1ck to work. now i can go to bed  |
| Re: Office Romance by chikeorji123(m): 10:20am On Oct 11, 2009 |
since u don"t love her,site her down and explained to her |
| Re: Office Romance by sugarpp: 10:27am On Oct 11, 2009 |
gaskiani this one no easy oooooooooooo leave the poor girl alone shah |
| Re: Office Romance by ambasue(m): 11:27am On Oct 11, 2009 |
I hv bn in dis kind of situation b4. If u dont luv her,dont start smtin dt u cant/wont finish. My suggestion: Take her 2 a decent eatery on any weekends. make sure she is famished so dt she wont reject any tin u offered her.Get a good meal 4 two. U guys should eat without saying a word.When u re done wit the meal,call her by her name and ensure her gaze is on u,then tell her how u feel.tell her u admire her concern towards ur welfare. Tell her u wouldn't want 2 go into this becos, (ur reasons ,Pls b sincere) tell her u dont want 2 betray her trust and luv 4 u.(ur reasons) tell her u will appreciate her more as a friend and collegue. Plsssss,try not 2 hurt her feelings. After dis,I believe she will let u b 4 good. All d best ma dude. |
| Re: Office Romance by whitesturd(f): 2:43pm On Oct 11, 2009 |
amb.asu.u couldnt ve said it better. |
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