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Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by chiwetel(f): 1:09pm On Jul 31, 2016
Hi guys,been a while so here is food for my readers,please do enjoy.
The price of not making a move towards personal development, has been and would continue to be great. Most women do not typically define self-esteem and purpose in terms of personal accomplishments, instead they primarily feel that the only way to have some sense of identity, value and meaning in their lives is through a RELATIONSHIP. When a woman doesn't dare to dream or commit to a purpose, her sense of meaning and worth generally comes from excessive emphasis on a relationship with a man.
It is sad enough that we women grow up believing in fairy tales, Cinderella for example, waiting for a man to come and fix her up. It is disturbing to think that most relationships are not because women are making sensible choices, rather it is because women are being driven to attach to men for identity, approval, safety and security all of which should come within oneself. If you are desperate for attachment to a man,if you are settling instead of being selective, then you are making stupid dating choices.
When we choose to include courage and personal achievement as part of our feminine identity, only then would we stop hearing"I know he is abusive, but I'm too scared to be alone" or "I know he lies, but if I leave,what if I never find another man?"all this and many other traps women fall into because of there lack of exercise of true courage.
Thus,it is high time we as ladies acknowledge that it is our job as a woman,as a person to become as fully realised as we can be by having dreams,forging a purpose, building an identity and making commitment to worthwhile things outside ourseleves. In doing so,we take a more active role in the quality of our own lives,so that other people;our friends, spouse and family can share from our growth.
please do vist www.Sirwels..com(#silk writes) for more articles by me.Thankscheesy

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Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by chiwetel(f): 1:14pm On Jul 31, 2016
cc:
tosynemuch
iAmCharis
joeCutie
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Breadmaker






food haf come o grin
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by EOOJ(m): 1:19pm On Jul 31, 2016
My Chiwetel, only u post, only u chop ftc...haba



Nice write up but some ladies will never ever listen na grin
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 1:20pm On Jul 31, 2016
Trapqueen77, the op said food don come, oya come and response
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 1:22pm On Jul 31, 2016
Ayam coming. Make my garri no soak. grin
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jul 31, 2016
Oma307:
Trapqueen77, the op said food don come, oya come and response



Where I gonna sit? cheesy


Juz make sure no chilli eehn grin
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by mhisbliss(f): 1:25pm On Jul 31, 2016
Someone read the epistle up there and summarize while i make myself comfortable
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 1:27pm On Jul 31, 2016
Tell them. But I don't say anytin bad if a Lady requests one OR two tins from her guy. besides Life is in stages, u will always need help from ur friends, ex n ur bf. it depends on d context

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Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by chiwetel(f): 1:27pm On Jul 31, 2016
mhisbliss:
Someone read the epistle up there and summarize while i make myself comfortable
oya start reading am coming to epp ugrin
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by mhisbliss(f): 1:32pm On Jul 31, 2016
chiwetel:
oya start reading am coming to epp ugrin
lol am tired already

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Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by chiwetel(f): 1:34pm On Jul 31, 2016
mhisbliss:
lol am tired already
Lol..Thanks for attempting.

Africans never read anywayscheesy

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Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by mhisbliss(f): 1:36pm On Jul 31, 2016
chiwetel:
Lol..Thanks for attempting.

Africans never read anyways: D
believe me bae i tried
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 1:38pm On Jul 31, 2016
mhisbliss:
Someone read the epistle up there and summarize while i make myself comfortable

If you can take ur time to read it, it is enlightening, a summary from someone would most likely make u lose nuggets of wisdom that you would assimilate if u read the post urself.
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by mhisbliss(f): 1:39pm On Jul 31, 2016
kennygee:


If you can take ur time to read it, it is enlightening, a summary from someone would most likely make u lose nuggets of wisdom that you would assimilate if u read the post urself.
lol ok lemme try again
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 1:42pm On Jul 31, 2016
mhisbliss:
lol ok lemme try again

smiley
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 1:43pm On Jul 31, 2016
chiwetel:


Another guy busted!!
I don't know when guys will stop impersonating ladies on this forum

*NB, didn't arrive at my conclusion due to this topic you created, but the current picture on your profile and past comments has exposed you!
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Lsofdk(m): 1:45pm On Jul 31, 2016
chiwetel:
cc:
tosyne much
iAmC haris
joeC utie
Lso fdk
EO OJ
Bread maker






food haf come o grin
This one na sunday ricegrin
Nice piece dear but the title of this thread will make most ladies here come for your head without reading its content; D


i can't chop alone, make i invite my goons them grin
cc: smellymouth mimzy suzan404 smellinganus ogorwyne

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Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by mhisbliss(f): 1:49pm On Jul 31, 2016
Independent ladies now i like the sound of that, its the point i like most about all what the op is saying, thats why linda ikeji is really my role model thanks for the message op nice job
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 1:50pm On Jul 31, 2016
Lsofdk:

This one na sunday ricegrin
Nice piece dear but the title of this thread will make most ladies here come for your head without reading its content; D


i can't chop alone, make i invite my goons them grin
cc: smellymouth mimzy suzan404 smellinganus ogorwyne
grin
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by nonsoyoungprof: 1:50pm On Jul 31, 2016
I am bewildered by the foolishness of some (99%) ladies,. they never return good gesture nor appreciate ,.they walk into your life asif they are your creator,.just like a lady I asked why she do not use to call, she said it is because she have no call card(recharge card), I sent her good amount of recharge card, my brodas in the lord, up till today I never see her call, over 3 months ..

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Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 1:51pm On Jul 31, 2016
chiwetel:


*modified, refresh
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by chiwetel(f): 2:01pm On Jul 31, 2016
TheModsAreMad:


Another guy busted!!
I don't know when guys will stop impersonating ladies on this forum

*NB, didn't arrive at my conclusion due to this topic you created, but the current picture on your profile and past comments has exposed you!
please do read dearcheesy.

iAmCharis.. they r saying your bae is a guy oooo
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Smellymouth: 2:02pm On Jul 31, 2016
Lsofdk:

This one na sunday ricegrin
Nice piece dear but the title of this thread will make most ladies here come for your head without reading its content; D


i can't chop alone, make i invite my goons them grin
cc: smellymou.th mimz.y suzan4.04 smell.inganus ogorw.yne

Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by ogorwyne(f): 2:17pm On Jul 31, 2016
Lsofdk:

This one na sunday ricegrin
Nice piece dear but the title of this thread will make most ladies here come for your head without reading its content; D


i can't chop alone, make i invite my goons them grin
cc: smellymojuth mimzy suzan40k4 smellinganuus ogorwyne
Chop dis one alone o. I haff beleful
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Originalsly: 2:53pm On Jul 31, 2016
It is only natural for a lady to need the company of a man....and vice versa. To do anything else is to suppress nature....regardless of what the mouth says. I know of ladies who have done exactly what Op is preaching.... have degrees, great jobs, own houses, fully independent....but now unfulfilled because they have no children nor men of their own....are now desperate...desperate to find a man... husband material.. but what is left to pick from are widowers or played out players with lots of baggage. And the crybis..educated Black men are hard to find /Black men are afraid of educated Black women. Nature will always run its course.

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Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Lsofdk(m): 4:58pm On Jul 31, 2016
Smellymouth:
ogorwyne:
Chop dis one alone o. I haff beleful
grin grin grin

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Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jul 31, 2016
Originalsly:
It is only natural for a lady to need the company of a man ....and vice versa. To do anything else is to suppress nature....regardless of what the mouth says. I know of ladies who have done exactly what Op is preaching.... have degrees, great jobs, own houses, fully independent....but now unfulfilled because they have no children nor men of their own....are now desperate...desperate to find a man... husband material.. but what is left to pick from are widowers or played out players with lots of baggage. And the crybis..educated Black men are hard to find /Black men are afraid of educated Black women. Nature will always run its course.
The OP didn't say the opposite @bolded. Yes, it's natural for a lady to want and need the company of a man but while her man is yet to show up, she should develop herself and not wait for a man to fix her up. The kind of ladies described in the OP oftentimes attach themselves to "prospectives" for wrong reasons.

I dare say the ladies you're talking about aren't unmarried today because no one showed interest but because they were too selective when they were in their prime. Do you really opine they sit their as$ at home while waiting for one rich husband rather than getting educated with good jobs?

chiwetel:
please do read dearcheesy.
iAmChari s.. they r saying your bae is a guy oooo
You dey mind all these pseudo nl FBI? Na attention dem dey find. grin

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