How would you feel when you go to bed with your penis still standing like a walk stick used by forefathers while beside you lies a girl that can calm down the tension?


From the moment I met her to this very day, she is still the princess I am proud of. The only problem now is unsatisfied sex. Anytime I made love to her, she will give up after the first round. She always complain that she is already satisfy and can't go for the second round. Sometimes I feel so angry because the tension is still burning in me.

On one condition she said that she can't continue, my desire was so strong that I had to hold her down and take her from behind. At the end, I felt sorry for my acts. I apologize to her but she said that I don't have to apologize but to blame her incompetence and was crying.

Now she always ask me if I love her. I am tired of that question. I have tried to let her know that there is nothing wrong but she always has some fear within her that I might go for another girl to quench my hunger. She always feel sorry anytime I lie on my stomach trying to calm down my erect penis.

Now I am fighting two cases, calming down my tension and trying to erase that fear of dumping within her.

I feel sorry for u cos i can relate with your situation. If she loves u, then she has to understand and try going beyond the first round or do some serious pre-intimacy, otherwise i'm afraid she's justified in asking whether u love her cos she's on her way out if she cant satisfy u - and she knows it in the back of her mind.

Be patient with her for now, things change with time - perhaps she'll get to adapt a bit. . . But the chances are quite dim and you should consider your options if there is no joy at the end of the day.

I think u are being selfish here, u made her feel the way she is feeling now, u have complained so much that she is feeling like a failure or incompetent in bed.
U probably having s.x with her not making love with her, u go ontop and start pounding like no 2moro without caring about how she want it and get her involved, all she does is to lay there praying that u finish soon and leave her alone.

If u stop thinking with your willy and take your time and pay attention to the senstive part of her body, she will feel more loved,she will be more than ready to return the fav by the time u want to start pounding.

Stop treating her as your s.x toy and more of an active  partner.

justwise:

I think u are being selfish here, u made her feel the way she is feeling now, u have complained so much that she is feeling like a failure or incompetent in bed.
U probably having s.x with her not making love with her, u go ontop and start pounding like no 2moro without caring about how she want it and get her involved, all she does is to lay there praying that u finish soon and leave her alone.

If u stop thinking with your willy and take your time and pay attention to the senstive part of her body, she will feel more loved,she will be more than ready to return the fav by the time u want to start pounding.

Stop treating her as your s.x toy and more of an active partner.

Thats a harsh assumption
You should ask if thats what he's doing and not assume and scold

whitelexi:

Thats a harsh assumption
You should ask if thats what he's doing and not assume and scold

He should honestly prove me wrong.

Whitelexi, Thanks for your concern and advice

justwise:

I think u are being selfish here, u made her feel the way she is feeling now, u have complained so much that she is feeling like a failure or incompetent in bed.
U probably having s.x with her not making love with her, u go ontop and start pounding like no 2moro without caring about how she want it and get her involved, all she does is to lay there praying that u finish soon and leave her alone.

If u stop thinking with your willy and take your time and pay attention to the senstive part of her body, she will feel more loved,she will be more than ready to return the fav by the time u want to start pounding.

Stop treating her as your s.x toy and more of an active  partner.

Justwise, I think you are living the life of a media( those journalists that rushed into conclusion without knowing the state of the affair). I don't know what your definition of sex is but the last time I checked my dictionary( which was an hour ago),unless if it has been updated, it has the same meaning as with "make love". Fucking or Bleep is the vulgar words. Please don't call her my intimacy gadget again. She is more than you think.

Anyway, I do appreciate your concern. Thank you.

No u don't a appreciate my comment that is why u reacted with anger, quiet rightly so, don't expect everybody to agree with u or tell u what u want to hear in a forum like this.

I did not use the term, f, k for obvious reason.

justwise:

No u don't a appreciate my comment that is why u reacted with anger, quiet rightly so, don't expect everybody to agree with u or tell u what u want to hear in a forum like this.

I did not use the term, f, k for obvious reason.

Haha, you are damn funny. Anytime I'm browsing through nairaland, I always felt that we are one family. Don't decipher my writing as anger. I do understand everyone won't have the same view point.

justwise:

U probably having s.x with her not making love with her, u go ontop and start pounding like no 2moro without caring about how she want it and get her involved,

When I read those lines, I was rolling on the ground with laughter. Of course there is tomorrow, especially when there are a lot of guys owning me out there

deco2come:

Haha, you are damn funny. Anytime I'm browsing through nairaland, I always felt that we are one family. Don't decipher my writing as anger. I do understand everyone won't have the same view point.

When I read those lines, I was rolling on the ground with laughter. Of course there is tomorrow, especially when there are a lot of guys owning me out there

Hahahaha. please i'm not one of those owning u, take it easy when u read and reply my post, ahaha, no hard feelings bro

Apparently, You only want to read comments made
in Your favor but sorry to discontent You . . . .I quite agree wiff Just2wise
esp. his first 2 lines.

If Your desire is too strong and she can't meet up
Y don't You two get to some kinda compromise and as for Your girl . . . . .
I smell a high rate of insecurity and it will do her no good.NVM . . .I should be telling HER that not YOU.

Missy b and justwise have said it all

whatever happened to pre-intimacy, i mean the real serious pre-intimacy, its so obvious all you do is take her and ram your ozuma rock into her hole without lubricating the place with pre-intimacy, why on earth wouldnt she complain

I hope the first or second gurl you had sex with is a prostitute, cos that will explain the reason why you just ram without smooching

!amebo no1:

Missy b and justwise have said it all

whatever happened to pre-intimacy, i mean the real serious pre-intimacy, its so obvious all you do is take her and ram your ozuma rock into her hole without lubricating the place with pre-intimacy, why on earth wouldnt she complain
I hope the first or second gurl you had sex with is a prostitute, cos that will explain the reason why you just ram without smooching

LMAO

But seriously, some guys are like this - they dont cum quickly no matter what the girl does, so make una no kill am ohhh

el stupido

whitelexi:

LMAO

But seriously, some guys are like this - they dont cum quickly no matter what the girl does, so make una no kill am ohhh

so because some guys are like this, then alot of we women have to suffer numerous panelbeating right inside of us? even those that dig for gold, they first of all massage the ground with their legs or hands before digging, all this guy does is rip clothes or raise it up before drilling, i mean, if he continues like this, this girl will end up with a catheter connected to her vagina cos her vaginal wall is loose

If he wants to practice ramming without smooching, let him go to the zoo, and leave the delicate/sensitive hole of a woman, if a guy tries this on me, i swear to gawd, he will end up sleeping for two months, cos i will so sedate him,atleast to have my peace and heal properly

It happen like that, My guy you need to take things easy okay, cause if u leave this girl of urs do you no who u are going to meet next?

Even though this is often an uncomfortable topic of discussion, u needs to tell her this directly and not beat around the bush. So many relationships are ruined because the couple cannot communicate about things like sexual performance. I hope u do not just laid down on her and fu*ck her,
Few women orgasm with just penetration (hint). you got to be adventurous in the badroom.

hahahaha,me i like sex alot oooh.if my bf was hard like dis every night il gladly yansh him till it goes down oh.hmmmm il be happy sef that he wants to fu ck constantly.lol

You can make sex enjoyable. Haue pre-intimacy with her! Make her wet and try to know the right places she loves to be touched. I swear she will go more than 1round with you.

LOL. Awwahh ic. Tht is Good. Let me help ur GF been that he is nt around, Call me 08070625314, Hit me Up

Poster, have you talkd to your gf about this?

Please tell her about this and maybe it would be nice to tell her what you like her to do. I know if my man tells me what he wants or fantisize, I will have to try and do it cause the nect time when Im feeling Hot, I would expect the same thing from him.

deco2come:

How would you feel when you go to bed with your penis still standing like a walk stick used by forefathers while beside you lies a girl that can calm down the tension?


From the moment I met her to this very day, she is still the princess I am proud of. The only problem now is unsatisfied sex. Anytime I made love to her, she will give up after the first round. She always complain that she is already satisfy and can't go for the second round. Sometimes I feel so angry because the tension is still burning in me.

On one condition she said that she can't continue, my desire was so strong that I had to hold her down and take her from behind. At the end, I felt sorry for my acts. I apologize to her but she said that I don't have to apologize but to blame her incompetence and was crying.

Now she always ask me if I love her. I am tired of that question. I have tried to let her know that there is nothing wrong but she always has some fear within her that I might go for another girl to quench my hunger. She always feel sorry anytime I lie on my stomach trying to calm down my erect penis.

Now I am fighting two cases, calming down my tension and trying to erase that fear of dumping within her.

WTF?!!!! You mean you raped her, /?/? Anally

justwise:

I think u are being selfish here, u made her feel the way she is feeling now, u have complained so much that she is feeling like a failure or incompetent in bed.
U probably having s.x with her not making love with her, u go ontop and start pounding like no 2moro without caring about how she want it and get her involved, all she does is to lay there praying that u finish soon and leave her alone.

If u stop thinking with your willy and take your time and pay attention to the senstive part of her body, she will feel more loved,she will be more than ready to return the fav by the time u want to start pounding.

Stop treating her as your s.x toy and more of an active partner.

whitelexi:

Thats a harsh assumption
You should ask if thats what he's doing and not assume and scold

Harsh but valid assumption. Justwise really nailed it on the head.

lol

justwise and missybe have valid points and poster yes justwise might have made assumption but there is still some elements of truth in what he is saying but i really think you should consider pre-intimacy and other aspects of sex beesides actual intercourse, because you will probably find out these other aspects are just as satisfying

luvbooks:

WTF?!!!! You mean you raped her, /?/? Anally

I deliberately refused to thrash that part . . . . .
I wanted the poster to make a fool of himself b4fore I slap his crime on his face.

These dudes sef!!

On one condition she said that she can't continue, my desire was so strong that I had to hold her down and take her from behind. At the end, I felt sorry for my acts. I apologize to her but she said that I don't have to apologize but to blame her incompetence and was crying.


Jesus Christ this was rapeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

!amebo no1:

so because some guys are like this, then alot of we women have to suffer numerous panelbeating right inside of us? even those that dig for gold, they first of all massage the ground with their legs or hands before digging, all this guy does is rip clothes or raise it up before drilling, i mean, if he continues like this, this girl will end up with a catheter connected to her vagina cos her vaginal wall is loose

If he wants to practice ramming without smooching, let him go to the zoo, and leave the delicate/sensitive hole of a woman, if a guy tries this on me, i swear to gawd, he will end up sleeping for two months, cos i will so sedate him,atleast to have my peace and heal properly

ahahahaha I was in pieces when i read that part, my God! amebo no1 u are a nutcase

Missy B:

I deliberately refused to thrash that part . . . . .
I wanted the poster to make a fool of himself b4fore I slap his crime on his face.

These dudes sef!!

Me too, i don't know wat to make of it, i was completely taken aback on that

joxiri:

justwise and missybe have valid points and poster yes justwise might have made assumption but there is still some elements of truth in what he is saying but i really think you should consider pre-intimacy and other aspects of sex beesides actual intercourse, because you will probably find out these other aspects are just as satisfying

It does help, alot of women don't like fire bridget approach to sex, getting them ready for the main thing may take time but it pays.

For those that think that I don't know what is pre-intimacy, please this is modern time. I'm not living the life of OKONKWO( Things Fall Apart). Those were the days when men think of their palm wine more than any other thing else.

I take time in every thing I do. I don't want to explain my bedroom fantasy here but all I can say is that she is always the one to beg for  my d**k during the pre-intimacy. Sometimes she feel satisfy with the pre-intimacy and refuse to continue.

!amebo no1:

so because some guys are like this, then alot of we women have to suffer numerous panelbeating right inside of us? even those that dig for gold, they first of all massage the ground with their legs or hands before digging, all this guy does is rip clothes or raise it up before drilling, i mean, if he continues like this, this girl will end up with a catheter connected to her vagina cos her vaginal wall is loose

If he wants to practice ramming without smooching, let him go to the zoo, and leave the delicate/sensitive hole of a woman, if a guy tries this on me, i swear to gawd, he will end up sleeping for two months, cos i will so sedate him,atleast to have my peace and heal properly

I don't make love like a civil engineer, who always think of the length, width, diameter,radius, and angle of intersection; with driller in his hand, he goes to work!
I am an explorer.

truphie:

hahahaha,me i like sex alot oooh.if my bf was hard like dis every night il gladly yansh him till it goes down oh.hmmmm il be happy sef that he wants to fu ck constantly.lol

Amadioha!!

@deco2come I will advise you and your gf seek sexual therapy and counselling, if it is availabe in nigeria