Sometimes, it can be extremely difficult to choose a life partner, especially if you have little time for yourself. Countless of marriages break down before the first anniversary. Others start to tolerate rather than enjoy their marriages. You may find a partener who meets only some of your choices for a soulmate. in fact some just marry once they feel someone can sexually satisfy them, which is the craziest form of it. I am thinking the best thing to do is to first get someone that satisfies up to 50% of your choices, then try to help yourselves become exactly the way you want it. I don't believe in one being destined for another.