My boyfriend just proposed and i said no
i love him dearly but i need to be focusing on my studies which i've wasted too much time already.but i can't be studying and taking care of 2 babies(my baby and him).plus i need to get my fathers blessing first,since he doesn't want me near him



pls help.am i being unfair?


NB:this is not my story.a friend aske me for advise but i dont know what to say so im referring her to you

Let her give us the full gist. But then , the dude should quit being a baby.
I mean its okay to act boyish sometimes but not all the time.

It's okay, but let him know u will only accept his proposals after u might have finish ur studies due to the commitment involve.

MotherOfDragons:


i love him dearly but i need to be focusing on my studies

Is she sure that is the reason?

MotherOfDragons:
My boyfriend just proposed and i said no
i love him dearly but i need to be focusing on my studies which i've wasted too much time already.but i can't be studying and taking care of 2 babies(my baby and him).plus i need to get my fathers blessing first,since he doesn't want me near him



pls help.am i being unfair?


NB:this is not my story.a friend aske me for advise but i dont know what to say so im referring her to you

The girl in question is not being unfair at all. It may be hurtful but guy should respect her decision. Sometimes we have to be hurtful to truly care in the long run.

wilsonreuben:


Is she sure that is the reason?

i think she's also scared about what people will say

Sunnymatey:
It's okay, but let him know u will only accept his proposals after u might have finish ur studies due to the commitment involve.

thing is,the guy is paying for her fees.she worries that he might change his mind she dont say yes

MotherOfDragons:
i think she's also scared about what people will say

Now that is the truth.

People like to talk and give labels to others that do not share the same mathematical space, if you let people talk about you they will talk out your life and you'll just be a working corpse.

wilsonreuben:


Now that is the truth.

People like to talk and give labels to others that do not share the same mathematical space, if you let people talk about you they will talk out your life and you'll just be a working corpse.

she also has an issue with her baba...he dont want her marrying someone out of our country

Let her give us the full gist. But then , the dude should quit being a baby.
I mean its okay to act boyish sometimes but not all the time.

yea u ryt

MotherOfDragons:
she also has an issue with her baba...he dont want her marrying someone out of our country

Thas is heavy!

MotherOfDragons:
she also has an issue with her baba...he dont want her marrying someone out of our country

That is heavy!

No one should propose till 2019. Una no dey fear No be GEJ be dis o

MotherOfDragons:
thing is,the guy is paying for her fees.she worries that he might change his mind she dont say yes

She no try o. She wants to eat her cake and having it back. The father that doesn't want her to marry the guy, no be ein responsibility to pay the daughter school fees weh d guy they carry? If e pay the school fee finish and she graduate, she would go and find another guy to marry and say this one no too fine.

MotherOfDragons:
My boyfriend just proposed and i said no
i love him dearly but i need to be focusing on my studies which i've wasted too much time already.but i can't be studying and taking care of 2 babies(my baby and him).plus i need to get my fathers blessing first,since he doesn't want me near him



pls help.am i being unfair?


NB:this is not my story.a friend aske me for advise but i dont know what to say so im referring her to you

I fear o, I for say taking care of children your dragons no be u dey take care of them

happy married life in advance

Her bf pays her school fee? NA some mumu boys dey give all dis stupid gals liver to try rubbish with dem...I've got no advice for ur Bish Frnd...wish I know d guy's mom Thu...she needs to talk sense into her son's head.

@OP , game of thrones much?


She should tell him NO at once and move on. She wants to eat her cake and have it. She doesn't love him. If she did she would have asked for help to get her daddy to agree to her wedding now

She is being selfish and wicked. She doesn't want to marry him but she wants him to continue paying her fees till she finishes school then she will now say"my dad doesn't want us to work. I think we should just move on. Choi all this babes self. There is a thread here on NL where a sugar daddy murdered a girl that dumped him after he saw here through School. She better wake up and waka before she becomes example for others

Guys don suffer. Tommorrow if that guy become a heart less player una go dey say men wicked

Swizdom:
something you should have asked ur dragons and you are here to give us headache.

did u even read the thread?did u read and understand?mugu

Suprnov3r:
@OP , game of thrones much?


She should tell him NO at once and move on. She wants to eat her cake and have it. She doesn't love him. If she did she would have asked for help to get her daddy to agree to her wedding now

She is being selfish and wicked. She doesn't want to marry him but she wants him to continue paying her fees till she finishes school then she will now say"my dad doesn't want us to work. I think we should just move on. Choi all this babes self. There is a thread here on NL where a sugar daddy murdered a girl that dumped him after he saw here through School. She better wake up and waka before she becomes example for others

Guys don suffer. Tommorrow if that guy become a heart less player una go dey say men wicked

i really hope it doesn't come to dat abi.they really love each other and the thing with the father is that he thinks her boyfriend just want to marry her so that he can get papers,he thinks he'll use her

Ifakiland:
Her bf pays her school fee? NA some mumu boys dey give all dis stupid gals liver to try rubbish with dem...I've got no advice for ur Bish Frnd...wish I know d guy's mom Thu...she needs to talk sense into her son's head.

lol its love and he wants her to have a brighter future,apparently

lol,but you killed me thou

IamLEGEND1:
Tell her she's a slimy beesh.....na why God dey use her Papa block every good thing wey dey come her life.

lol i shall pass the message

officialarab:

She no try o. She wants to eat her cake and having it back. The father that doesn't want her to marry the guy, no be ein responsibility to pay the daughter school fees weh d guy they carry? If e pay the school fee finish and she graduate, she would go and find another guy to marry and say this one no too fine.

i asked her if she's not going to leave the guy and she said no,she loves him...but its hard to blive her thou
like we av so many cases where girls leave their boyfriends who helped them get where they are for some rubbish guys

i get ur point