So I know this lady with a really wicked figure, apparently her Man is my close friend- we all know she's got a physique that can hypnotise a soccer team to pause and all wolf whistle, but ironically she is so bent on loosing weight, I really don't know if she feels insecure or something but she strongly considers herself as "Fat" and complains about her body all the time?? At some point, I thought it was her mans fault, probably making her assume she is fat by telling her stuff of the sort, but No-No, the dude totally lovez her physique infact, he is nuts about her looks and compliments her regularly... but she seems not to care about his point of view.
It then occurred to me, that most female's are hotwired like that, esp the curvy sistahs, they just consider themselves fat and don't care if some guy out there loves them "just the way they are", so they go through extra lengths to become "slim" distorting themselves along the line... na waah o, same goes for other features asides weight.
The Question... Do female's not consider if we males think they are actually beautiful the way they are?
Please sisters answer, we are puzzled here

That's what she wants, her choice her decision. That's what is going to make her happy so...

let her pls herself first abeg



if she feels that she is fat ,she owns her body not her boyfriend .let her do something about it

cruzita:
let her pls herself first abeg



if she feels that she is fat ,she owns her body not her boyfriend .let her do something about it

That's a kind of inferiority complex you know and it's completely unfortunate

theEYe21:
That's what she wants, her choice her decision. That's what is going to make her happy so...

That is exactly what I mean, so in such cases, male opinions don't matter??
We are the ones you are supposed to attract not other female's.

So far money don dy

op ,you are talking rubbish, go and work and make money,buy car build house and dress in 80k suit and come back and tell me about physical appearance, nonsense.

No, men has no say, it's her body, she can do whatever she want with it. It's not yours

optimusprime2:

That is exactly what I mean, so in such cases, male opinions don't matter??
We are the ones you are supposed to attract not other female's.

Greenbullet:
op ,you are talking rubbish, go and work and make money,buy car build house and dress in 80k suit and come back and tell me about physical appearance, nonsense.

I don't get your post at all... Did I tell you I lacked the "so called main things" you mentioned? "
It seems you don't even understand my observation... Please if you have no intellectual contribution, then don't comment at all...
Thank you.