whogoesthere:
Sir, she's not too smart for me, I just loved her, I've heard various occasions to hit the honey pot I just purposely refused to.

I registered under a different moniker anonymity sake.

Hello Bro, can we chat via whatsapp Pls, just text me ur whatsapp number via the number on my profile. It's very important.
Thanks

AceRoyal:

Hello Bro, can we chat via whatsapp Pls, just text me ur whatsapp number via the number on my profile. It's very important.
Thanks

Done that......

whogoesthere:
Hi folks,
I need matured advice on my relationship as to whether I should move on or try to salvage the situation.

I met my girlfriend in the year 2013 while serving in Zamfara state. I'm Yoruba while she's igbo. We actually met in our church student fellowship, one thing led to the other and we started dating. Throughout my service year, I would say we had an averagely smooth relationship. After service, I left for my base in Kogi state, with a promise to return as soon as I secure a job. As God would have it I secured a job with a multinational company 7 months after. 3 months after I started working I traveled to see her, I spent 2 days on the road, I didn't inform any of my family members about my trip because at that time, I had not informed them about her. She also didn't inform anyone about me.

I spent about 2 days with her, another 2 days on the road back to my base in Akwa Ibom. About 2 months after, She told another igbo woman who wanted her for her son about me, the woman reported to her mum. My babe's mum 'blew hot' calling everyone that her daughter want to 'finish' her by marrying a Yoruba guy, everyone started talking to her, she kept feeding me with details but i guess she couldn't take it anymore she said I should give her some time, I pleaded but my plea fell on deaf ears, long story short, we broke up. I was so heartbroken cause I really love her.

After about 3 weeks she sent me a text saying I claim to love her but I could easily forget her just because of a slight challenge, I tried to explain that I did that so I could move on too just like her, anyways to cut it short, we made up again. However, her attitude began to change, she started becoming cold, if I don't call, she won't, and whenever I point it out, she would say I complain too much.
Her hot and cold attitude continued, one moment she's professing absolute love for me, the other moment she's just indifferent. The situation got worse that one sunday after service she called that she's no longer interested, I told her its ok and wished her well. We occasionally exchanged pleasantries on Whatsapp, she even sent me greetings sms to check up on me twice or so, we made up again after a while, she said she couldnt get any other guy like me.

I traveled by air to see her February this year, spent about 3 days then returned. When I returned She told me on whatsapp that she thought I would make love to her (all this while we haven't done that 'cause I wanted to wait till after Wedding, however, we've done everyother thing except the main act), I told her when I come next I would.
Recently, after much persuasion, she started confessing about various guys she's been involved with, even married men she claim none of them had carnal knowledge of her that I can confirm myself if I want, that she's still a virgin, but said one of these guys fingered her, even MouthAction........I am confused, I don't know what to do, I discovered she is easily swayed by guys, and it's as if she enjoys the attention from men, this is someone who is an usher in the church..............she's in her final year in school.

This is my plight guys I love this girl, but I can't cope with a cheating spouse, I asked her, if i make love to her now and disvirgin her, I'm far away, can she promise she won't give it to another guy, she said will try but can't promise.

I'm thinking of traveling to see her just to disvirgin her(reward for all my labour, because I don't think I can marry her again, but is it worth it? 2 days on the road just because of that) or should I just call it quit over the phone?

Please matured, responsible advice abeg, No insults.
Thanks.

From experience igbo ladies are too loose.i am not really surprised.please don't insult me i am igbo oo

whogoesthere:
Thanks for your advice guys, I appreciate

Love the said sometimes makes us to be weak .

Op pls look for another girl close to you and preferably from ur tribe. She is manipulating and using you as her meal ticket for now. Once any serious suitor from her tribe comes around,she will ditch your sorry ass. I don't care if she is a virgin or not. Beside don't try going to see her just to ve ur own share of her ass,u might get involved in an accident,and become useless to urself and ur family. Be wise bro.

JONNYSPUTE:
Op pls look for another girl close to you and preferably from ur tribe. She is manipulating and using you as her meal ticket for now. Once any serious suitor from her tribe comes around,she will ditch your sorry ass. I don't care if she is a virgin or not. Beside don't try going to see her just to ve ur own share of her ass,u might get involved in an accident,and become useless to urself and ur family. Be wise bro.

Thanks bro it's all in the past now, she broke up with me incidentally, she's been calling and acting all caring of late

whogoesthere:
Done that......

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