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Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by Amazingcidpro(m): 6:28am On Aug 21, 2016
we have been dating for a year nw, before she went bck to skul, i called her nd i sat her down nd i told her, that i love her so much nd i want to spend d rest of my life with her nd that lets be sincere with our selves nd of she knws she doesnt love me that muj or she doesnt want to be with me she should tell me or if she gona cheat on me , its better i knw nw nd maybe stop it nw before getting into some ting serious, bt she saod she loves me, she wont cheat nd she will love to be with me , we agreed nd she left for skul, after like dew months, i saw on her dp she nd a guy pic mixed togeda, nd there was wring saying will always love u my sweetheart, i was shocked , i sent her a message askin her who is that guy nd whats d meaning of her dp, she said it was a mistake nd it was someone that uploaded it , sje said she was charging it at d hostel, i asked my self , hw can someone access ur fone, nt only that, access ur whatsapp nd upload such pic without u knwing , wen nd hw did d picerson get nd pic mixed both pic, she said its one guy like dah is always disurbing her , after that few days letter, her room mate added me on whatsapp nd told me that she is cheatin on me, i asked hw she got my no, she said she took it from her fone, that she has told her to tell me bt she wont nd it hurts her to see a friends decieving me , she even gave me my gf nd the guys pic wen they were kissing nd other pic, nd if i ask my gf abt anyting cheating she will say no, she will even say she loves me so much, now should i play along nd Bleep d hell out of her or just break up nd i really love her
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by Tkayhandsome(m): 6:32am On Aug 21, 2016
You are not married to her, so she is not really into you.
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by stevehenry: 6:38am On Aug 21, 2016
How I cured my Asthma after so many years of pain and suffering. l was asthmatic I mean chronic one I use to take aminofrine injection which will only calm it down for the mean time and before you know it,it will start again I can't eat pepe food ,can't drink shield water, can't play ball with my friends, I can't do many things. I feel abnormal and dying. My attack started one day that I can't even breath, my mummy was crying and my Daddy got a connection of a hospital in Abakiliki that specialises in asthmatic issues. I was sent to the hospital after some months I was OK I came back home. after some months it started again. I continued using my franol to survive every morning 2tablet. before I sleep 2tablet. Later am to travel abroad for treatment and a man that over heard my Daddy telling his friends that he wants to travel me abroad called my Daddy's attention and told him of a doctor that cured his own, According to my Daddy the man is wealthy and a traveller. that he always travel abroad he stated that when he was having asthma that he can't even stay in the plane. the a.c and the weather of the country always brings his attack up till he met a doctor who cured him under two weeks. He gave my Daddy the doctors number we called the doctor. He was far from us so he had to send us the drug by waybill. we received and the drug was to be taken monthly. just the first week I felt a difference in me till today two years now. Am free. And because I know what I was going through then something in me told me to post this for people in the condition here is the doctors number08107729412

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Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by taylor88(m): 6:40am On Aug 21, 2016
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by Ezedon(m): 6:43am On Aug 21, 2016
Having a cheating wife will make you to die before your time, so i'll advice you forget her if you can

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Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by Amazingcidpro(m): 6:44am On Aug 21, 2016
i knw am nt yet married to her bt i asked her, i told her the kinda person i am nd what i wa t nd what i dont like, even if am nt yet married , she should be loyal
faithful
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by myfantasies(f): 6:52am On Aug 21, 2016
Op... .

U have a gf dat is cheating on u nd u r asking us to do wat

R u a kid

Do you want us to advice u to cheat on her too, after all two can play dat game

Or u want us to advice u to walk away

Which do you want?

Cos it seems to me that you are not man enough to make decisions

By the way where is Mediapace

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Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by nonjebose(m): 6:54am On Aug 21, 2016
Amazingcidpro:
i knw am nt yet married to her bt i asked her, i told her the kinda person i am nd what i wa t nd what i dont like, even if am nt yet married , she should be loyal
faithful
Since she is not " loyal and faithful", you know what to do next. Knowing that you are not married to her, go your separate ways, end of discussion
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by byvan03: 6:56am On Aug 21, 2016
End the relationship and delete her room mate too , lose contact with both ladies. Which other hell are you bleeping out of her? Isn't it the same hell that you been bleeping out and she still cheats? Count your losses and move on.
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by Nobody: 7:05am On Aug 21, 2016
This op funny I swear. Gal dey go campus, u say make she no shiit on you, nothing is easier in campus my dear. R.I.P to d relationship, take heart.

But don't brk up just remove ur mind and find anoda gal. Then anytime she comes home from sch or u see each other, Bleep her very hard with vex

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Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by LilSmith55(m): 7:13am On Aug 21, 2016
Sidon Dere Make Boxer Dey Wear You... Leave The Girl Jare, Don't Worry She Would Come Back After Bobo Don Do Her Strong Thing
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by paschal47(m): 7:17am On Aug 21, 2016
the heartbreak is causing you to type trash.


guy you've lost it.



lemme ask you are question, are you also in school? if no, then 'forgerrit' bro she just upgraded.
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by Nobody: 7:35am On Aug 21, 2016
Amazingcidpro:
we have been dating for a year nw, before she went bck to skul, i called her nd i sat her down nd i told her, that i love her so much nd i want to spend d rest of my life with her nd that lets be sincere with our selves nd of she knws she doesnt love me that muj or she doesnt want to be with me she should tell me or if she gona cheat on me , its better i knw nw nd maybe stop it nw before getting into some ting serious, bt she saod she loves me, she wont cheat nd she will love to be with me , we agreed nd she left for skul, after like dew months, i saw on her dp she nd a guy pic mixed togeda, nd there was wring saying will always love u my sweetheart, i was shocked , i sent her a message askin her who is that guy nd whats d meaning of her dp, she said it was a mistake nd it was someone that uploaded it , sje said she was charging it at d hostel, i asked my self , hw can someone access ur fone, nt only that, access ur whatsapp nd upload such pic without u knwing , wen nd hw did d picerson get nd pic mixed both pic, she said its one guy like dah is always disurbing her , after that few days letter, her room mate added me on whatsapp nd told me that she is cheatin on me, i asked hw she got my no, she said she took it from her fone, that she has told her to tell me bt she wont nd it hurts her to see a friends decieving me , she even gave me my gf nd the guys pic wen they were kissing nd other pic, nd if i ask my gf abt anyting cheating she will say no, she will even say she loves me so much, now should i play along nd Bleep d hell out of her or just break up nd i really love her
you are a fool, for repeating that last sentence again.



I have no advice for u! angry

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Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by Amazingcidpro(m): 7:50am On Aug 21, 2016
you guys no understand, i tink she is confused on who to follow, she keeps on teeling me she loves me nd she doesnt want to lose me, love her bt that was before now, alll i want to ro is remove my mind off her , anytime she come bck i go bleep her nd play along till she opens up bt if she no open up , maybe after bleeping i to tell her wetin she dey do, bt i was never in my life expecting this from her , was surprised nd shocked coz i did really lover her , maybe i will forget abt her nd d relationship nd play along, coz if i never knew should would be pretending to me till God knww wen
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by Mediapace: 8:07am On Aug 21, 2016
Right here
Happy sunday !!
myfantasies:
Op... .

U have a gf dat is cheating on u nd u r asking us to do wat

R u a kid

Do you want us to advice u to cheat on her too, after all two can play dat game

Or u want us to advice u to walk away

Which do you want?

Cos it seems to me that you are not man enough to make decisions

By the way where is Mediapace

Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by Sunkyphil(m): 8:29am On Aug 21, 2016
B4 u dump her make sure u fvck d hell out of her
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by brightalo1010: 8:40am On Aug 21, 2016
So the advice and risk her friend took to get the truth to you is never enough?I hate when one caught his or her lover cheating and still say I love him/her.......Is either u play along and forget about love...if na me na that her friend go be my last stop.I have done it before and ready to do it again.

Op never you type you love her again before I go vex give you. smiley grin

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Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by schumastic(m): 8:41am On Aug 21, 2016
I don't know about other guys in the house but as for me, I can never n will never go into any serious relationship with a girl still in school.
we v been there n we know how the system work..they have 4-5 yrs max to spend and 99% believe they have all the time in the world n more over their guy is not around them so they can chop n clean mouth n he won't find out..
I give ladies credit for this ability cus they can easily cover up their tracks n will only tell you if they want to or someone exposes them.
op u made a mistake but is something that can be fixed.

1.hardly before any female friend expose their friend except they feel something for her guy, am sure she feels something for u or I might b wrong but give it a try, and try n repay her for the info by creating an avenur for u both to meet.am sure u can handle the rest from there.
2.you continue the relationship but make it a living corpse, one that has no love,care,affection,financial assistant what so ever, concentrate on the sex part with protection this time around if you haven't b using any n most importantly have lots of side chick it is very very important cus it has been saving man since the days of David n goliath.
3.let her know the truth about what you found out n don't snitch on her friend.call it quit irrespective of her tears cus they are crocrocile tears.you can b wise to forgive her but you will be VERY FOOLISH, EVEN MORE FOOLISH THAN THE 5 FOOLISH VIRGINS IN THE BIBLE to say you love her n will continue with the relationship.

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Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by schumastic(m): 8:50am On Aug 21, 2016
Amazingcidpro:
you guys no understand, i tink she is confused on who to follow, she keeps on teeling me she loves me nd she doesnt want to lose me, love her bt that was before now, alll i want to ro is remove my mind off her , anytime she come bck i go bleep her nd play along till she opens up bt if she no open up , maybe after bleeping i to tell her wetin she dey do, bt i was never in my life expecting this from her , was surprised nd shocked coz i did really lover her , maybe i will forget abt her nd d relationship nd play along, coz if i never knew should would be pretending to me till God knww wen

hahaha both you and your so called gf are funny....first of all, there is nothing like love it was just lust n infatuation in the first place..secondly that other guy doesn't know she has a bf.
bro my advice to you is very simple, Infact if am u i wil thank that her friend that opened up yo you, she just saved you a whole lot, like cash, your thoughts towards your cheating gf and most especially any future plans you must have prepared..if you want to revenge u can date her friend cus am sure she likes u or you can continue with your cheating gf while u have other side chicks or end the relationship.your call
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by Nobody: 9:17am On Aug 21, 2016
myfantasies:
Op... .

U have a gf dat is cheating on u nd u r asking us to do wat

R u a kid

Do you want us to advice u to cheat on her too, after all two can play dat game

Or u want us to advice u to walk away

Which do you want?

Cos it seems to me that you are not man enough to make decisions

By the way where is Mediapace


Gbam
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by myfantasies(f): 9:28am On Aug 21, 2016
Mediapace:
Right here
Happy sunday !!
Where have you been
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by SmellingAnus(m): 9:44am On Aug 21, 2016
Op she is not cheating on you but she is cheating on her other guy with you... You are just a useful spare tyre to her just incase things don't work out as she expects with her other guy....

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Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by Amazingcidpro(m): 9:53am On Aug 21, 2016
tanks alot guys, hv heard all nd i know the righr thing to do
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by Nobody: 3:23pm On Aug 21, 2016
Tkayhandsome:
You are not married to her, so she is not really into you.
Gbam!
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by timsonpreye(m): 3:30pm On Aug 21, 2016
I don't get to read all the story wat I wana tell u is to bleep her n zoom off, she ain't worth u bro...hoes ain't royal...
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by Ifakiland(m): 4:23pm On Aug 21, 2016
Give me her number...lemme break her heart for u, dats wat I do for a living...
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by Nobody: 4:42pm On Aug 21, 2016
Welcome to reality bro. No woman born of a woman born of a grandmother go enter university and not cheat on his boyfriend Wey no dey the same school worst still an "omata".

Better wait for them to graduate before striking, the time for " let's catch them young" don pass.

When I was in school, I had girlfriends who had working class and businessmen boyfriends. I enjoyed them from Monday to Friday whereas those guys had them for only weekends upon say na dem dey pay the bills.cheesy
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by Nobody: 4:55pm On Aug 21, 2016
stevehenry:
How I cured my Asthma after so many years of pain and suffering. l was asthmatic I mean chronic one I use to take aminofrine injection which will only calm it down for the mean time and before you know it,it will start again I can't eat pepe food ,can't drink shield water, can't play ball with my friends, I can't do many things. I feel abnormal and dying. My attack started one day that I can't even breath, my mummy was crying and my Daddy got a connection of a hospital in Abakiliki that specialises in asthmatic issues. I was sent to the hospital after some months I was OK I came back home. after some months it started again. I continued using my franol to survive every morning 2tablet. before I sleep 2tablet. Later am to travel abroad for treatment and a man that over heard my Daddy telling his friends that he wants to travel me abroad called my Daddy's attention and told him of a doctor that cured his own, According to my Daddy the man is wealthy and a traveller. that he always travel abroad he stated that when he was having asthma that he can't even stay in the plane. the a.c and the weather of the country always brings his attack up till he met a doctor who cured him under two weeks. He gave my Daddy the doctors number we called the doctor. He was far from us so he had to send us the drug by waybill. we received and the drug was to be taken monthly. just the first week I felt a difference in me till today two years now. Am free. And because I know what I was going through then something in me told me to post this for people in the condition here is the doctors number08107729412

Bros, u dnt need a sow diviner to tell U, to excuse....some ladies are nt worth datin

#opinion
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by Vikky014(f): 7:17pm On Aug 21, 2016
Amazingcidpro:
we have been dating for a year nw, before she went bck to skul, i called her nd i sat her down nd i told her, that i love her so much nd i want to spend d rest of my life with her nd that lets be sincere with our selves nd of she knws she doesnt love me that muj or she doesnt want to be with me she should tell me or if she gona cheat on me , its better i knw nw nd maybe stop it nw before getting into some ting serious, bt she saod she loves me, she wont cheat nd she will love to be with me , we agreed nd she left for skul, after like dew months, i saw on her dp she nd a guy pic mixed togeda, nd there was wring saying will always love u my sweetheart, i was shocked , i sent her a message askin her who is that guy nd whats d meaning of her dp, she said it was a mistake nd it was someone that uploaded it , sje said she was charging it at d hostel, i asked my self , hw can someone access ur fone, nt only that, access ur whatsapp nd upload such pic without u knwing , wen nd hw did d picerson get nd pic mixed both pic, she said its one guy like dah is always disurbing her , after that few days letter, her room mate added me on whatsapp nd told me that she is cheatin on me, i asked hw she got my no, she said she took it from her fone, that she has told her to tell me bt she wont nd it hurts her to see a friends decieving me , she even gave me my gf nd the guys pic wen they were kissing nd other pic, nd if i ask my gf abt anyting cheating she will say no, she will even say she loves me so much, now should i play along nd Bleep d hell out of her or just break up nd i really love her
r u ok
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by Nobody: 8:17pm On Aug 21, 2016
Did we help you to toast her? undecided
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by OkunrinMeta: 8:36pm On Aug 21, 2016
You are. ....

I think you should continue dating her.

After all, love is blind.

Your next girlfriend has probably done the-same thing before and she might do it again, with you or against you.

Such is life bro!!! Pele
Re: Help Pls, My Gf Is Cheating On Me , I Need Ur Advice by chronique(m): 10:22pm On Aug 21, 2016
Jusst laughng....
SirJeffry:
Welcome to reality bro. No woman born of a woman born of a grandmother go enter university and not cheat on his boyfriend Wey no dey the same school worst still an "omata".

Better wait for them to graduate before striking, the time for " let's catch them young" don pass.

When I was in school, I had girlfriends who had working class and businessmen boyfriends. I enjoyed them from Monday to Friday whereas those guys had them for only weekends upon say na dem dey pay the bills.cheesy

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