I took her as a friend but she wants me to love her the way she love me, i have told her several times that i don't feel anything for her but just want her as a friend, each time she comes to my house she will always want us to end up making love never theless i still stand by my word each time we are together that i only want her as a friend. How else will i tell her that i don't love her?

So you still sleep with her eventhough you say you just want to be friends? ridi-fuc-king-lous. You are sending her mixed messages. Stop sleeping with her.

Get a girlfriend if u don't have one yet and spend more time with your GF den she will understand dat

Must u sleep with every girl that comes ur way? TA!!!
BY SLEEPING WITH HER U R GIVING HER OP

Guy u try well well!stop sleeping with her!
if she insisting u must date her then
start avoiding her.
u dey Bleep her steady and still pretending u just want her as a friend.
Na every friend u dey Bleep?

i think the poster meant to say he has been refusing her sexual advances.

So you still sleep with her eventhough you say you just want to be friends? ridi-fuc-king-lous. You are sending her mixed messages. Stop sleeping with her.

Exactly!! But I guess she's good enof to sleepwiv but not good enof to love eh?  

Anyway if you really want her to get the message, first of all you stop sleeping with her, the you  . .

Get a girlfriend if u don't have one yet and spend more time with your GF den she will understand dat

At least this one is right on this.

We have a follow follow mentality in this nation.Ebony makes a mistake in reading the posters post and the others follow her and chew him up.He said he rejects her advances.Christ! Nigerians

And in the advances he rejects it covers sexual advances correct me if am wrong uju i think it's not fair the poster hasn't said he slept with her he only said she wants them to end up making love so you have no right to attack him except the nature of post is meant to attack him for not sleepin with her.Go thru his post again.Nice one poster but as for me i can't do that.Eat or being eaten is my philosophy.

If she doesn't want to listen to you, use SLAPS, KICKS and PUNCHES. . .

and KNOCKS.

Not to forget FLYING KICKS. . .

@poster
I think you have made it clear you don't love her and only wanted to stay a friend. What else can you do to prove that? I must say every decent girl would respect your words and stop chasing you around. But make sure you said it clear and firm.

pc guru:

We have a follow follow mentality in this nation.Ebony makes a mistake in reading the posters post and the others follow her and chew him up.He said he rejects her advances.Christ! Nigerians

well maybe he should be cleary next time. He said anyrytime they are together 'she always wants them to end up having sex'. Even though he said he stands by his word that he wants them to bejust friends, he dosen't say if he at least satisfies her sexual urges. Friends do that you know!!

thanks everyone am glad i got replies but for some i said she thinks she can make me love her that's what i believe she is doing, she don't ever call me whenever she is coming to my place she guess meeting me at home or not, so how can i avoid her on this one when i know she don't call before coming secondly she is a perfect seducer i bet any guy on that but what i really don't understand is why i don't/can't feel anything for her.