Masturbation according to Dictionary, is a manual exotic stimulation of the genitals or other erotic regions, often to orgasm, either by oneself or a partner.

Considering a lot of negative effects masturbation has on person's health, personality, mental fairness, sexuality and affairs, it is believed to be a bad influence on anybody engaging in this activity also known or called self servicing.

The unfortunate thing about this vain activity is that married people also do it. While some people erroneously believe that masturbation is only engaged in by singles.

Not even the availability of a man's wife or a woman's husband has been able to stop the married people that engage in this activity from doing it. This is surprising, but it is true. Which simply means, masturbation isn't only caused by a lack of sex or being unmarried.

While we can't categorically say is if singles go into masturbation than the married, but there are views that both single girls and boys do self servicing too. Some people masturbate for fun, pleasure, for reasons unknown to them, some for sexual satisfaction and some for relieve etc

What Are The Signs You Are Slipping Into Masturbation

1. Are you always in solitary?
If you are always by yourself, you don't mix up or go out to catch fresh air with friends, family or visit recreational centers, the possibility of being tempted to play with your genital is high.

While this does not necessarily mean being by oneself all the time can cause one to go into masturbation, it is believed it has high tendency of leading one into this act of self servicing if it's becoming too much.

Too much of everything is bad, as they say, we therefore advise that no one should put himself or herself in solitary for too long of a time, no matter what the reasons for this decision might be. Try going out, learn new thing, do new thing, meet new people. It makes life more meaningful.

2. Are you always idle?
People say idle hand is a devil's workshop. Some people say it's idle mind that's devil's workshop. Looking closely at the two explanations about being idle one can say that, it is true that devil and his thought can over shadow anyone who is idle.

If you aren't actively busy or intentionally productive, what are you going to be doing? If whatever you are doing is not tasking enough to involve using your brain and mental alertness that will eventually lead to productivity we can say you are idle.

And being idle can lead you into masturbation. You can now sense it yourself if you would be going into masturbation soon, when you notice your idleness.

The fact that you are playing video games with friends or even alone doesn't amount to not being idle. You can be gossiping with friends because you are idle. Can you now see what it means to be idle? You must be productive in your activities before you can be qualified for being gainfully engaged. Otherwise, you are idle.

3. Are you exposed to pornography?
This is one other thing that drags people into masturbation and in turn destroy many married men sexual life. Being exposed to pornography will drag you into self servicing unless you trash the pictures right away.

One time or the other one or two of us have seen pornography pictures or even kept the videos on our computer or phones before, the research has shown. But that still doesn't make pornography a good thing. It has a lot of negative effects, one of it is masturbation.

You can get out of masturbation, you can bring yourself back from going deeper into it or even stop yourself from slipping into it all if you observe to do the suggestions here in this write-up.

The more reason why it is bad to go into masturbation is that it's always difficult to stop once you start.

Source: www.olulinks.com

Nice.All it takes is self control though difficult, but it can be achieved.

bastian5050:
Nice.All it takes is self control though difficult, but it can be achieved.

Very difficult. But some people don't wanna get out of it.