Ebonyeyes:

I smell inferiority complex

redsky1:

so i take it when you have a daughter you will not allow her to go to university right or better still u will marry a high school drop out?

what a waste of internet space this topic is taking up

redsky1:

no i can't that's why i am writing. KMT

has any woman come out and said that being educated makes her marriage material cos from my experience the opposite seems to be true (especially in Nigeria) i mean a lot of insecure men cannot handle an educated woman so marry semi - illiterates or women who have a degree for mouth but nothing upstairs to demonstrate that they have actually spent a good few years in higher education.

if i man is confident in himself whether his wife has PHD that will not move him - and when a woman meets such a man she will not even have the heart or face to do any shakara.

my views.

can i read?? very funny

redsky1:

no i can't that's why i am writing. KMT

has any woman come out and said that being educated makes her marriage material cos from my experience the opposite seems to be true (especially in Nigeria) i mean a lot of insecure men cannot handle an educated woman so marry semi - illiterates or women who have a degree for mouth but nothing upstairs to demonstrate that they have actually spent a good few years in higher education.

if i man is confident in himself whether his wife has PHD that will not move him - and when a woman meets such a man she will not even have the heart or face to do any shakara.

my views.

can i read?? very funny

Ebonyeyes:

And the church says AMEN Some men are running scared that women are going out there and getting degrees and are becoming so independent. We are no longer dependent on men for pads or underwear

posakosa:

Some Nigerian women, once they get a college degree <even something as small as an Associates>, they begin to Shakara like no man business,  especially the babes abroad.

Does being an educated woman automatically mean that you are marriage worthy ?


Why do some Nigerian women think that because they are educated that automatically means that they are marriage material, 

Pls ooh, STOP deceiving yourselves and work on your character.  Some of them start to do one kind of Shakara like that ?! YUCK!

posakosa:

The false notion of Independent is not even the point. The point is character ?!   Simply obtaining your nursing degree doesn't make you a god.  

Some women need to stop being bitches because they've had one kain degree,  eeew!  Some women's behavior even before the guy reaches out a hand, to talk to them is already turned off by their attitude.

redsky1:

can u just imagine the day your husband is in a bad mood or even worse starts with holding money from u and u don't even have money to buy sanitary towel for yourself - chineke!!!!!!!!! God forbid, my father did not send me to school for such nonsense.

look men up your game and start building confidence - using useless culture to dominate women does not make u superior to women - when u have confidence nothing will shake u.

posakosa:

The false notion of Independent is not even the point. The point is character ?!   Simply obtaining your nursing degree doesn't make you a god.  

Some women need to stop being bitches because they've had one kain degree,  eeew!  Some women's behavior even before the guy reaches out a hand, to talk to them is already turned off by their attitude.

Ebonyeyes:

I agree with you hun. I feel some men are intimidated by this and are using the culture thing to still hold girls down. In a few years hopefully we can eradicate these nonsense traditionalist views. Other men use their money but if the girls collect the money, they cry gold-digger.

Well independent is better than being called a gold-digger by you men . I think its a complex issue here I dont know any girl who acts like a bitch just because she has a degree certificate. Maybe these guys are approaching the girls horribly, step up your game, beef up your swag, times have changed and girls are not impressed by toasting tips that may have worked in the 70s

stillwater:

A bitch is a bitch with or without a degree.

redsky1:

anyway why the question - if u don't want attitude problem kind of chick and u feel its the educated ones giving u that that problem - there are plently off uneducated women around that will worship the groud u walk on.

shakara na wah o

Ebonyeyes:

Some men have a complex especially if the woman earns more than they do. Also we dont know this woman personally so we cant judge.  Just because a woman is unmarried, it doesnt mean something is wrong with her. Now she married this man but people like you are still judging her. Gosh what a judgmental world we live in .

If we paid more attention to our lives like we do to other peoples lives, society would be such a better place.

posakosa:

Right, I've seen the attainment of a degree change some women. Sometimes a bitchy attitude is escalated by attaining a degree, some women start to think they're gods.

Ebonyeyes:

Ok go for the village ones that you can control and intimidate then I bet your ego will rise to the heavens when she begs you for pad and underwear money.