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By Ekre Christian



Source: http://www.idomavoice.com/2016/09/exclusive-ejected-sammoses-enenches.html


We will keep you posted as events unfold.

maybe Paul enenche neva hear...c evil thing wey them dey do.

Dats serious o, may God help her, and wat wil happen to her childen, is it dat dey wont allow her visit dem?

jaymejate:
Ladies read this very well

Do not let any man acquire you like a property. If he dies, the family will send you away cos you'll be a useless property. Be an help meet not gold digger.

Strictly for those that want good marriage.

Back to the topic. Ask the woman if he hustle with the man. It would be NO, that's why she was sent away like that. And she should also have been an independent woman.

You were making sense, until the beginning of your last paragraph.

Tradition must be adhered to.She was suppose to be in her husband's house in the village to mourn the husband for a minimum of 6months.why did she disregard & disrespect her husband's people?

bennyrazz:
A family that has produced Pastors should learn that anything or scandal that comes out from their family becomes News and it is subject to heavy scrutiny. Dr. Paul Enenche should know this and he should know this attacks would be directed at him if his late brothers wife keeps making statements and giving press releases. He should intervene and call all parties to order.

The part that they are taking over the church like a property as simply or will simply turn churches to business venture in the eyes of an unbeliever.

ARE YOU NOT IN NIGERIA?
CHURCH IS ALREADY A BUSINESS VENTURE, FOR THOSE WHO WANT TO MAKE IT FAST....

eleko1:
Useless family . Abeg,dnt allow those hopeless pipu to control u.50k for 6 months ! May thunder break/destroy those wicked pipu.Abeg,leave them b4 dey kill u cos of vanity property

Eleko, dont be quick to judge after hearing from only the plaintiff. The other defendant may produce very weildy and counter arguements. The family in question is not a hungry family. All the Enenches are well to do including the Patriarch who is a well known traditional ruler. I believe this action has to do with the tradition of the Idoma people that said that a wife must mourn the deceased husband. How could she run to Abuja? This action could place her as suspect in the death of her husband. She know better having come from the same part of Idoma west or her parents ought to have advised her. I smell rat. If she did what was right, the family could have stood by her. Now, somebody is wiping sentiment and pity for "oppressed" widow without getting to the root.

neocortex:


Please , are you a Nigerian(you live in Nigeria) ?

yep, why do u ask

eagleonearth:
yep, why do u ask

Because wives being thrown out of family house after the demise of the husband
is a very common scenario and I assumed you will be aware of it if you
live in Nigeria.

georgee:
Stupid useless elders in the village. i no kuku ma get village

Ok U Be City Boy Abi?

agarawu23:
The family did something silly by trowing her out of her husbands house.

BUT

I will like to hear from the family as well cos the step is confusing.

I tire o, does it mean that she did not have a child or children for the man or what.....this is why men who claim they love their wives should do every thing possible to protect their wives and children future away from the hawks called family members while they are alive....that's why some churches who have been battling with issues like this came up with decision and conditions to ensure that you produce court wedding certificate before they wed you in church because of silly things like this.....how can they expect you to go and remarry at your age .....probably if you were a decent woman how will you start all over again like a teenager.....iam weeping for my nation things like this make us backward in Africa....can this happen in a developed nation...

FynBabe:
Why exactly did she return to Abuja so quick?
According to custom and tradition, she should still remain in the village for at least 14 days.
Could it be because of her children's school?

Honestly, I am confused.
All those village elders ehn, God dey sha.
It is well o!

Where is it written that a widow must stay up to 14days in the village? Even if she had stayed back you will still ask why did she stay that long.

She was caught on her matrimonial bed with a choir master of their church in 2013. But her late husband endured it alk n she is childless so pls let her let sleeping Dofs lie even though Dangerously. A word is enough for d Wise.

jaymejate:
Ladies read this very well

Do not let any man acquire you like a property. If he dies, the family will send you away cos you'll be a useless property. Be an help meet not gold digger.

Strictly for those that want good marriage.

Back to the topic. Ask the woman if he hustle with the man. It would be NO, that's why she was sent away like that. And she should also have been an independent woman.

She was caught on her matrimonial bed with a choir master of their church in 2013. But her late husband endured it all and she is childless so pls let her let sleeping Dofs lie even though Dangerously. A word is enough for d Wise.

Was she slapped too? I didn't know about that.
It means their problem didn't just start, maybe they had issues even before her husband died.

izzieman:



Could she spend 14 days with people who stood and watched after her sister-in-law slapped her for mourning her husband? Greed is the motivation here. She will eventually triumph over people who want to reap where they did not sow.

What stupid conditions are these in 2016?

jaymejate:
Ladies read this very well

Do not let any man acquire you like a property. If he dies, the family will send you away cos you'll be a useless property. [size=18] Be an help meet not gold digger. [/size]

Strictly for those that want good marriage.

Back to the topic. Ask the woman if he hustle with the man. It would be NO, that's why she was sent away like that. And she should also have been an independent woman.

I sing this like a song everyday.

Some girls just refuse using their brains. You call them on phone, their next line is, " I need money, or I am hungry "..

Nobody says you dont need money or aint hungry but the question is how useful have you been to the person you are demanding money from ?

They keep acting less priviledged. Okay, even if a late husband leaves a mansion for such a woman, she has no brain capacity to sustain wealth or business venture..

Coldfeet:
Please if you don't mind tell me more about the ogbadibo man, I have a sis who is currently dating one but the guys attitude is giving us concern. So many red flags and people who have heard/ seen him display always says the same thing! That ogbadibo men are like that. Please be kind to explain this for me as it's becoming too popular a phrase thank you.

Ogbadibo is a wonderful place to marry from/get married into. The Enenche's widow's experience is a peculiar one. However, if your sister is capable of committing adultery, tell her not to get married to an Ogbadibo man, else she dies in 7 days

Subject: RESPONSE ON BEHALF OF LATE REV. SAMMOSES ENENCHE'S FAMILY

Information of news on social media, blogs and other platforms reached us accusing the Family of the late Rev. Sammoses Odiba Enenche who has just been laid to rest barely 7 days ago of ejecting his widowed wife from a rented apartment in a certain area in Abuja which she lived with her late husband before his sudden demise.

The family of our late brother Rev. Sammoses Odiba Enenche who we are still grieving and mourning received this news with great shock and initially decided to pay deaf ears to it as we believe that mourning time is a period for reflection on our own lives while we are still on earth.

After much consideration, we deem it necessary to clear the air and share the untold side of the story haven received messages from concerned friends of our family who know us and what we stand for.

Rev. Sammoses Odiba Enenche, a promising and fast rising man of God suddenly met his death without illness. Glory to God for a family who without doubt and suspicion received the sad news of their brothers demise from his wife at mid night and decided to make all arrangements to lay his body to rest in peace without medical procedures of autopsy as required in our present times.

Thus, it may sadden you to know that the late Rev. parted suddenly with a lot that needed to be addressed and executed both in his ministry and his private dealings before his sudden departure whose cause was never known, as the family outrightly refused the need to run any form of medical examinations but chose to accept the fate.

In the bid to assist carry on the legacy of our late brother Rev. Sammoses Odiba Enenche, it was first pertinent to coordinate the affairs of his ministry Jesus Glory Chapel International in conjunction with his widow for which a lot needed to be put in place. The Siblings of the Late pastor came together with his widowed wife as expected to discuss the need to move on and to assist her move on in any capacity required.

It is however sad that despite the immense love and contributions made by the members of the family to support our Late Brothers widow and to help offset outstanding bills in the ministry which she would not have been able to meet up with, the family was shocked with the stage -managed reaction from a rented apartment, the rentage of which had expired since July.
The mischievous unwarranted accusation and defamation of the Character and personalities of the entire family is suspected to have been prompted by the reaching out of the family to help ORDER the affairs of her husband's ministry and concerns, to which she seems to be allergic. She is also showing signs of resistance to sound counsel, order, and wisdom.
So much love has been shown to her, shielding her from every negative tradition and culture against Widows after burials.

Therefore, for the purpose of clarity we wish to state categorically and in emphatically the following:

1. The Family of our late brother Rev. Sammoses Odiba Enenche are by the special grace of God well blessed and fortunate and have no need to desire any form of possession or acquisition of our late brother to whose life and ministry we have immensely contributed both in cash and kind over the years and up till this moment, being the last born his mother.

2. The Family of our late brother who suddenly passed on without illness are all known for philanthropic activities with track record of assisting widows and orphans in thousands. You may recall that massive supply and relief was sent by the family to Agatu in Benue State to assist widows and orphans who were displaced and with their husbands killed by recent attackS. As a principle the family stands against the oppression of Widow's and the less privileged.

3. The family was willing and ready with the full knowledge of the widow to make payment for the renewal of the rent of the 5 bedroom apartment in Abuja where our late Brother before his demise lived with his wife as the rent had expired a couple of months before his demise , all geared towards ensuring the comfort of his widowed wife.

4. We agreed with our late brothers wife that the Ministry of our Late Brother will have to continue as a legacy and therefore should move on. It was in the light of this that arrangements were being made to offset all the bills running into Millions of Naira owed by the ministry due to his sudden demise. It may interest you to note that actions had already been taken as salaries owed some workers were already paid on Monday by the family before this mischievous outrage of Tuesday. The Tuesday meeting was intended to continue the next stages of actions from the families own personal accounts just to shield her.

5. We wish to inform the general public that the news making rounds on social media, blogs and news platforms accusing the family of Rev Sammoses Odiba Enenche of ejecting his widow out of a rented house, whose rent expired 2 months ago. And asking her to go back to the village with a pay of N50,000 for allowance for 6 months, and all sorts of accusations are false, mischievous , unrealistic and a conspired and constructed attempt to dent the image of the family. Family matters are not meant for the media but to be settled privately within the family.

6. We wish to inform the general public that the entire Family are still till this moment willing to show our relentless love and total support towards the widow and ministry of our Late Brother Rev.Sammoses Odiba Enenche and we await her return to the house she voluntarily vacated without our prior notice and amidst all pleas to restrain her from her unilateral decisions and actions.

7. We wish to state at this point that she is free to do everything she wishes with her late husband's affairs and ministry. We have no intention to interfere in the affairs and ministry of our late brother Rev Sammoses Enenche since our attempt to assist has been misconstrued and violently resisted.
Every attempt to reach her since her decision to move out of the house has been futile as her phones and contacts have not been accessible. We however are available and open for discussions and conclusions on any pending issues as soon as she is willing to respond to our gestures.
God bless us and may we please understand that life is a seed; what we sow in time, we reap in eternity. Let's hear people out before rushing to conclude on issues. Let's be careful of making comments on issues we don't understand.
It is well!

Saao:
so u can't mourn ur lovely husband for at least 14 days? What part of Nigeria are u from?

its not a bad thing to mourn, but what if a woman has to take children to school or if she's got to work unfailingly?

Nigerian bosses especially in banks are mean

I see controversies in this. OK o. people sha