Mosesbutez:
just a small amount N2k, but it's hurts me so much bcoz I would had told her that I didn't have the money and would not had broke the promise I made to myself and I just lend it to her not for dash. despite my great friendship with her and I told her too to pay me back that money and she agreed with me. what will she do when you lend her N50k then? ...... am very disappointed in her

babyme1:
2k?

PreciousBro:
Learn to curb your tongue even in anger. I know its not easy but cursing isn't good.

Call for the very last time and be gently precise about how you need your money after which you'd have reminded her of your friendship with each other in order to reconcile with peace so she'd know you dont deserve deceit. Ensure she promises when to pay back,then greet her farewell and dont call back. I repeat,dont call her. Never!


Betrayal of trust is not good under any guise. I concur to the aforementioned in its entirety. But however, put it in a text message. Don't threaten her or use curse or verbal words on her. Just remind her how much her friendship means to you and that it's not the money per say. Wish her well in her future endeavours and pray for her.
Thank me later and the person I quoted.

Whether she comes to her senses or not,let her conscience judge her.

favourmic:
Hahahahahaha I can't stop laughing just because you borrow her 2k means she never see good things in her life again? Chai why thinking like this, just because of 2k she we never see good things in her life? Do you know what she is passing through? Don't you think she might even be of help to you in future with something worth millions? Brother you have to ignore your real ijebu man mentality. I have borrow someone 1500$ and he never pay me back and by the time God reward me he was even through the man if I don course am I for done loose another big money.... Please don't course your fellow human I don't want to know the reason bad eggs can be good eggs tomorrow

Mosesbutez:
I have a very good friend " A Girl " at my working place, she also does the same work that I do ( graphic designing ) but and payed a little bit high than hers and she behaves well, dresses moderately and acts like a well brought all girl. we did things together to the extent that when even I buys food, I share with her or bought for her and she doesn't the same for me, some of our workers even though we are relatives or in relationship but am just a friend to her.

I didn't knew her house although I can get it from her if I wanted and she didn't knew my place also but I can give it to her if she asks of it so we are just work place friends. later on, I quit the jobs because of my education and she also quit the job because she found a new place and she still call me on phone or we chat sometime on whatsapp.

then it's happened that she needed help so she called me on phone to help her with some money that she would definitely pay me back and I didn't know where she lives but the trust I have for her I agree, but I latter find out that I didn't has upto that amount she asked and I had promised myself not to withdraw money from my a bank account bcoz if I did, I might end withdrawing money unnecessarily, I decided to tell her that didn't have the money but I had already promised her so I broke my vow and withdraw money from my account for her then I directs her to come to my place to collects the money, the next day she came and I lend her the money, she thanked me a lot and I was happy.

before she left my house, I told her that I needed that money back, and I quit buying something just to give her that money then she promised me that she would pay me back that money a week after that day and I believe her bcoz of who I know she is.

could you believe that it's up two months she had not pay me back that money and she rarely calls me on phone or chat with me again, I'm the one that calls her most, sometimes she would ignore my calls and each time I answers her call, she would tell me I story or the other. sometimes I will shout and vexed angrily on the phone she would agree to pay me the next and two days and will not. I send to her my bank account to payin but she still didn't.

I was very annoyed every day when I remember her and how I stupidly break my vow just to fullfill hers. I can still locate her house but I don't so what I did is to curse her that she will never ever see good things in her life again and deleted her number from my phone.

so guy do all girls behaves this way when matter come to MONEY? I was really really disappointed by her attitude right now.

I had promised myself not to lend to girls again unless I don't intend for her to payme back.

MoyoGENERAL:

2k, where you see am bros! Please I can find that in the OP's writeup! show me abeg!

nedu2000:
Don't lend girls money,they won't and have no intention of paying back. If you must give then let it be an amount that won't put a hole in your pocket. Forget the cash with her and learn from your mistake.

Mosesbutez:
just a small amount N2k, but it's hurts me so much bcoz I would had told her that I didn't have the money and would not had broke the promise I made to myself and I just lend it to her not for dash. despite my great friendship with her and I told her too to pay me back that money and she agreed with me. what will she do when you lend her N50k then? ...... am very disappointed in her