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Character Of Some People Baffles Me by Ijeluv82(f): 8:05am On Sep 12, 2016
He called me one faithful night as of last 2 month and I picked, I greeted him, he did same, he introduced him self as my girlfriend's brother that my the sister who happen to be my friend gave my number to him, which happen to be that my girlfriend recommend me for his brother. We talked on phone calls then to WhatsApp where he now explain him self and asked me question of my family and I told, It happen that we are from the town, L. G but different village, but after we finished talking I called my girlfriend and she accepted that she's the one that gave my number to her elder brother. As that day goes by, we keep on talking everyday no day passes without we not talking at least 2 times and Most time we can talk 30 minutes, even more than on phone calls, we will have quarrel, we will settle, and at this point in time am addictted to hearing his voice everyday. I remember vividly when I came back to my house for my holiday he said we won't be talking as we are use to and I ask him the reason he said because am in my house now so that my parent won't ask who am always to on phone because we talk Most time in a day and he is always the one doing the calling even when I call him he will end and call me back, he never picks my call, is the one always calling, To my greatest surprise he has not called me for the past one week going to two weeks now, will call n call he will not pick he will not return d call,sent him a message asking to know if he is fine but no reply, have called d sister to know if he is fine she said he is fine that he just left now, ok now told d sister to tell him to call me, up till he has not called or even send a text message. Pls I need your advice because it gives me sleep less night, always thinking about it, even though I have offended him can't he at least let me know.. Pls pls I need advice..... .
Re: Character Of Some People Baffles Me by Nobody: 9:35am On Sep 12, 2016
Can you just move on and let him be.

He doesn't want to call you and is avoiding your calls.

I guess he has another person occupying his space now. It is simple. He has another girl in the village.

Just watch let the holiday be over and he would return to that "normal " sef. He has already prepared your mind for it by telling you he doesn't want your parents to start asking questions. Which we all know is a lie.

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Re: Character Of Some People Baffles Me by Ijeluv82(f): 10:37am On Sep 12, 2016
He is not in d village, he reside at lagos
Re: Character Of Some People Baffles Me by crackhaus: 2:56pm On Sep 12, 2016
Ijeluv82:
Pls I need your advice because it gives me sleep less night, always thinking about it, even though I have offended him can't he at least let me know.. Pls pls I need advice..... .
You're not busy, daz why.
Lover girl!

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Re: Character Of Some People Baffles Me by byvan03: 3:39pm On Sep 12, 2016
Better move on before he starts dribbling you, get busy .

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Re: Character Of Some People Baffles Me by lilmax(m): 3:59pm On Sep 12, 2016
love grin.....don't worry you will get over it, it's a matter of time

he just found out you are not his type, sorrrrry

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Re: Character Of Some People Baffles Me by Florblu(f): 4:17pm On Sep 12, 2016
Be glad he doesn't wants to give you false hope.

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Re: Character Of Some People Baffles Me by sisisioge: 4:28pm On Sep 12, 2016
Oh baaaby...chai! So sorry to hear.

You and your friend should know to follow the girl's code...
-Never date your friends' siblings unless it looks like the real thing. The onus of the initial guarantee is on the friend.
A rephrase...
- Never recommend your player siblings to your friends unless you know it's the real thing for you are absolutely liable if it flops.

Of course, there are exception clauses o. Your friend no try.

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Re: Character Of Some People Baffles Me by MizMyColi(f): 5:40pm On Sep 12, 2016
crackhaus:

You're not busy, daz why.
Lover girl!

Is it now a crime to be in Luvgrin
Re: Character Of Some People Baffles Me by johnson232: 6:13pm On Sep 12, 2016
sad
Re: Character Of Some People Baffles Me by Nobody: 6:21pm On Sep 12, 2016
Ijeluv82:
He called me one faithful night as of last 2 month and I picked, I greeted him, he did same, he introduced him self as my girlfriend's brother that my the sister who happen to be my friend gave my number to him, which happen to be that my girlfriend recommend me for his brother. We talked on phone calls then to WhatsApp where he now explain him self and asked me question of my family and I told, It happen that we are from the town, L. G but different village, but after we finished talking I called my girlfriend and she accepted that she's the one that gave my number to her elder brother. As that day goes by, we keep on talking everyday no day passes without we not talking at least 2 times and Most time we can talk 30 minutes, even more than on phone calls, we will have quarrel, we will settle, and at this point in time am addictted to hearing his voice everyday. I remember vividly when I came back to my house for my holiday he said we won't be talking as we are use to and I ask him the reason he said because am in my house now so that my parent won't ask who am always to on phone because we talk Most time in a day and he is always the one doing the calling even when I call him he will end and call me back, he never picks my call, is the one always calling, To my greatest surprise he has not called me for the past one week going to two weeks now, will call n call he will not pick he will not return d call,sent him a message asking to know if he is fine but no reply, have called d sister to know if he is fine she said he is fine that he just left now, ok now told d sister to tell him to call me, up till he has not called or even send a text message. Pls I need your advice because it gives me sleep less night, always thinking about it, even though I have offended him can't he at least let me know.. Pls pls I need advice..... .

My dear, learn to ignore.
You can never suffer for what is rightfully yours. It usually comes on a platter of gold.

Date someone else.

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Re: Character Of Some People Baffles Me by crackhaus: 9:07pm On Sep 12, 2016
MizMyColi:


Is it now a crime to be in Luvgrin
Love, good.
Obsessive tendencies, creepy. grin

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Re: Character Of Some People Baffles Me by Nobody: 10:32pm On Sep 12, 2016
In summary, Your long distance "bf" (You've not met him before) is not calling nor picking Your calls? I don't understand, what do You want us to do miss?

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