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Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by pressplay411(m): 7:07am On Sep 25, 2016
Friends with Benefits.
When I first heard of the concept of Friends with Benefit it was from an Hollywood flick in fact a titular movie starring Justin Timberlake.

But unfortunately 9ja Chics always have ulterior motives hoping to trap you with pregnancy.
Honestly I don't think there's any Nigerian girl that gets into a relationship simply for the fun of it. Contrary to guys, girls just can't distinguish between Main chic and side chic. Cos even the side chic is trying to trap you on the low.

So I ask is the concept simply foreign and impractical to Nigerian Chics?
Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by whitebeard(m): 7:14am On Sep 25, 2016
grin no they don't..tried explaining it to one chic and she was like ?

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Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by Nobody: 7:15am On Sep 25, 2016
Lol. The benefit they understand is money and more money. The nigerian economy and culture even makes it sound awkward to them let alone understanding it.

What is known here is just overnight hook up or so, perhaps from social media..she comes, u have sex and pay her, that's all..just one night friendship and its over which in blunt terms is prostitution whch s even worse than friendship wth benefits but they'll refuse to agree they're prostitutes.

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Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by pressplay411(m): 7:28am On Sep 25, 2016
whitebeard:
grin no they don't..tried explaining it to one chic and she was like ?

Lol I think she understands but doesn't want u to see her as a hoe. 9ja girls can like to form.
Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by pressplay411(m): 7:29am On Sep 25, 2016
RadicallyBlunt:
Lol. The benefit they understand is money and more money. The nigerian economy and culture even makes it sound awkward to them let alone understanding it.

What is known here is just overnight hook up or so, perhaps from social media..she comes, u have sex and pay her, that's all..just one night friendship and its over which in blunt terms is prostitution whch s even worse than friendship wth benefits but they'll refuse to agree they're prostitutes.

Only based on contract. grin
RadicallyBlunt:
Lol. The benefit they understand is money and more money. The nigerian economy and culture even makes it sound awkward to them let alone understanding it.

What is known here is just overnight hook up or so, perhaps from social media..she comes, u have sex and pay her, that's all..just one night friendship and its over which in blunt terms is prostitution whch s even worse than friendship wth benefits but they'll refuse to agree they're prostitutes.

Only based on contract.
Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by Laveda(f): 7:35am On Sep 25, 2016
undecided Actually they do, they aren't that dumb.

But walking up to a female, then telling you just wanna do the FWB thingy with her. shocked Awkward undecided

grin shey she's not good for main chic ni

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Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by chigoizie7(m): 7:40am On Sep 25, 2016
Ee hard oh.

But I had one sometime ago, the only thing is that she starts acting what I don't know once she see me with another babe. But she is free to be seeing other guys and I am meant to be ok with that, but in my case? Its a No No.

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Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by feldido(m): 7:43am On Sep 25, 2016
Friends with benefits(money) is what they understand, anything other than that is out of context.

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Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by Nobody: 7:47am On Sep 25, 2016
friends with benefit

That's a long grammar



Sex and money game. Will be more understandable to them

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Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by Beadex1(m): 7:47am On Sep 25, 2016
you wont understand it.....9ja babes are so emotional, once the meet a reasonable guy they are gamed up. Not minding that some of us have relationship phobia

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Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by brandonobi(m): 7:53am On Sep 25, 2016
pressplay411:


Lol I think she understands but doesn't want u to see her as a hoe. 9ja girls can like to form.
can u marry a hoe
Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by pressplay411(m): 8:00am On Sep 25, 2016
Laveda:
undecided Actually they do, they aren't that dumb.

But walking up to a female, then telling you just wanna do the FWB thingy with her. shocked Awkward

,
grin shey she's not good for main chic ni

Some times a guy is already in a relationship and doesn't want to complicate that.
Or he's interested in you but not ready for something serious maybe cos he's last serious relationship ended bad and drained him and vice versa. you know?
Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by pressplay411(m): 8:01am On Sep 25, 2016
brandonobi:
can u marry a hoe
How many times did you retake your GCE? So off point bruh.
Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by SafeDavid(m): 8:02am On Sep 25, 2016
RadicallyBlunt:
Lol. The benefit they understand is money and more money. The nigerian economy and culture even makes it sound awkward to them let alone understanding it.

What is known here is just overnight hook up or so, perhaps from social media..she comes, u have sex and pay her, that's all..just one night friendship and its over which in blunt terms is prostitution which s even worse than friendship with benefits but they'll refuse to agree they're prostitutes.

That's deep mehn! cool

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Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by brandonobi(m): 8:06am On Sep 25, 2016
pressplay411:


How many times did you retake your GCE? So off point bruh.
that was intended as a fun question, but sorry if u got it d wrong way

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Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by pressplay411(m): 8:26am On Sep 25, 2016
brandonobi:
that was intended as a fun question, but sorry if u got it d wrong way

My bad bruh. Can't marry a hoe, obviously that's not the topic of discussion. FW
Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by Laveda(f): 9:21am On Sep 25, 2016
pressplay411:


Some times a guy is already in a relationship and doesn't want to complicate that.

He's in a relationship and still seeks Fwb? Seriously? Of what essence?

Or he's interested in you but not ready for something serious maybe cos he's last serious relationship ended bad and drained him and vice versa. you know?

Not ready, its still guys like you that would tag them "hoes"
Some girls can do that, go into a no string relationship, but tomorrow guys like you would come up with craps, forgetting you were both in it together..

Even when she demands for her share of the "money" you'd still come here ranting she had sex just for the sake of "money"

Confused beings.

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Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by Maxi112: 9:29am On Sep 25, 2016
pressplay411:
Friends with Benefits.
When I first heard of the concept of Friends with Benefit it was from an Hollywood flick in fact a titular movie starring Justin Timberlake.

But unfortunately 9ja Chics always have ulterior motives hoping to trap you with pregnancy.
Honestly I don't think there's any Nigerian girl that gets into a relationship simply for the fun of it. Contrary to guys, girls just can't distinguish between Main chic and side chic. Cos even the side chic is trying to trap you on the low.

So I ask is the concept simply foreign and impractical to Nigerian Chics?
actually they do understand but it looks awkward approaching them with FWB thingy

to me its waste of time

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Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by VanBommel(m): 9:36am On Sep 25, 2016
Laveda:
undecided Actually they do, they aren't that dumb.

But walking up to a female, then telling you just wanna do the FWB thingy with her. shocked Awkward undecided

grin shey she's not good for main chic ni
who main chic don help for this naija economy? undecided undecided

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Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by LorDBolton(m): 9:53am On Sep 25, 2016
Very few azzin... 1% of the naija female population understand fwb
Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by pressplay411(m): 10:47am On Sep 25, 2016
Laveda:


He's in a relationship and still seeks Fwb? Seriously? Of what essence?



Not ready, its still guys like you that would tag them "hoes"
Some girls can do that, go into a no string relationship, but tomorrow guys like you would come up with craps, forgetting you were both in it together..

Even when she demands for her share of the "money" you'd still come here ranting she had sex just for the sake of "money"

Confused beings.

Every guy has an idea who he wants to marry, his ideal woman.
It's not his fault if you don't meet the criteria but yet he's very much attracted to and interested in you. So if you're both attracted to each other and understand it's not meant to culminate into something serious then I believe an arrangement can be reached as long as it's a mutual understanding. Call it what you may, once both parties are adults and mature enough I believe it can work out for the best interest of both and doesn't necessarily have to end bitterly.
I have been in such relationships and it's just unfortunate it starts fine but eventually the girl always wants more.
Hence my question, is it impracticable seeking such in 9ja?
Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by metallisc(m): 11:08am On Sep 25, 2016
Laveda:
undecided Actually they do, they aren't that dumb.

But walking up to a female, then telling you just wanna do the FWB thingy with her. shocked Awkward undecided

grin shey she's not good for main chic ni

oya coman be my sidest chic! enough benefits for you o including out-of-this-world nacking! grin grin

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Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by metallisc(m): 11:09am On Sep 25, 2016
pressplay411:
Friends with Benefits.
When I first heard of the concept of Friends with Benefit it was from an Hollywood flick in fact a titular movie starring Justin Timberlake.

But unfortunately 9ja Chics always have ulterior motives hoping to trap you with pregnancy.
Honestly I don't think there's any Nigerian girl that gets into a relationship simply for the fun of it. Contrary to guys, girls just can't distinguish between Main chic and side chic. Cos even the side chic is trying to trap you on the low.

So I ask is the concept simply foreign and impractical to Nigerian Chics?

oya TrapQueen77 come and answer! grin
Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by dauntless15(m): 11:23am On Sep 25, 2016
Not at all, they think its that he's like a brother to me bull crap

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Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by RENOWNED2(m): 11:26am On Sep 25, 2016
The Nigerian Emphasis On The Taboo Of Sexual Promiscuity For Women Has Made This Impossible For A Nigerian Girl To Be A "friend With Benefit"..Its Not Their Fault Really.

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Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by gymnasium(m): 11:29am On Sep 25, 2016
RadicallyBlunt:
Lol. The benefit they understand is money and more money. The nigerian economy and culture even makes it sound awkward to them let alone understanding it.

What is known here is just overnight hook up or so, perhaps from social media..she comes, u have sex and pay her, that's all..just one night friendship and its over which in blunt terms is prostitution whch s even worse than friendship wth benefits but they'll refuse to agree they're prostitutes.


abeg bross no vex..................where is Trapqueen
Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by Greenbullet(m): 11:38am On Sep 25, 2016
pressplay411:
Friends with Benefits.
When I first heard of the concept of Friends with Benefit it was from an Hollywood flick in fact a titular movie starring Justin Timberlake.

But unfortunately 9ja Chics always have ulterior motives hoping to trap you with pregnancy.
Honestly I don't think there's any Nigerian girl that gets into a relationship simply for the fun of it. Contrary to guys, girls just can't distinguish between Main chic and side chic. Cos even the side chic is trying to trap you on the low.

So I ask is the concept simply foreign and impractical to Nigerian Chics?
THEY UNDERSTAND BUT ITS COME TO MY HOUSE TO FUÇK AND I WILL GIVE YOU MONEY USUALLY 3K .

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Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by Nobody: 11:38am On Sep 25, 2016
"Sex with Benefits" requires two basic things

"Good sex" and "financial independence"

Nigerian girls practice "Sex with Benefits" alot! (you will be amazed)

if a Nigerian girl is "financially independent" and isn't ready to be committed! this kind of relationship is her bread and butter!
Broke girls don't cause they need financial aid(hence your post) that's why you don't see more "relationships like this" in our society

When i was doing my MSc in London! i had one or two relationships like this! and it worked! #blame poverty

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Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by metroid(m): 12:06pm On Sep 25, 2016
Who wants to be friends with benefits with me?
Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by Nobody: 12:28pm On Sep 25, 2016
metallisc:


oya TrapQueen77 come and answer! grin






Have no idea abt it... grin

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Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by Garshyzee(m): 1:02pm On Sep 25, 2016
bbmpin:
"Sex with Benefits" requires two basic things

"Good sex" and "financial independence"

Nigerian girls practice "Sex with Benefits" alot! (you will be amazed)

if a Nigerian girl is "financially independent" and isn't ready to be committed! this kind of relationship is her bread and butter!
Broke girls don't cause they need financial aid(hence your post) that's why you don't see more "relationships like this" in our society

When i was doing my MSc in London! i had one or two relationships like this! and it worked! #blame poverty


Bravo bro!!!! u just gave an interesting analysis and dats d facts.... in Nigeria most girls are not financially independent... and i also think it depends on ur location.. smiley
Re: Do Nigerian Girls Understand Friends With Benefit? by Nobody: 1:07pm On Sep 25, 2016
Garshyzee:



Bravo bro!!!! u just gave an interesting analysis and dats d facts.... in Nigeria most girls are not financially independent... and i also think it depends on ur location.. smiley
"location" in Nigeria?

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