Some girls are known to have such a mind set. They just want to get married before her ex does. Cos most girls usually feel bad and more heartbroken whenever their ex end up getting married before her. And as a result, many of them dont mind settling for any guy to marry so as to get married before her ex. And also use it to spite him somehow. But some girls in the course of doing such end up marrying the wrong guy. And many of them are in a loveless marriage cos of this same reason. One thing girls need to realize is that life is not a competition. Don't cos of someone rush into something you might end up regretting for the rest of your life.

Op

Nice one op,I had DAT mindset lately ,wanted to settle down before him at all course, but got back to my sences when I realised that life isn't a race ItS just one step at a time ,though he is married now ,but am still hoping for the better n praying dat God gives me one far better than him....

ladies like that are always on the look for other worse marriages to validate their bad marriage.

mira24:
Nice one op,I had DAT mindset lately ,wanted to settle down before him at all course, but got back to my sences when I realised that life isn't a race ItS just one step at a time ,though he is married now ,but am still hoping for the better n praying dat God gives me one far better than him....

nice prayer point but dunt use him as a form of measurement.......pray dat d man God has prepared 4 u shd locate u not d 1 beta dan ur EX......ur ex may not b as bad as u av pictured him to b jst dat he might not b ur destined partner.....do av a nice day