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Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by Nobody: 7:32am On Oct 20, 2016
Hmmmmmmmmmmm

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Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by Bisjosh(f): 7:35am On Oct 20, 2016
My sis nd her hubby met at work place
Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by ikorodureporta: 7:39am On Oct 20, 2016
nony43:
How do people do that? dating a colleague or a coursemate even a lodge mate, I raise Beyonce hand for una


anytin wrong with that? Do u know how many pple have found their 'perfect' life partner thru this......itz all about maturity, & 'secrecy' is the keyword!
Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by Unluvable(f): 7:51am On Oct 20, 2016
Obama and Michelle were colleagues!
funny how people think in a linear way, there are several outcomes to similar circumstances.

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Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by ceejay80s(m): 7:55am On Oct 20, 2016
nony43:
How do people do that? dating a colleague or a coursemate even a lodge mate, I raise Beyonce hand for una

Compound mate nkò ?
Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by rocoh(m): 8:04am On Oct 20, 2016
spartoo:
Reminds me of the time I dated my classmate in the university. That feeling when you are with som1 you love. We went to school together most times (our lodges were a few meters apart) and came back together, spent the whole day together and repeated the cycle the following day until she left me for a guy in the same faculty cos he had a car.

THIS LIFE CAN BE WICKED



Love is wicked.
Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by caracas: 8:26am On Oct 20, 2016
Mznaett:
I just can't try this...no!
Keep deceiving ur self .........
Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by Justycxx(m): 9:27am On Oct 20, 2016
hefelove:
me na no deep feelings just benefit parol
it's gotta be about benefits, or lemme say "profit". Yeah to me relationship is a business and I expect profit nothing more, nothing less

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Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by AdisaOwala: 9:28am On Oct 20, 2016
Bibiliicious:
Dating a co-worker is a bad idea for me... apart from knowing the company's policy, keeping your work priorities straight and all that,

what about space in the relationship? Even in the closest of relationships, each person at times needs space. That is time to be alone, time to just be. Even as a couple, we are still two individuals and to grow as a couple, we must also be permitted to grow as an individual., even while we have a desire to be with each other all the time, we also must understand that there are times when one person or both will need to have time to be alone... Most of your day is spent with the person you dating and that can be bad.

Insecurity; some partners can be so insecure that they will get jealous when you talk freely with someone else or smile at someone.

It also depends on the people in the relationship, it might not work out for you, but it will work out for someone else.

What about a scenario where both parties work in the same company but in different sections/departments such that they barely see each other during working hours?

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Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by MrMacinterchi1: 9:35am On Oct 20, 2016
[quote author=spartoo post=50351297]Reminds me of the time I dated my classmate in the university. That feeling when you are with som1 you love. We went to school together most times (our lodges were a few meters apart) and came back together, spent the whole day together and repeated the cycle the following day until she left me for a guy in the same faculty cos he had a car.

THIS LIFE CAN BE WICKED

[/quote
Ewoo... Ndo oo.
Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by spartoo: 9:49am On Oct 20, 2016
rocoh:


Love is wicked.
aswear
Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by Krismart(m): 9:58am On Oct 20, 2016
Mine won't be called dating but just a story of "the other room". We both understand this and it worked for us
Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by DukeNija(m): 9:58am On Oct 20, 2016
If you meet the right person, it will be bliss. All you need is to be sure you are both responsible and really into one another for the right reasons.
#Experience

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Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by DukeNija(m): 10:00am On Oct 20, 2016
AdisaOwala:


What about a scenario where both parties work in the same company but in different sections/departments such that they barely see each other during working hours?

Even if you see one another. Its a risk worth taking.
Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by Bibiliicious(f): 11:05am On Oct 20, 2016
AdisaOwala:


What about a scenario where both parties work in the same company but in different sections/departments such that they barely see each other during working hours?
This one is cool.. I don't see anything wrong with this.
Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by Crixina(f): 11:06am On Oct 20, 2016
Dating a co worker is a no no for me.

Not that It can not happen, but I really don't want it to.

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Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by wengerly(m): 11:38am On Oct 20, 2016
Too late, we are married already. If you are smart about it, it wouldn't affect your work.

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Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by glossy6(f): 12:11pm On Oct 20, 2016
ikorodureporta:



anytin wrong with that? Do u know how many pple have found their 'perfect' life partner thru this......itz all about maturity, & 'secrecy' is the keyword!

16 years after walking down the aisle with him, I have no regrets. We are blessed with 5 kids and guess what? I resigned to marry him 16 years ago because we worked in the same office and today, we are happy being beside one another.

It was the most secretive relationship witnessed by those around us.

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Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by Ofklaw: 12:11pm On Oct 20, 2016
My Wife kisswas my colleague and we worked really closely , I am not talking about someone I know but my very self. cool
Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by ladyflair: 4:38pm On Oct 20, 2016
Even a street mate, I can't do that.
Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by Nobody: 4:55pm On Oct 20, 2016
heartbreak loading .........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................99.9%

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Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by Nobody: 5:23pm On Oct 20, 2016
glossy6:


16 years after walking down the aisle with him, I have no regrets. We are blessed with 5 kids and guess what? I resigned to marry him 16 yeara ago because we worked in the same office and today, we are happy being beside one another.

It was the most secretive relationship witnessed by those around us.

That was brave of you. If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't think of resigning o. I have to make a living
Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by apatheticme(f): 6:33pm On Oct 20, 2016
atirolu:
No photo of blacks to show us we are romantic

If it bad news now they use black people image

Bkacklifematter

Ha ha ha ha, Lwkmd. U people should start being romantic too nah, then we can start having pics grin

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Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by atirolu(m): 7:14pm On Oct 20, 2016
apatheticme:


Ha ha ha ha, Lwkmd. U people should start being romantic too nah, then we can start having pics grin

Am very romantic

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Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by madjune(m): 7:58pm On Oct 20, 2016
Sweet but killing.

Once she knows your salary, na you go dey buy her lunch daily even if dem owe una for months.
Re: Things To Consider Before Dating A Co-worker by glossy6(f): 10:12am On Oct 21, 2016
CFCman:


That was brave of you. If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't think of resigning o. I have to make a living

My dear, it was very risky and I wept bitterly as he held me in his arms, promising and hoping for a better future together. We actually prayed about it and in his dream, he saw me picking more fruits than him and it has been so. I have had 2 good jobs thereafter, all gotten through the pages of Newspapers, a multi national job and now I am on a Federal Government job.

Did I mention that I was preparing for my ICAN finals alongside my wedding? I wedded 10 days after writing PE 2 & qualified grin. One sitting each, May 2000 & Nov 2000. "It's not of him that willeth or runneth but of the Lord that showeth mercy" cheesy

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