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| I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by Talk2Bella(f): 10:25am On Oct 31, 2016 |
Hi Bella can you please share my story? I have been hurt so many times, many girls have taken me for a fool I used to spend money on them buy them things take them places but it ended up the same way I always get hurt so I decided to stop. I decided to just sleep with them and leave them since I couldn’t fund love not until I met this lady, she’s matured homely but not beautiful I wooed her and she accepted but the problem I have with her is the way she spends on me, she does not allow me buy her anything not even pant, she pays for everything and this is making me loose interest in her, how should I tell her I am no longer interested. Talk2Bella. You don’t love her but you wooed her? You were heartbroken because the other ladies just wanted money from you? She’s smart independent homely but not beautiful? She picks up the bills and this annoys you? Please what do you want? You have someone who’s willing to do what others weren’t and you’re complaining, you have a goldmine sitting on your laps and you still want to go mining around, you really don’t know what you have until you lose it. If you don’t love her because she cares too much for you please let her go soonest, tell her immediately let someone who will appreciate her find her, this is very easy, next time she wants to pick up the bills tell her you can afford it, don’t even wait for her to bring out money, pay immediately, take her out, spend for her, before she offers do the offering, her types are very rare and you should consider yourself lucky you found a matured woman and not a demanding girl. http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/i-have-girl-who-spends-money-on-me-but.html |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by kinggogo: 10:30am On Oct 31, 2016 |
2 d man  1 Like 1 Share
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| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by Presh900(m): 10:32am On Oct 31, 2016 |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by ikbnice(m): 10:42am On Oct 31, 2016 |
This guy seem concerned with only the physical beauty. She is not that physically beautiful as described by the guy but that beautiful heart of hers is about to be broken by this guy. God have mercy. 1 Like |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by Uwaomaokey(m): 10:47am On Oct 31, 2016 |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by vchykp(m): 11:05am On Oct 31, 2016 |
i once had a girl like that, she bought this phone am using presently for #45k.. the sincere truth is that i dont love her for one second yet she spends lot on me even tho she knows i could afford it,she went to the extend of wanting to sponcor our marriage, it was very difficult for her to free me, she was allover me, i bet you..! leaving this kind of people is the most difficult task ever, but the advice i will give you is to try your best to allow her go bfore its too late for you, its for your own good my brother, if you are not inlove, please dont risk it, let her go because she can kill to have you, make her see resons because those kind of ladies can hurt you if they feel betrayed. 1 Like |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by Talk2Bella(f): 11:22am On Oct 31, 2016 |
vchykp: How did you let yours go? |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by Nobody: 11:43am On Oct 31, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:A good friend of mine is in this kind of situation. He talked to me last week and I gave him my idea. I said he should sit her down, tell her he did not see himself getting married in the next 5years(on top say he want to make some dough of which is not true) and that he did not want to waste her time(the babe is set for marriage). I told him to tell her that she should not depend on him and whenever she sees a better man, she's free to go. It's very simple to me. Guys don't be a time waster! If you are not feeling it, let her go. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Yes, she will be hurt but she will be happy that you did not deceive her and later dump her when it's getting late. Time heals all wounds! 1 Like |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by Talk2Bella(f): 11:52am On Oct 31, 2016 |
MissHatey: Clap for yourself  |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by Nobody: 11:53am On Oct 31, 2016 |
am here to read comments |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by Nobody: 11:56am On Oct 31, 2016 |
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| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by buffalowings4: 12:08pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
The thunder that will fire this man us doing press up at redemption camp  |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by vchykp(m): 12:23pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Talk2Bella: she was nice to me so it made the whole thing so so difficult, but trust IGBO boy nah, i came up with long story.. lemme just brief it.. it took me like 4 months but i used my brain, i started with lieing to her that dier is a girl called precious who helped me so much who has been begging me to dis-flower her but i dont want to, i told her howmuch i loved the precious and how kind precious is,definetely she became jealous and demanded to know the precious, i declined and told her i dont want issues because precious is a calm girl, i told her about precious always but insisted i dont have anything with the precious, that precious is just crushing hard on me, SO on the other hand i told her friend that i have promised precious marriage and my family is aware of precious but we've not had sex, that its not like i dont love her friend, but i hav gone a bit far with precious before i met her, i still had to tell the friend i loved her friend who spends on me but am confused and needed her advice, after the discussion, i told her not to tell her friend, i knew fully well that girls gossip a lot,definitely shes gonna tell her friend,she told her and she comfronted me, i did not deny it so her temper could not allow her wait to hear the rest, that was how i discharged her 3mnths ago till date,she just walked away without giving me rat poison, all thanks to God, i believe she has moved on tho.. its a long story sha.. but i thank the Lord almighty for giving me the wisdom, shes just 25 buh rich, her offers where tempting tho, buh i had to leave because she wanted us to marry this december, i almost collected 200k to deposite for a car, and by now i for dey on the run because she go dey hunt me from every angle.. i pray she sees someone that will reciprocate her love. |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by 2SWT(f): 12:31pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
my greatest fear! God please don't allow me love someone who wouldn't love me same way. Guys please if you don't love her, don't deceive her. some of you forget you have sisters and someday you would have daughters too(my prayer for every guy) how would you want guys to treat them? 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by chigoizie7(m): 12:48pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
This man sef, or should I call him boy. |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by DozieInc(m): 12:51pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
This is guy is unstable, you wooed her now she is been responsible ( she is not a leech) in the relationship and you are complaining!, why did you start a relationship with with her? If you cant learn to love her and be equally committed pls let the good woman go, cos it seems you dont know what you want. |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by oscar4lyf(m): 2:02pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
any lady in Owerri who is lonely and bored ad needs a gentle ad fun to be with guy whom she can call on anytime, any day to keep her company shld private chat me or email me.. I'm single and searching for an intimate lover but not desperate, imo state, Owerri only |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by Nobody: 3:07pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Tsk....Silly boy, he not even a man. This lady in questions must have self esteem issues. The "boy" in question has "pride" issues.... The minute I sense that a guy I am expending energy on does not reciprocate properly, isn't in love with me I AM OUTTA THERE. .....many fishes in the ocean as they say. I would rather be with someone who loves me than one who is lukewarm with me...... It's better to have two people who equally love each other. I hope though I love my future hubby just as much as he loves me, but.......if not the case, I would rather spend my life with one who loves me more so --at least "romantically speaking". |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by Nobody: 3:08pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
chigoizie7: Boy. Yes, the lord should take devils power away.....eventually tho.  PS: can't decipher the rest. |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by AnaCheks(m): 4:39pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
2SWT:I pray with you ooo AMEN!! |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by Cholls(m): 4:41pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
2SWT:my sister the guy is a confused soul. |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by chigoizie7(m): 6:32pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Xiadnat: I bet u don't wanna know the rest. It is anti-God, it doesn't conform to the normal christian beliefs. All ye asking God to take away power from the devil, if God should take away those powers and give them to u, can u carry them? |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by talk2alabama: 9:51pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Hmmmm.. me wey dey pray everyday to find such woman.. |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by 2SWT(f): 9:50am On Nov 01, 2016 |
talk2alabama:I could link you up with one though if you are interested , forms are available |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by talk2alabama: 9:53am On Nov 01, 2016 |
2SWT:edakun please link me |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by 2SWT(f): 10:15am On Nov 01, 2016 |
talk2alabama:oya go buy form first |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by loadedvibes: 10:15am On Nov 01, 2016 |
Unwise fellow. See person wey you suppose love now you no love |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by talk2alabama: 10:17am On Nov 01, 2016 |
2SWT:tell me Na.. hw much.. let's chat offline |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by Nobody: 10:29am On Nov 01, 2016 |
Guys don't necessarily woo/toast ladies because they genuinely like them -- some do though. For some it is because it has become a reflex action that they cannot control – these set of guys are already chirruping away memorized pickup lines before it registers that the lady they are flirting with is old enough to be their great-grandmother. For others like me, I use it as an engine oil to lubricate my skills. Nothing more, nothing less. I do not think I ever wooed anyone I got serious with -- the relationships usually just happened without the ‘magic musical accompaniment of pomp and circumstance’. I think this guy is like many other guys out there that only woo to test the deeps and to keep their ‘wooing skills’ in tip-top form. ... Talk2bella, maybe little icicles of anxiety over what he perceives to be a kamikaze attack on his masculinity are why he does not feel at ease with the lady always buying things for him -- he might even find this domineering too. I think his fear is that he does not want to be seen as a gigolo, and not because he is an ungrateful son of a bïtch. I also think the lady is trying so hard to win him over with her money in order to make up for her deficiencies in physical interestingness (I refuse to use the word ‘beauty’). 6 Likes |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by 2SWT(f): 10:54am On Nov 01, 2016 |
talk2alabama:OK I'd pm you |
| Re: I Have A Girl Who Spends Money On Me, But I Don’t Love Her by talk2alabama: 11:02am On Nov 01, 2016 |
2SWT:OK waiting |
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