Salam Aleikun dear muslim family, I am here to get enlightened on the issue of a bride changing her Last name to that of her husband after marriage..this is the article I got from whatsapp...I was told that the bride should retain he fathers name only...no addition of husbands...


Changing surname (family name) to husband’s
name after marriage is Prohibited in Islam
It is a common act seen across many cultures
that women change their surname from father’s
to their husband’s surname after marriage. This
is widely practiced throughout the world and
Muslims have also adopted it. But, how many of
you are aware that it is not permissible for a
woman (after marriage to change her surname
from her father to that of her husband? Example,
before marriage she was “Fatima maqsood Ali”
and after marriage to Sajid Siddique, she
changes to “Fatima Sajid Siddique” or just
“Fatima Sajid”.
It is not permissible for a woman to take her
husband’s name or his family name because that
is attributing oneself to someone other than
one’s father, and imitating the kuffaar from
whom this custom was adopted.
Allah says in Surah Ahzaab, ayah 5:
ﺍﺩْﻋُﻮﻫُﻢْ ﻟِﺂﺑَﺎﺋِﻬِﻢْ ﻫُﻮَ ﺃَﻗْﺴَﻂُ ﻋِﻨﺪَ
ﺍﻟﻠَّـﻪِ ۚ ﻓَﺈِﻥ ﻟَّﻢْ ﺗَﻌْﻠَﻤُﻮﺍ ﺁﺑَﺎﺀَﻫُﻢْ
ﻓَﺈِﺧْﻮَﺍﻧُﻜُﻢْ ﻓِﻲ ﺍﻟﺪِّﻳﻦِ
ﻭَﻣَﻮَﺍﻟِﻴﻜُﻢْ ۚ ﻭَﻟَﻴْﺲَ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻜُﻢْ ﺟُﻨَﺎﺡٌ ﻓِﻴﻤَﺎ
ﺃَﺧْﻄَﺄْﺗُﻢ ﺑِﻪِ ﻭَﻟَـٰﻜِﻦ ﻣَّﺎ ﺗَﻌَﻤَّﺪَﺕْ
ﻗُﻠُﻮﺑُﻜُﻢْ ۚ ﻭَﻛَﺎﻥَ ﺍﻟﻠَّـﻪُ ﻏَﻔُﻮﺭًﺍ ﺭَّﺣِﻴﻤًﺎ ﴿
٥ ﴾
“Call them (adopted sons) by (the names of) their
fathers, that is more just with Allaah…” [al-Ahzaab
33:5]
There are some very stern warnings regarding
this from Allah and his Prophet (pbuh). Read
below:
“( ﻭﻗﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﻨﺒﻲ ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠّﻢ : ﻣَﻦْ ﺍﻧْﺘَﺴَﺐَ ﺇِﻟَﻰ
ﻏَﻴْﺮِ ﺃَﺑِﻴﻪِ .. ﻓَﻌَﻠَﻴْﻪِ ﻟَﻌْﻨَﺔُ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪِ ﻭَﺍﻟْﻤَﻼﺋِﻜَﺔِ ﻭَﺍﻟﻨَّﺎﺱِ ﺃَﺟْﻤَﻌِﻴﻦَ
‏( ﺭﻭﺍﻩ ﺍﺑﻦ ﻣﺎﺟﺔ ,ﻛﺘﺎﺏ ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ 2707, ﻭﻫﻮ ﻓﻲ ﺻﺤﻴﺢ
ﺍﻟﺠﺎﻣﻊ 6104 ”
The Prophet (pbuh) said: “Whoever calls himself
by other than his father’s name (or attributes
himself to someone other than his father), will be
cursed by Allaah, the angels and all the
people.” (Reported by Ibn Maajah, Book of
punishments, 2707)
Further more,
It was narrated that Sa’d ibn Abi Waqqaas and
Abu Bakrah said: The Messenger of Allaah
(pbuh) said: “Whoever claims after having
become Muslim to belong to someone who is
not his father, knowing that he is not his father,
Paradise will be forbidden to him.” [Bukhaari
4072 and Muslim 63]
A related hadith that supports this argument
although referring to male:
ﺭﻭﻯ ﺍﻟﺒﺨﺎﺭﻱ ‏( 3508 ‏) ﻭﻣﺴﻠﻢ ‏( 61 ‏) ﻋَﻦْ ﺃَﺑِﻲ ﺫَﺭٍّ ﺭَﺿِﻲَ
ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪُ ﻋَﻨْﻪُ ﺃَﻧَّﻪُ ﺳَﻤِﻊَ ﺍﻟﻨَّﺒِﻲَّ ﺻَﻠَّﻰ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪُ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻪِ ﻭَﺳَﻠَّﻢَ ﻳَﻘُﻮﻝُ :
ﻟَﻴْﺲَ ﻣِﻦْ ﺭَﺟُﻞٍ ﺍﺩَّﻋَﻰ ﻟِﻐَﻴْﺮِ ﺃَﺑِﻴﻪِ ﻭَﻫُﻮَ ﻳَﻌْﻠَﻤُﻪُ ﺇِﻟَّﺎ ﻛَﻔَﺮَ ﻭَﻣَﻦْ
ﺍﺩَّﻋَﻰ ﻗَﻮْﻣًﺎ ﻟَﻴْﺲَ ﻟَﻪُ ﻓِﻴﻬِﻢْ ﻓَﻠْﻴَﺘَﺒَﻮَّﺃْ ﻣَﻘْﻌَﺪَﻩُ ﻣِﻦْ ﺍﻟﻨَّﺎﺭِ
Narrated from Abu Dharr (ra) that he heard the
Prophet (pbuh) say: “Any man who knowingly
attributes himself to someone other than his
father is guilty of kufr. Whoever claims to belong
to a people when he has nothing to do with them,
let him take his place in Hell.” [Bukhari 3508 and
Muslim 61]
It is not permitted for anyone to claim to belong
to anyone other than his father. Imitating the
kuffaar by dropping the wife’s surname and
giving her the husband’s name is prohibited
(haraam); it is also a form of falsehood, and
humiliation of the woman. There is no blood tie
between the husband and wife, so how can she
take his surname (or name) as if she is part of
the same lineage?
Moreover, she may get divorced, or her husband
may die, and she may marry another man. Will
she keep changing her surname every time she
marries another man? Furthermore, there are
rulings attached to her being named after her
father, which have to do with inheritance,
spending and who is a mahram, etc. Taking her
husband’s surname overlooks all that.
The husband is named after his own father, and
what does she have to do with the lineage of her
husband’s father? This goes against common
sense and true facts. The husband has nothing
that makes him better than his wife so that she
should take his surname, whilst he takes his
father’s name.
In many cases it has been seen that the woman
is not ready to change the surname and the
husband forces her to do so. Who doesn’t love
his or her own name given to us by our father?
Anyone who has done this must repent to Allaah
and put it right by going back to her father’s
name. Please revert back to your fathers lineage
or fathers name! Each one of us are
accountable for our actions on the Day of
Judgement! Don’t obey others to disobey Allah
(even if it be your parents or your husband).
May Allah guide us to the right path! Ameen!
Allah knows best!

The article you provided is clear enough. The issue of lineage is very important in Islam. A woman should bear her father's name. Her husband is not her father and should d not have that right.

It is left to you, after reading ng all the above to either accept what Allah says or follow your heart.

@arckanmi