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10 Steps To Reignite The Lost Spark In A Relationship by hyman9ja(m): 6:23pm On Nov 10, 2016
Are you losing the spark in your relationship? Use these 10 steps to bring the romantic spark back into love with a flirty, naughty and sexy bang!

When you lose the spark in a relationship, it’s not always because both of you don’t have time for each other.


Almost always, it’s because both of you just aren’t having enough fun together!

All relationships start with a bang.

And all lovers know just what it takes to please their lover and keep love alive.

But somewhere along the way, most lovers overlook the little things that brought them together.

And they end up in relationships where two people exist together only because they were once passionately in love with each other.

It’s a memory of blissful romance that binds them together.

And if you take that memory away from them, there would be no reason to even talk to each other.


Why do couples lose the spark in love?

The easiest *and yet the harshest* way to reason this loss of spark in your romance is because both of you have started taking each other for granted, and given up on trying to impress each other.

One partner may have stopped pleasing the other. And the other partner too may have eventually followed suit. And life just goes on normally because both partners now don’t need to try and impress each other anymore *because the other partner isn’t doing it!*

A few months or years may pass by, and one fine day, both of you realize that there’s still love and togetherness in the relationship. But it’s just not fun anymore!

The relationship’s boring, both of you just live together and yet share nothing exciting with each other. And both of you convince yourselves that a romantic relationship exists only for togetherness, and only the first few stages of romance feels like fun. [Read: 16 Ways to Save Your Relationship]

But that’s just wrong, because a relationship’s meant to be fun, no matter which stage of love you’re in. Both of you need to start feeling like little frisky, Hot kids again. And most importantly, both of you need to stop giving up on each other and make the effort to bring the wild passion and excitement back into the relationship!


10 steps to bring the spark into love

The spark in your love life may be missing, but it’s definitely not gone for good. All of us have a choice, and we can bring that magical spark back into love if we choose to. But you need to remember that something that’s been missing for a while would take a considerable amount to time to come back again.

Bringing the spark back into the relationship can be a lot of fun, and it can make both of you feel like little kids again, but it does take some time and patience. But I can assure you, with every step along the way, you’ll feel closer and more alive than ever before!

Follow these 10 steps by LovePanky, one step at a time, starting from the first all the way to the tenth. And by the time you get to the last step, you won’t just rekindle the spark in your romance, both of you would feel completely infatuated by each other, all over again!

#1 Make time for each other. Every big change starts in small ways, and this is one such start. The first thing you need to do is learn to make time for each other. It’s not about living together or sleeping together, but about bonding together or sharing something that’s fun. Schedule a few hours every week, maybe a Sunday evening, to do something that both of you enjoy, like watching a movie or working on a pet project together.

#2 Communicate. Don’t give up on each other. It’s the biggest mistake you can make. Making time for each other is a start, but communication is what brings both of you closer together. Talk to each other frankly *sugarcoating the truth won’t hurt though!* and if there are a few things you don’t like about your partner, talk about it with them.

And likewise, listen to your partner’s opinions and take them into consideration too. Try to change for each other and learn from each other.

The second step is the hardest step, because it may annoy and frustrate both of you. But remember, this is an important part in the healing process and it will fix you!

#3 Pillow talk. Don’t bring your worries into bed. Don’t bring your gadgets or reading material into bed. This is the biggest mistake lovers do. When you enter step three, make a habit of getting into bed with no distractions and just lie down together, even if it seems awkward or boring in bed because there are tons of things you could rather do.

You may not have too many things to talk about initially, but as a few nights pass, both of you may start talking to each other and communicating in a much better way.

#4 Get fit. Well, yes, this sucks, but you need to do this. Most couples let go after getting married or when they get into a long term relationship. They pile up several pounds, they stop dressing up and they just don’t care anymore. If you’re that partner, change yourself.

How would you care for your appearance if you were single, and if you had to go on a first date with someone you like, just how much of an effort would you put into dressing up for them?

Do you make the same effort for your partner who loves you and cares for you? Most probably, you don’t. And why is that? Do you think your partner deserves less of you than a stranger on a first date? You may not want to admit it, but the fact is, you’re taking your lover for granted and just don’t care about their opinions. And it’s time you stop that.

Try to impress your lover and win their appreciation. Look good, dress well, use perfume, flirt and attract their attention!

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