My kind of person.... I hate to be in any form of competition with any body!!!... Especially when it comes to guys!


Well, For the past few months now, I've discover that my boyfriend has been chatting with almost all the females on his Facebook. Okay! I have his Facebook password, So I've been logging on it, time to time, but never bother to check his messenger. So yesterday, i decided to login, to see what's going on there. Because for some time now, my boyfriend has been acting funny. Well, to my greatest surprised my boyfriend has almost chatted with all his female friends on his Facebook and the funniest thing is that, some of these girls will even tell my boyfriend that, he has a girlfriend and her pics is on his Facebook wall and my so called boyfriend will be like "Yeah i do have a girlfriend and I love her" but I just wanna be your friend Or more than....

Like seriously guys! Who on earth does that? Really!..... I don't know what he wants from those girls but whatsoever his plans his. Am not comfortable with that, and am so so confused and mad right now! Infact" am beginning to lose interest on him and I don't think I can trust him again....


Please guys! Help me what will i do ...


Well, I've confronted him today but what he's saying isn't making sense to me.

Please i need advice on how to deal with this issue at hand... I still love him!

If You Really know whats in a man's heart Op...Check his Messages with his guyz nd nt females...D onez with the femalez arent real

Before u confront him, have screenshots saved on ur phone juz in case he'll deny it..

This is not a competition at all ur coz ur d main chick.. But u have to sit his azz down & talk to him what's going on.. Men act funny when they are really cheating (they are so damn DEFENSIVE)

And don't forget to prepare his "graveyard" as well juz in case u wanna end the relationship... Coz once the trust is broken, I believe there's no point holding on...


Good luck

Jesus!
I though he was going mad because of weed.
Op, all the best with your situation.

Boys will be Boys.... Keep up or let go

Next time try check on whatsapp.

Stop going through his messages

It's hard to do but I assure you, it is better

What you don't know wouldn't kill you

Atleast stop if you wanna live longer

LifeIsGuhd:
Stop going through his messages

It's hard to do but I assure you, it is better

What you don't know wouldn't kill you

Atleast stop if you wanna live longer

Thumbs up for that your comment

LifeIsGuhd:
Stop going through his messages
It's hard to do but I assure you, it is better
What you don't know wouldn't kill you
Atleast stop if you wanna live longer

I will rather know n do away with it than not know and die of ignorance.

Op, Shebi he still love yhu? That's all

Why go tru his messages? that is not a nice thing to do girlfriend. No matter what, guys will always play games

LifeIsGuhd:
Stop going through his messages

It's hard to do but I assure you, it is better

What you don't know wouldn't kill you

Atleast stop if you wanna live longer

Babe, who told you that what you don't know wouldn't kill you? Just ask those people who contacted AIDS through sex... They know better... All my exs were busted through their whatsapp chats, and that saved me wasting my time with the wrong persons... I always say it bold and clear, if a girl deny me access to her phone but allow me access her private part, then that girl cannot be trusted at all... I let her have full access to my phone and I really have no privacy with her, but she claims to have privacy? Abeg who is fooling who?

ExAngel007:
Why go tru his messages? that is not a nice thing to do girlfriend. No matter what, guys will alway plays games

Babe abeg some future yoruba demons can be spotted and avoided... I never play games in a serious relationship, so not all men play games... Until you can give up your privacy in a relationship, you guys are just playing with each other

Op, no be your fault sha, na that your mumu boyfriend way gree give you him password I blame, who still does that

pinkycute:
My kind of person.... I hate to be in any form of competition with any body!!!... Especially when it comes to guys!


Well, For the past few months now, I've discover that my boyfriend has been chatting with almost all the females on his Facebook. Okay! I have his Facebook password, So I've been logging on it, time to time, but never bother to check his messenger. So yesterday, i decided to login, to see what's going on there. Because for some time now, my boyfriend has been acting funny. Well, to my greatest surprised my boyfriend has almost chatted with all his female friends on his Facebook and the funniest thing is that, some of these girls will even tell my boyfriend that, he has a girlfriend and her pics is on his Facebook wall and my so called boyfriend will be like "Yeah i do have a girlfriend and I love her" but I just wanna be your friend Or more than....

Like seriously guys! Who on earth does that? Really!..... I don't know what he wants from those girls but whatsoever his plans his. Am not comfortable with that, and am so so confused and mad right now! Infact" am beginning to lose interest on him and I don't think I can trust him again....


Please guys! Help me what will i do ...


Well, I've confronted him today but what he's saying isn't making sense to me.

Please i need advice on how to deal with this issue at hand... I still love him!

My dear, you're too young to die of heart attack now.

Please, stay away from his messages and save yourself lots of troubles.

Is e now on d streets eating trash n walking nakeeddd

Your guy tell other girls that he has a girlfriend and you are here complaining.

Op, your Boyfriend Is not going crazy, he is simply passing thru a phase in his life....

But, seriously if he has the boldness to tell other ladies that he has a GF that he loves, it means he still likes you, but he has this belief that he can still get someone better out there...and that is a sign of commitment phobia. Some men have it, but, it is the women that usually rescue such men from shackles of indecision. You can do this by being of good character urself and telling him how u feel...but if u have given your possible best and he is still like that, then it's time to move on.....

bibijay123:



I will rather know n do away with it than not know and die of ignorance.

for how long have you bn like this with my phone?

*space booked* first time booking space cos I'm really interested in which advice (s) above and below op would take. OP kindly alert me when you post. Thx

Best way to keep a girl on her toes is make feel she can be displaced and there is competition if she like fork up lol

@Harddon, am I right?

My relationship nearly ended because of what you just did but your boyfriend needs to be a super man that knows the right words to tell you.... I told my girlfriend 3 things after she went through my facebook chat with different girls now she loves me even more..

Singing out load....~shayo ~ shayo. run outta thread

Am so sick of hearing dis 'i still love him ' crap on nl jst break up wit him already

best bet is to let him know you know what's been going on

Fidelismaria:
Am so sick of hearing dis 'i still love him ' crap on nl jst break up wit him already

Girls don't break up with such guys who display such traits. The earlier you know this, the better for you and yes, they usually love such guys more than the ones who do not. What do you think a bad boy is or his traits?

pain ass
werey re oooo

for this period you still get time

Mayhorz:
If You Really know whats in a man's heart Op...Check his Messages with his guyz nd nt females...D onez with the femalez arent real

You be confirmed player, what most girls don't know is that players may delete their chats with girls but will tell their closest guys about their adventures.

bibijay123:



I will rather know n do away with it than not know and die of ignorance.

God bless you.

Thanks for your advice....

HCF:
Op, your Boyfriend Is not going crazy, he is simply passing thru another phase of his life....

But, seriously if he has the boldness to tell other ladies that he has a GF that he loves, it means he still likes you, but he still has this belief that he can still get someone better out there...and that is a sign of commitment phobia. Some men have it, but, it is the women that usually rescue such men from shackles of indecision. You can do this by being of good character urself and telling him how u feel...but if u have given your possible best and he is still like that, then its time to move on.....

Mind your language young man!!!

Not all guys are like you...

joe4christ:
Op, no be your fault sha, na that your mumu boyfriend way gree give you him password I blame, who still does that

What do you expect him to chat with guys ? Nothing serious "Of course"


For real am not comfortable with this your comment Sir"


Thanks for your concern.

Mayhorz:
If You Really know whats in a man's heart Op...Check his Messages with his guyz nd nt females...D onez with the femalez arent real