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Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Enybliss(f): 8:49pm On Nov 19, 2016

No woman will be happy dating a broke guy for long, honestly, because she'll need someone who would provide for her, care for her, make her safe so she won't look elsewhere, its not about gold digging, its just natural, among the other necessary factors to consider like trust, love, attention, money is the most important as it helps promote the other factors, but money isn't everything in relationships,

I'm not encouraging you to go into a relationship with a broke dude, but don't run either, they're two categories of broke guys

The guys who are broke because their Hardwork isn't paying off yet, they're ambitious, they have dreams and are working hard to achieve it, such people are good to stick with, support and believe in them

Then the guys who are broke because they're too lazy to make something of thier life, mostly jobless, and into shady things that might bring money like betting, those ones only pull you down and demand from you, when you meet them, you'll just know its them, they'll make you believe you should carry them along that things will get better, its a lie, run away.

Here are the benefits of dating a broke but ambitious guy

1. He respect and value you: most times they wonder why you still stick with them despite the fact that they're broke and have nothing to offer

2. No competition: you don't have to worry about losing him, because you'll feel secure, he'll ve the insecure one, always wondering if one rich dude is trying to snatch you from him, theres really no competition for broke guys, so nothing to worry about.

3. Super protective and possessive: he's all up in your business, always feeling paranoid in a jealous and cute kind of way just to impress you.

4. Romantic: he takes everything about you seriously, he's good with romantic gestures, and making little things seem big.

5. Attentive and a good listener: everything about you intrests him, this is due to the respect he has for you and the belief that he's lucky you stayed despite his financial situation.

6. He uplifts, supports and believes in your dreams
He never discourage you from doing what you love doing, he's also a dreamer and he believes you'll grow together, so he's always ready to advise you and support in every little way he can.

7. He has great regard for friends and family
This is very obvious, most times they even run errands for your parents, and love to know the people you hang out with.

8. Proud to identify with you or show-off
He's always happy to tell people you're his girlfriend, show you to friends, its like low self esteem but its more than that. They're alot of other benefits like being caring and all, but the bottom line is, don't run because he's broke today, get to know him and see if he has what it takes to improve or become someone tomorrow.

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Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Masonic(m): 8:52pm On Nov 19, 2016
Lol, I never knew women like it when men are possesive
Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Enybliss(f): 8:52pm On Nov 19, 2016
Masonic:
Lol, I never knew women like it when men are possesive
not all but i do

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Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Davash222(m): 8:57pm On Nov 19, 2016
Stop celebrating mediocrity.

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Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Ezedon(m): 8:58pm On Nov 19, 2016
This is where i will believe that money is not everything
Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Nobody: 8:59pm On Nov 19, 2016
what!!!! undecided

You guys promote "poverty" with so much public display of egregious ignorance. #destitution

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Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by slimthugchimee2(m): 8:59pm On Nov 19, 2016
why would i ever date a broke guy when there are big fishes around, bitch please undecided
Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Nobody: 9:01pm On Nov 19, 2016
Lazy girls everywhere.No be una dey make us not to save for the rainy day?When the going was good you will be making ridiculous demand.When the money finish you go call us broke.That is why I will not have a steady girlfriend.If you go another girl dey wey I go roll with.

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Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Enybliss(f): 9:01pm On Nov 19, 2016
slimthugchimee2:
why would i ever date a broke guy when there are big fishes around, bitch please undecided
you're female now? undecided btw lemme call mynd44
Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Nobody: 9:04pm On Nov 19, 2016
Yeah dated a broke in the past..
Bought him fa.gs
Even his we.ed sometimes
Train fares to see his mum up north!
Cooked for him
Topped up his Oyster cards!
Chai uni days mehn!!!
I don't blame him, I had student finance to keep us going!!

What did I get in return? A baby mama for us!! grin

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Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by slimthugchimee2(m): 9:04pm On Nov 19, 2016
Enybliss:
you're female now? undecided btw lemme call mynd44
i have been a lady......

and why is mynd being called undecided
Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Enybliss(f): 9:05pm On Nov 19, 2016
bbmpin:
what!!!! undecided

You guys promote "poverty" with so much public display of egregious ignorance. #destitution
but if we promote rich guys its gold digging

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Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Nobody: 9:06pm On Nov 19, 2016
I admire ambition no doubt but that's not enough in this country, there are many very intelligent capable young men who are being suffocated by a system that favours "whom you know" "which tribe" ""does your face fit" and do you come from the "right sort of people" approach when it comes to being successful how does he overcome that?

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Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Enybliss(f): 9:06pm On Nov 19, 2016
slimthugchimee2:
i have been a lady......

and why is mynd being called undecided
so you can explain to him the meaning of bi.tch please undecided
Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Nobody: 9:06pm On Nov 19, 2016
bbmpin:
what!!!! undecided

You guys promote "poverty" with so much public display of egregious ignorance. #destitution
@ "You guys promote poverty", got me laughing out loud.

You will never change. cheesy grin
Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by kaziblake(f): 9:07pm On Nov 19, 2016
bbmpin:
what!!!! undecided

You guys promote "poverty" with so much public display of egregious ignorance. #destitution
SMH.
Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Nobody: 9:07pm On Nov 19, 2016
Captainbells:
Yeah dated a broke in the past..
Bought him fa.gs
Even his we.ed sometimes
Train fares to see his mum up north!
Cooked for him
Topped up his Oyster cards!
Chai uni days mehn!!!
I don't blame him, I had student finance to keep us going!!

What did I get in return? A baby mama for us!! grin
Dey there dey lie.
Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Twaci(f): 9:07pm On Nov 19, 2016
Sometimes these guys turn to be overly ambitious and negative about everything if things don't turn out as they've expected. Like it's your fault or something undecided

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Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Enybliss(f): 9:07pm On Nov 19, 2016
Captainbells:
Yeah dated a broke in the past..
Bought him fa.gs
Even his we.ed sometimes
Train fares to see his mum up north!
Cooked for him
Topped up his Oyster cards!
Chai uni days mehn!!!
I don't blame him, I had student finance to keep us going!!

What did I get in return? A baby mama for us!! grin
isn't it obvious? He's a student
Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by kaziblake(f): 9:08pm On Nov 19, 2016
Dated one just for game but I fell in love with him.
Let's see how it goes..
Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Mutuwa(m): 9:09pm On Nov 19, 2016
Enybliss:

No woman will be happy dating a broke guy for long, honestly, because she'll need someone who would provide for her, care for her, make her safe so she won't look elsewhere, its not about gold digging, its just natural, among the other necessary factors to consider like trust, love, attention, money is the most important as it helps promote the other factors, but money isn't everything in relationships,

I'm not encouraging you to go into a relationship with a broke dude, but don't run either, they're two categories of broke guys

The guys who are broke because their Hardwork isn't paying off yet, they're ambitious, they have dreams and are working hard to achieve it, such people are good to stick with, support and believe in them

Then the guys who are broke because they're too lazy to make something of thier life, mostly jobless, and into shady things that might bring money like betting, those ones only pull you down and demand from you, when you meet them, you'll just know its them, they'll make you believe you should carry them along that things will get better, its a lie, run away.

Here are the benefits of dating a broke but ambitious guy

1. He respect and value you: most times they wonder why you still stick with them despite the fact that they're broke and have nothing to offer

2. No competition: you don't have to worry about losing him, because you'll feel secure, he'll ve the insecure one, always wondering if one rich dude is trying to snatch you from him, theres really no competition for broke guys, so nothing to worry about.

3. Super protective and possessive: he's all up in your business, always feeling paranoid in a jealous and cute kind of way just to impress you.

4. Romantic: he takes everything about you seriously, he's good with romantic gestures, and making little things seem big.

5. Attentive and a good listener: everything about you intrests him, this is due to the respect he has for you and the belief that he's lucky you stayed despite his financial situation.

6. He uplifts, supports and believes in your dreams
He never discourage you from doing what you love doing, he's also a dreamer and he believes you'll grow together, so he's always ready to advise you and support in every little way he can.

7. He has great regard for friends and family
This is very obvious, most times they even run errands for your parents, and love to know the people you hang out with.

8. Proud to identify with you or show-off
He's always happy to tell people you're his girlfriend, show you to friends, its like low self esteem but its more than that. They're alot of other benefits like being caring and all, but the bottom line is, don't run because he's broke today, get to know him and see if he has what it takes to improve or become someone tomorrow.

grin
Your write up is in tune with my own ideology of marrying a woman.I want a woman who is rich as well,tall, a beaut with very understanding and rich in laws.Gladly,my first wife is as aforementioned.

Our 8years of marriage had thought me that marrying rich girls is cool,coz a copious number of them are well mannered,compared to the fake ones who will always want to flaunt on all four,with rich dudes.

Fake Girls like that are nasty,ill mannered,possessive and fall in love at first sight with what they see,and hear from the guy,while sleeping with his friend when he is in recess grin then shamelessly concluding that true love doesn't exist.

I don't blame such kind of girls for wanting to marry ready made guys,believe me I am also a fan,with lots of experience.But one should be reasonable enough to know that,not all the time money really matters.

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Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Enybliss(f): 9:09pm On Nov 19, 2016
kaziblake:
Dated one just for game but I fell in love with him.
Let's see how it goes..
nice smiley what sort of game could you possibly play with a broke guy

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Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Nobody: 9:11pm On Nov 19, 2016
Op keep dreaming ooo... I can bet u are still a teenager. grin
Wake up and smell the coffee!
Fine broke guys feel they have alot to offer !
Go to dating section, see how many are craving and looking for sugar mummies or lonely married women.. You go fear, fear.

Especially to sugar mummies or lonely rich married women whose husbands is always on trips.
Trust me, when these women collect am for ya hand.. Y'all eyes will clear. And u will understand the adage that says 99 percent of men are unfaithful..

With time u will Understand better.. Just browse dating section and see for ya sef grin

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Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by slimthugchimee2(m): 9:12pm On Nov 19, 2016
Enybliss:
so you can explain to him the meaning of bi.tch please undecided
mtchwwww keep decieving yourself undecided there is no place were b1tch is in my post undecided
Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by makydebbie(f): 9:12pm On Nov 19, 2016
Dating a "broke" guy is cool. But it all depends on your definition of "broke".

But your points are more like irony in my opinion. Believe me I have been there you wouldn't want to date a possessive guy I tried it and got the beating of my life.

And who says there ain't competition?
....one sugar mummy can see potentials you can't see and snatch himgrin
Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Twaci(f): 9:13pm On Nov 19, 2016
kaziblake:
Dated one just for game but I fell in love with him.
Let's see how it goes..
This is beautiful, hope he's worth it.
Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Enybliss(f): 9:14pm On Nov 19, 2016
slimthugchimee2:
mtchwwww keep decieving yourself undecided there is no place were b1tch is in my post undecided
seriously? You aren't aware tou wrote bi.tch before nairaland changed it to dam?
Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Nobody: 9:15pm On Nov 19, 2016
Love Machine:
Dey there dey lie.
Broke guy spotted angry grin
It is well!! I'm praying for you..

Enybliss:
isn't it obvious? He's a student
Dude wasn't a student.. He said he was a rapper! Didn't get to see a mixtape from him not even for once!! grin
In fact he was a lot of things.. Typical Tyrone from the ends!! angry
Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by slimthugchimee2(m): 9:16pm On Nov 19, 2016
Twaci:
Sometimes these guys turn to be overly ambitious and negative about everything if things don't turn out as they've expected. Like it's your fault or something undecided


there have to be someone to blame grin grin

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Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by slimthugchimee2(m): 9:17pm On Nov 19, 2016
Enybliss:
seriously? You aren't aware tou wrote bi.tch before nairaland changed it to dam?
who cares, nairaland released it as dam tongue
Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by Enybliss(f): 9:17pm On Nov 19, 2016
Amelian:
Op keep dreaming ooo
Fine broke guys feel they have alot to offer !
Especially to sugar mummies or lonely rich married women whose husbands is always on trips.
Trust me, when these women collect am for ya hand.. Y'all eyes will clear. And u will understand the adage that says 99 percent of men are unfaithful..

With time u will Understand better.
be optimistic
Re: Benefits Of Dating A Broke But Ambitious Guy by kaziblake(f): 9:17pm On Nov 19, 2016
Enybliss:
nice smiley what sort of game could you possibly play with a broke guy
He asked me out and I reluctantly agreed cos he is smart and very intelligent moreso he is a graduate with a great future,i never liked him before but with those trait I fell for him.

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