It is usual for every girl to get 'chiked' by a man but when the reverse is the case, it gives the girl a thing to be concern about.

At times, I do ask myself why some guys immediately change their atttitude once a girl says NO. They tend to be nice at first, disturbing you with calls but once you say no, their character change towards you. I know some girls will be able to relate with this.

I came up with four reasons why guys do this.

1. Lustful desire： I have heard most guys say that the major reason why they need a girl is for pleasure especially if she is the curvy type. When you say NO to them, they instantly stay away from you. I begin to wonder where the love they profess has gone to.

2. Too many friends： Girls who say no to guys end up by saying 'lets be friends'. Well my sister, he has so many friends and see no need for more. All they want is a relationship and once they don't get it, they back off.

3. Childish trait： Most men behave like boys while the boys behave like children. They dislike you immediately you say no and cut off every contact. I believe this is childish and uncalled for. Real men don't cry over split milk.

4. Low self-esteem： It is difficult for most guys to summon courage to approach a girl. Most guys take weeks, months to practice what to say only for the girl to refuse the request. They lose that confidence in them and find it hard to relate with the girl.

I ask again what happen to the love they profess？or was there none at first. Nairalanders your views are needed.

Why do men behave this way？

So whah??

We should still b friends after saying NO

Nahh, all man should move d hell on

No is no! so what d fvck are we still friends for? you want me to continue to suffer in silence abi?

banjicom:
No is no! so what d fvck are we still friends for? you want me to continue to suffer in silence abi?

bros, take it easy

Those comments above me funny sha.

Op, like those my Niggas above have already said, there's really no reason to stay after rejection- we have to go!

Rejection means rejection! So as gentlemen who respect wishes and choices of people, we simply have to take a walk! Or would you rather want us pester, stalk, and probably threaten you to reconsider our offer?

My dear, when I come in the name of love and you say you don't want it, the only logical thing to do is to take it elsewhere.

Splinz:
Those comments above me funny sha.

Op, like those my Niggas above have already said, there's really no reason to stay after rejection- we have to go!

Rejection means rejection! So as gentlemen who respect wishes and choices of people, we simply have to take a walk! Or would you rather want us pester, stalk, and probably threaten you to reconsider our offer?

My dear, when I come in the name of love and you say you don't want it, the only logical thing to do is to take it elsewhere.

hmmm

Nice piece, Fp needs this

Cc: lalasticlacla, do the need

you see i feel sad when your sad

How about men who do not behave negatively? Since you're setting up a thread to shiit on men, I think it's worth looking at the other side.

amicable212:







hmmm

Yeah. So when next that guy comes around, think twice before sending him off. Because it will be nonsensical on your part to expect him to stay when you've already issued the red card.

amicable212:

It is usual for every girl to get 'chiked' by a man but when the reverse is the case, it gives the girl a thing to be concern about.

At times, I do ask myself why some guys immediately change their atttitude once a girl says NO. They tend to be nice at first, disturbing you with calls but once you say no, their character change towards you. I know some girls will be able to relate with this.

I came up with four reasons why guys do this.

1. Lustful desire： I have heard most guys say that the major reason why they need a girl is for pleasure especially if she is the curvy type. When you say NO to them, they instantly stay away from you. I begin to wonder where the love they profess has gone to.

2. Too many friends： Girls who say no to guys end up by saying 'lets be friends'. Well my sister, he has so many friends and see no need for more. All they want is a relationship and once they don't get it, they back off.

3. Childish trait： Most men behave like boys while the boys behave like children. They dislike you immediately you say no and cut off every contact. I believe this is childish and uncalled for. Real men don't cry over split milk.

4. Low self-esteem： It is difficult for most guys to summon courage to approach a girl. Most guys take weeks, months to practice what to say only for the girl to refuse the request. They lose that confidence in them and find it hard to relate with the girl.

I ask again what happen to the love they profess？or was there none at first. Nairalanders your views are needed.

Why do men behave this way？

If You say no to his proposal and he continue to make advances towards you won't you accuse him of stalking you or you will even accuse him of sexual harassment.But when he back off he feel completely free.You ladies don't know the emotional trauma some guys go through when they are being snub by a crush.

You gats to move on na

Most girls can be funny at times. You ask her out, she says No but she's still want you to give her attention. That's stupid.

Guys, women love male attention. Most times, whether she's attracted to you or not, she still wants you to give her attention.. So if a girl rejects your interest in her, quickly move on and stop giving her any form of attention.

Brothers be wise.

rejection is not easy to accept. People usually find ways to deal with it by accepting calmly, rejecting it altogether or counter-acting to appease their bruised ego.

In fact, based on personal evidences, I think girls/women find it more difficult to deal with rejection.

OP so what's a nigga supposed to do? Kill myself or kill the girl?

Now that U said No exactly what do U want again from the guy?
1 The guy should call U every now and then giving U night gist to make U sleep with smiles
2 For him to keep talking to U so that one day U will just be like my sub has finished kola i couldnt whatsapp
3For him to keep giving U attention, then one day when you are feeling happy, U will bethe one to initiate convo only to lock up for the next 2 weeks...

Madam we dont have time like that, our main babe is money we are only looking for a female to share it with so if you say no thank U and God bless, its on to the next one...

See women always want to eat dere cake and have it. D man dat woo u is pained emotionally dat u turned him down, there is ntn childish about him trying to move on since u dont want him. See we guys have been turned down alot and we know how dis feels. An ex of mine wen i was asking her out she kept sayin no one day i told her dat she if she doesnt want to accept she shd stay away from me. She walked out oo saying we wont talk again but in d evening of dat day she texted me saying she has accepted my proposal.

This is the most useless and senseless analysis I have ever seen in my entire life. When its being said that most girls have ‘fish brain’ I guess they are right.